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  1. I had a dentist scream at me when his hands were shoved in my mouth pulling out a cracked tooth from a failed root canal. He caused me a dental phobia. I couldn't see a dentist for 2 years and then that dentist had to be very gentle.

     

    I felt so bad about taking my kids to him and they told me he would get irritated with them, but they never made a big deal. I looked this guy up and he is the only dentist in my area with multiple health department judgements.

     

    Report that receptionist!

  2. Some are wondering if "pickiness" or food issues aren't hereditary or genetic. I wish I knew. I know that no one ever, EVER planned food around me or gave me junk. I've outgrown all my pickiness but its taken years. I still cannot eat peas but I think that's it.

     

    My picky kids are already years ahead of where I was as a child and are quickly outgrowing it. Thank goodness! I was concerned that my "don't make food a battle" mantra was going to backfire on me. But its working its magic before my eyes. :)

  3. This is exactly how I handle it. I'm all about my little guests having a good time and wanting to come back. We are the fun house (as long as everyone plays nice and safe). I provide foods that are kid friendly. I'll even fix a kid a quick sandwich as an alternative. It isn't my job to teach the kids about food or manners it is their parent's job. I am modeling good manners by catering to my guests and not being sensitive.

  4. True. But if you make course descriptions along with grades backing up your justification and noting that the child scored so high on an AP exam then you are more likely to be believed by the college that it is an honor's class. I personally don't plan on noting a class as honor's/AP unless it is through some kind of online or local class that is semi-verifiable. We may well do "honors" work but I'm not sure I'll put it on the transcript as such. We do plan on taking running start classes. I think SATs have to really back a lot of the classes and grades as well. I'm still learning a lot as I go along. :)

  5. Yes, it can depending on the school district. Other districts just note that it has been accomplished and don't credit it (I think that is because they also offer it in 7th). The public school program/partnership that I'm in allows all 8th graders to earn high school credit for high school work. I'd go ahead and put it on the transcript and let the colleges do with it what they will.

     

    Have you thought about how you want to create your transcipt? Are you saving tests and papers to show a prospective selective college? They may not ask but having documentation to back up mommy grades can only be a good thing.

  6. If its really self-esteem then I'd help him find something he's good at and experience success with it or personal fulfillment. He's still kind of young and part of this is maturity as well. Also, discover what his love language is and try to meet his love need. Lastly, get him into an exercise program or health program to maintain his weight while he grows. He doesn't need to know why. He just needs to move, move, move. Its likely he's overweight in part because he will grow tall eventually but until then he needs to atleast maintain his weight.

     

    If you care about his self-esteem I'd make his weight/health/activity level high on your priority list for him. Overweight kids have very low-selfesteem and frequently have a hard time ever getting over it. I have a dd that has a low-metabolism and was a little overweight for years. I put her into a homeschool pe program and we talked a lot about health and nutrition - not weightloss. She exercises every day as do her skinny sibs. She's normal weight now. Had I not taken this route I know she'd be heading in the wrong direction now. And you don't want a heavy preteen/teen. Take steps now and you'll make a huge difference in his life.

  7. In this case I would give my approval and help him attain his goals. Encourage him to look at all the options and get a guaranteed job before he signs the dotted line. He can actually get really good training as a fire fighter in the Air Force and come out with a very good paying job. Give him your blessing but make sure he makes smart choices - if you can.

     

     

    I'm raising my kids to NOT join the military, but if they do I will give them my blessing and full support.

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