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  1. Absolutely not. That falls under the "no way is this any of my business" category. Either the mother knows and doesn't feel comfortable sharing that information, or she doesn't....but soon will. It still remains none of my business. Unless that girl delivers her child on my kitchen floor, I would never, ever mention it.

     

     

    Agreed. None of my business, and it isn't my place to butt into their business. If the mother doesn't already know, she will eventually.

  2. Please don't worry or feel guilty. :grouphug: You are a wonderful mother. I will pray often for you and for your sweet daughter. I hope that it is nothing serious.

    I agree, no reason to feel guilty. :grouphug:

     

    That's called strabismus, and it's common. They will want to look for a cause (usually it's just a vision/eye muscle problem), and rule out head injury and neuro problems. If there is no underlying medical cause (other than strictly an eye issue), the treatment is usually glasses, an eye patch, eye drops, or in severe cases, surgery. Once it occurs, it doesn't get better on its own (and can get worse), so some sort of treatment will be necessary. It's almost always non-invasive.

    My DS had strabismus when he was a baby, and he had surgery to correct it. It really was no big deal (speaking from the parent of an at the time 1.5 year old who could not tell me his pain level and what not...), and recovery was pretty simple. He had a patch at first, (and depending on the severity and circumstances, may require glasses, but not all cases do....my son didn't need glasses, but a girl I was a nanny for, of the exact same age, did), then had surgery, and he was fine after that.

     

    I wish you good luck. I hope it is solved easily. :)

  3. My friend does that. She wears her babies almost all the time. It really is personal preference, though. I am more like you, only really when out and about (I'm a nanny...I don't wear my 13 year old LOL!) unless they are ill or I need to for some other reason. There is no "right" answer. ;) It is what works best for you and what you are most comfortable doing.

  4. She needs a blood draw to be sure. Mono symptoms can present a thousand different ways in a thousand different patients. Some people never even know they have it, other people are sure they're at death's door. Only a blood draw can tell you for sure. If she does have it, make sure her doctor checks for spleen enlargement. A ruptured spleen is not a complication you want.

     

     

    I went to the doctor for what I thought was strep throat, which I have had numerous times, and she did a mono test and it was positive. I had no other symptoms other than a sore throat, which went away in a couple days. I would have never known I had mono b/c I felt fine otherwise.

     

    OP - I hope your daughter feels better soon!

  5. Reality of it is, the vaccine is a crap shoot. They *guess* which strains may be an issue any given flu season.

     

    I had this discussion when I worked in health care, b/c I refuse the shot. I asked, "What happens when the strain going through the LTC *isn't* one included in the shot?" *crickets*

     

    They had no answer. They would suspend ppl who didn't get the shot if there was a flu outbreak, but had no protocol for when the strain wasn't included in the shot. Makes loads of sense.

     

    What also kills me, having worked front line, is there's always loads of signs up, telling visitors not to visit if they're unwell...yet, if a staff member calls in sick, they get threatened w/being fired for not showing up. Visitors go home, you're sick, staff, unless you're dying, you'd better be there.

     

    Yup, loads of sense. *eyeroll*

     

    I was a CNA on a Med/Surg floor of a children's hospital, and even though I was OCD diligent with my handwashing, to the point where my hands were RAW, and always wore a mask when I needed to, I still got SOOOO sick all the time, and I DID end up getting fired b/c of it. :cursing:

     

    The one and only time I got the flu shot, when I worked there, I still got the flu and in turn passed it on to DH and DS. We were all VERY sick for so long (part of why I got fired...we were only allowed to call in sick 4 times per year, and my bout of flu caused me to call in on three shifts). I have never had the flu otherwise, and I now refuse to get the flu shot again. I also think it is ridiculous to fire someone over a vaccine that has such a proven low rate of effectiveness. Just b/c you get the vaccine doesn't mean you still won't get and pass on the flu. Definitely a false sense of security, IMO.

  6. How do you like your eggs? I like them scrambled, hard-boiled, and fried, but my favorite way is fried with the yolks still somewhat runny, but not the white part.

     

    That would be over medium, which is the way I like mine also. I also like hard boiled.

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    Sorry, but I think it is a personality trait. It can be modified somewhat, but he will always tend this way.

     

    My son is this way. He wants to be a scientist so it will have a practical application, but it is really a pain on a day to day basis. His friends have mentioned his know-it-all tendencies (and it doesn't help that he is super-brainy, as he really does know more than most of them) and he is starting to curb it a bit.

     

    I agree. My DS is this way, and it drives me insane. We stayed with MIL and FIL while we were up there for Christmas, and they bought an air mattress for us that included a pump. I found batteries, put them in, then turned it on...it worked for about a second then died. I thought maybe the batteries were old, so we went out and bought new ones. I put them in, and it wouldn't even work, so I figured the pump was faulty and put it aside. I walk out of the room for two seconds, and when I get back DS had taken all of the batteries out and was in the process of putting them back in again, b/c he was convinced HE could get it to work when I couldn't. :cursing:

  8. Never...ever...never.

     

     

    Agreed. We stay with my inlaws when we go back to visit, and I don't touch or change anything that isn't my personal property. I ask permission before doing anything. The same goes for when I'm in anyone else's home...including my own parents. We just got back from my inlaws' house, and while there I noticed that there were hairs all over the floor in the bathroom, and while it drove me nuts, I didn't say anything b/c it is their house not mine. They also have a TON more clutter than we have, which irritates me, but it isn't my house.

     

    For the record...I hang our toilet paper so it rolls from behind b/c we have pets that will paw at it and that way it just stays on the roll...if we hung it the other way, it would unroll all over the floor and make a mess. ;)

  9. curtains - Never :svengo:

    throw rug - About once a month, or when it looks visibly dirty

    bath mat - Every time I wash the towels, which is once a week

    shower curtain - We don't have one

    shower curtain liner - same as above

    mattress pad - Every other sheet washing, so every other week

    pillow cover* (not a pillowcase, see below for explanation) - Every couple months

    pillows - Never

    blanket on bed - Every other week

    throw blanket on sofa/chair - Never

    bedspread/quilt/comforter - Bedspreads/quilts and comforters are different in my mind...I will wash a bedspread/quilt once a month or so, but I don't like to wash comforters b/c I don't like how they get lumpy.

  10. I was just wondering if I could get some advice on our situation. We currently live in Missouri, but in 3 weeks we are moving back to Nebraska where we are from. DS will go back into public school after we move. I'm trying to decide if it is worth it to continue homeschooling him until then, or just give him a break until we move. He still has to finish his last section/workbooks b/c he was supposed to do it while we were up in Nebraska for Christmas, but we let him hold off so he could spend more time with family. Because of that, he won't have time to finish the next section before we move.

     

    What would you do in our situation? Finish the last section and start the next, even though he won't have time to finish it...finish the current section and give him a break until we move...or don't bother finishing the current section and just go straight to a break. I do plan on having him read daily, no matter what. Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!

  11. I used to nanny for a family that was in charge of the local branch. Their cleaning supplies are great, their diapers are awesome (most of their baby stuff is great, including the formula), and their energy bars are really good (chocolate peanut butter are the best ones IMO).

  12. Buy some basic tinted face powder...you can do the same thing with that that you can do with mineral powder. I do it every day. ELF brand, which is only $1/$3 depending on what you buy, is GREAT!!! Almost everything I use is ELF now. Some Walmarts carry it, some don't, so if the first one you check doesn't look at another one (if possible). Our grocery store carries it in the cosmetics section, as well. You can also make your own sheer mineral powder with this recipe. I use about 2-3 times the amount of tinted powder (I like it to cover more than it calls for), but I find it to be really light (I also HATE really heavy makeup) and it works just like the store bought stuff, but is WAY cheaper.

     

    I use a cream coverup for my acne scars, really thin over just those areas (not all over), and then a layer of powder over top. Occasionally I will use pressed powder over top of that. Then I use blush on my cheeks to give me color, and a tiny bit on my nose, forehead, and edge of my jaw. Neutral colored eyeshadow on my eyes, then ELF eyeliner on upper lid only (BEST eyeliner I have tried so far, the $3 eyeliner/eyeshadow combo...goes on SO smoothly, I LOVE IT!). and ELF mineral blend mascara really lightly. Mascara makes me itch also, but the ELF mineral blend doesn't for some reason. Oh....I also use the ELF brand eyebrow kit, b/c my eyebrows are really thin and transparent, and it makes me look like I actually have them. LMAO

     

    If you need any other advice, please don't hesitate to PM me! I have struggled my whole life with it, and have just in the past few years got this whole thing under control. LOL

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