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  1. Seriously?!?!?!

    Well, I couldn't care less what she's wearing.

    With an economy gone to hell in a handbasket I just hope her husband can keep us afloat.

     

    I don't know the rules of dressing and have no idea who should wear what fabric or what time of day or season it should be worn!

     

    But I will say that I love Mrs. Biden's hooker boots!

     

    Same here, Karen. I just wish I could find a pair of boots that slide over my chunky calves with ease.

     

    When the day comes that commentators assess how well the President and Vice-President's suits fit, if the color and cut flatter their complexion and figure, I'll join in to critique the ladies' fashion sense. Btw, I have a floral brocade jacket that I wear to work with slacks.

  2. If she has recurrent kidney infections, your pediatrician should have referred her to a pediatric urologist to be tested for vesicoureteral reflux.

     

    One of my children had to have corrective surgery for reflux. You mentioned surgery; was the surgery to repair the ureters?

     

    Is she on a daily prophylactic dose of broad spectrum antibiotic to prevent infection? This reduced bladder and kidney infections in my reflux kids.

  3. In years past, I have traveled with up to 5 kids without another adult present. I never had any weapon or substitute weapon. And some excursions were taken before cell phones were widely available. A friend rented a cabin outside Yellowstone this past summer with her littles; we joined them for a week or so. My friend did have bear spray. Wisely she was more concerned about animal predators than human ones.

  4. May be because some people are primarily ideologically driven to homeschool. It is a cause they strongly believe in and feel that they should promote to others considering entering or leaving h/s'ing. These are the ones who come closest to touting h/s'ing as the ideal situation for almost everyone. I would lean more toward considering these people as passionate about their cause rather than flaming. I suppose their counterparts would be those who just as passionately promote traditional schooling as the only alternative which will truly prepare students for life

     

    Other people feel just as strongly that it is a private personal decision that is best made after careful consideration of each individual family's and student's circumstances and suitability for homeschooling. They do not hesitate to acknowledge that h/s'ing is not the ideal situation for every family nor do they view a temporary or permanent switch to traditional schooling as a negative occurrence as long as the particular traditional school can reasonably meet the student's needs.

     

    We see similar dichotomous mindsets manifest in many controversial discussions here.

     

    The bottom line is that parents need to have confidence that they themselves are making best decision possible for their children. Past that, what others think of that decision is irrelevant.

     

    P.S. "Homeschooling" does not halt when students enter traditional schools. Parent is available (hopefully) for tutoring as needed.

  5. Gosh. I don't know. I did notice it early on, but we had kids right away, and meals were chaotic for a long time and there were distractions. Then for years I worked through dinner, and it's only been recently that we're sharing breakfast and dinner. I think he's much louder now, though, than when we met.

     

    Why? What are ya thinkin'?

     

    If it was a recent development, I wondered if it may be a physical problem instead of etiquette problem.

  6. My gut reaction is that the young man is either a malingerer or manifesting hypochondria or factitious disorder in effort to deal with emotional problems, assuming this is same young man you have mentioned before. He has complained of vague symptoms that do not intensify over the years. What is getting when he complains? Parental sympathy, retreat to a childlike state, release from chores or other duties, avoiding physical punishment?

  7. If a parent is going to assign grades, in my opinion, those grades should be an accurate reflection of a student's academic performance regardless of the amount of effort required on part of student. Assign a separate conduct/character grade if you must to reflect effort. But do not commingle the two. I am sure many here will disagree with me.

     

    Personally I never assigned grades except for the few years that we were registered through a cover school. Even then, I did not share the grades with the students. I merely assigned the approximate grade I felt they would earn in a traditional classroom.

  8. I wouldn't worry at all about the Barbie doll.

     

    I was unaware that there was so much venom directed toward Bratz dolls.

     

    I have only one child that played with dolls.

     

    I thought she was over dolls but at age 11 after returning home from a friend's birthday party, she asked if she could have one of those dolls with a "big head."

     

    At first, I assumed she meant the human size Barbie head that is for hair styling. What she wanted was a Bratz. Since Bratz heads are larger than Barbie heads, they are more conducive to playing around with the hair.

     

    We found lovely handmade Bratz evening gowns on ebay for $5 each.

     

    As soon as her interest waned, we passed her Bratz collection to a young family friend who thoroughly enjoys them without any reported ill effect.

  9. This happens to me often. Tonight I was out getting groceries, and a man approached me in a very dark parking lot to ask me for money.

     

    I've had differing thoughts on this. I assume the money will be used for drugs and alcohol, which I don't really want to support. That said, me not giving a guy a few bucks isn't going to solve his addiction problem. Not only that, but if I had to sleep outdoors, in the winter, in Canada, I'd kinda like it if someone would help me get a little something to take the edge off, if you know what I mean. :sad:

     

    So, what are your thoughts? Any strong opinions? Any well researched studies? Any prayerful considerations?

     

    Lori

     

    My thoughts are to give them a buck or two if you want to and if you can afford it. It's your money and your choice. Personally I wouldn't worry about what other people think of it or what research findings are. We don't have to delve into research to know that there are unfortunate souls who find themselves homeless due to poverty, mental illness, and addictions and possibly undisciplined lifestyle. If you don't want your dollars spent on addictions, offer to buy a sandwich or some food item from grocery or fast food place for them. In a cost v. benefit analysis of charitable dollars, there probably is greater benefit from money donated to missions or shelters. Still I wouldn't let a few bucks here and there to societal misfits worry me fiscally.

     

    I've pondered whether I would ask strangers for money if I were to ever find myself homeless. But I would be among the invisible homeless because I would have family that I could live with until I got back on my feet. Honestly, if I were homeless, I would avoid the shelters and missions and try to make it outdoors in public places.

  10. ... But I do know people who think water play in underpants is equal to nakedness. My parents would have thought so, which is why I swam in cullottes and a shirt and full underclothes well into my teens. They did describe beach and pool going as promoting nudity. So while certainly they would not be lying, I can see them describing their own reality and interpreting what they saw according to their own mores. I can see them having a problem with the local lakes and pools, what with the naked preschoolers running around without anyone blinking an eye. .

     

    Do public and private schools today still have male students swim in the nude? At Forsythe Junior High in Ann Arbor, Michigan in mid 1960s, nude swimming for males in gym class was the norm.

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