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If DS #2 has a good attitude toward school and is putting forth his best effort or a level of effort that you are satisfied with, then discipling him for the resulting grades means he is being punished for something he really can't control. If he receives the "no screen time", what would you tell him he needs to do differently? I think you would simply be discouraging him and putting him in a "no win" situation.
As far as the "fairness", I would not let a decision be ruled by that. Each child has individual needs and strengths and can be treated as such. Children need to learn that sooner, rather than later. Don't let yourself be caught in that one!
A couple of other things I would challenge you to consider. One is the length of the discipline - 12 weeks. It's hard for kids to really "pay attention" to a potential consequence that isn't going to happen for a while (at the end of the grading period can be a long ways off for that age), and it's hard to have "hope" for things changing when the length of the consequence goes on for such a long time. Plus, you're taking away the option for you to use the "screen time consequence" for a long time.
The other thing is the concept of displining (or rewarding) for grades. Honestly, you're teaching your smart kids to "just get by", because they think they can do that and still get good grades. If you desire changes in their motivation and effort, then that is what you need to focus on. I realize that grades are more concrete and easier to measure, but as long as that's the focus I don't think you'll see changes in their effort.
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Well....I figure it's easier to send kids out to play in the snow, than in mud! :rolleyes: But I know what you mean. It was so nice this weekend, it pretty much spoiled winter!
At this point of winter, you know the bulk of it is over, but the last few snowstorms can really drag it out, can't they?
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We were already finished with SOTW 1 when you made the pages, so I haven't used them yet. But I think they're wonderful, and I plan to use them with my younger set in a couple of years. I would love to have pages for SOTW 2 as well.
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LG is a brand name - somewhat new to the US. Here's their website: LG Electronics
We purchased our LG washer at Home Depot.
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We bought a front loader a few months ago. I spent a lot of time with Consumer Reports! I also learned from talking with the salesmen at Sears and Home Depot.
LG and Whirlpool rate very highly. We bought an LG, and I love it. The door can be opened during the cycle unless there is too much water in the machine, then the door will not unlock.
I did not buy a matching dryer. As far as I can tell, the only real benefit in the matching dryer is just that - the matching. You will get "bells and whistles", but not necessarily a better dryer. We went with a regular Kenmore dryer - the largest size available. Works great.
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Dayle, it's good to see you here. You've been missed! I'm so glad to hear you were able to go back to Minnesota! I hope the remainder of your time is restful and refreshing, and a safe trip back home.
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Verrryyyy slowwwww here as well.
Click open, go eat lunch, come back and read the message. Yikes - I might have to actually do something productive this afternoon!
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Do the KK ever go on sale?
I've been looking at Klean Kanteens and have found good prices here: Pure Home Products. I've also found good prices at this Ebay store: Sierra Rope Products
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((((Amy)))). It makes for hard days when baby is struggling.
Romy must not have gotten my memo to all third children (especially those in homeschooling families)! Third children must sleep well at all times and in all places, be good natured, calm, happy, and eat anything and everything (but not off the floor).
Hope it gets better soon.
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You can get All Free & Clear HE liquid detergent. I buy it at Meijer - costs the same as regular All Free & Clear.
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It's a beautiful, cold, clear night here. The partial eclipse is starting - so cool! I don't believe I've seen one before. I'm so excited!
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Jann, what a wonderful opportunity you have! I too would love to hear about your plans and your trip, and I'll be praying for you.
I'm curious about what organization you'll be going with? We have friends from this area who work at an orphanage in Uganda.
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Wow, that was impressive, Rough Collie! :) I googled briefly, without success, and gave up quickly.
This looks like a neat book. I just might get if from the library.
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Praying for successful surgery and good recovery.
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Did they say if they would continue to make the e-book available?
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I think you can let her know that what she's requesting is something that's not comfortable, and "stretching" you, but that you're willing to do it. I think you did the right thing by going ahead with it. It's good for us to be stretched out of our comfort zone, especially for the sake of honoring others in relationships.
It sounds like you have a wonderful dil, and even more, it sounds like your are a great mil! I hope you had a wonderful birthday!
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We're using RS4K Pre-Level A Chemistry this year and have enjoyed it. The materials for the book are really easy to get - stuff you can pick up at the grocery store. I just made a list at the beginning and bought everything up front.
It is a drawback that the book is only 10 weeks. I am adding in LLB Chemistry (some of it, not sure how much). Another book to look at is Fizz, Bubble & Flash by Anita Brandolini. It talks about the periodic table, then goes through all of the elements and has expirements to go along with each. I picked up this book from half.com very cheap. We haven't used it yet, but it looks like a really fun book.
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I always had to have pitcoin too - ugh. Some of us just need a little extra help.
You'll be holding your precious little one in your arms soon! Praying that all goes well.
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Wow, Jean, you've really been hit with a lot of bad weather this winter! Hope you can stay inside, warm and dry.
It is raining here (yuck), so all of our beautiful snow is melting away. I guess it's supposed to snow tonight or tomorrow, but not much.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family. (((Monique)))
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Oh, would you like some cheese with your whiiiiine? :D (j/k, of course - I never got to be first either!).
The quirkiness of the old board was kind of fun. Just a few months before the switch, I finally caught on the the "rhythm" of the board. I would know when it was about to flip, and finally figured out how to check the post count.
There are plenty of positives here that outweigh the losses, though.
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Well...since I'm surrounded by Amish neighbors, I'm well aware of some of the hardships of the past. I love my Amish friends and neighbors, but they work so hard! I'd never make it. I love my washer & dryer, dishwasher, and air conditioning way too much. I do appreciate the simplicity and quietness of their lifestyle, though.
Since I had a very difficult birth with my first ds, I assume I'd be one of the many women who died in childbirth. :(
There are aspects of the past I long for. But life was very hard, just in different ways.
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(((Jo))) Hang in there, dear! I'm praying for you.
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Absolutely beautiful!
So *somebody* I know just got tenure... And I'm looking for celebratory ideas...
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No ideas here, but Congratulations to *somebody*! ;)
I think you both deserve a celebration!