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  1. :grouphug::grouphug: We have all been there. This too shall pass.

     

    With my little guy it helped to have activity bags (there was a swap last year) and that gave him something he only did during school.

     

    TV is a useful tool sometimes. :D Older siblings are a great help.

     

    I would give him some attention first and then move on to big siblings. So read a book first or play with him.

     

    Contain him in one area of the house, put a baby gate on the school room to keep him in with you. Then put things for him to play with/read in his reach and move everything else that you can out of his reach. :grouphug::grouphug:

     

    PS Is he verbal or delayed? I know for me signing saved screaming with one kid. It gave him a way to communicate till he talked. We also try to take screaming kids out side to scream on the grass. Change of scenery quiets them. ;)

  2. Enjoy building.

     

    We love our house mostly.

     

    Things I would have done different, bigger kitchen, smaller bedrooms, bigger closets for food storage and bigger kids bath. ;)

     

     

    Love my wood stove, my bedroom & bath. Wish my laundry room was bigger.

  3. My MIL is in the early stages. She is on a patch to slow the process. She worries over it and I think is somewhat embarrassed. Her children I think are in denial as she still lives independently (in a mother in law apt at BIL's house) and drives and cooks. At some point I realize this will change but nobody acknowledges or talks or is planning for it. I am just the DIL. :glare: We do have a great relationship but I am the lone voice suggesting change so at the point I have given up mentioning making changes to living arrangements ect.

     

    Yes I possibly would want to know but then I would want social workers to help the family make plans and implement them. I think a support group would also be helpful. But currently giving the Dx to somebody at the beginning has only accomplished my MIL being on anxiety meds and afraid to live her life jic things get worse. And that I think is a tragedy. She probably could have gone off on a mission for 18 months and been fine but she was afraid her disease would progress rapidly. It hasn't but she was overly cautious.

  4. We've moved 4 times in 18mos. The first move was from our 2000 sq ft house (where we didn't homeschool) to a 900 sq ft apartment.

     

    We homeschooled around the table and this is a link to what our storage looked like. We then moved to a 1200 sq foot poorly laid out town house and I stored our homeschooling supplies in a hutch, closet, and coffee table/Hope chest.

    We now live in a 1400 sq ft house with a small but very nice family room that we also use as our homeschooling space.

     

    I store chapter/reading books in each kids room in bins or baskets on shelves. They have one basket that is where their library books are suppose to go... Notice I said suppose to.:001_huh:

     

    OT-Loved your canning picture on your blog! LOL! I just finished canning tomatoes and pickles, blueberries are on the schedule for tomorrow. ;)

  5. I would try craigslist. Adoption stuff for pets drives me batty too. We had a cat we adopted from a friend what was a barn cat. Try as we like we wanted her to be indoors. She wanted nothing to do with it. She would come home but she needed to roam and I think she kept our scorpian population in check. She got an abcess and my kids let her out while I was treating her leg and trying to get her to recuperate. But I agree some cats prefer outside.

  6. We like our chihuahua and in the past we found a chiweenie at the pound who was very sweet. Really think this through. Do you want to clean up pee. Find dirt in your bed from a borrowing dog. Pee on the floor because it is wet or cold outside. Trash on the floor because it smelled yummy. Fur on your couch because even though it is off limits when you are home all bets are off when you are away on a trip. I used to prefer cats. Then we had some sweet dogs. Really though I miss the dog free days without fur all over my house. Did I mention dh brought home a dog that sheds like all get out...

     

  7. For me it was easy. However several factors played into that. My next oldest was 3 1/2 and very much not a baby usually my guys are 2 1/2 or so when they give up being the baby of the family. So it helped that he was very independent and just loves being the big brother, lots of kisses and loves for his baby. Coupled with the fact my baby is really laid back easy going and happy all the time, it has been a very easy transition.

     

    I did prepare ahead of time with lots of paper plates, bowls cups ect to make recovery easier. And I really stayed in bed for almost 2 weeks loving on the little guy, while my kids watched way to much nextflix. But then I was feeling much better. This was also the first time I wasn't anemic because I finally found a Perfect Prenatal vitamins that my body absorbed.

     

    Good luck and congrats on the new addition!

  8. So it really never was officially taught anywhere?

     

    I am confused about the "within the past 30 years" thing. What happened 30 years ago? The Mormons I know tend to come from a strong history of Mormon families. Their parents met at BYU or whatever and now everyone is Mormon. What happens when people convert to Mormonism? The picture of the Mormon family is so lovely. I think of Stephanie Nielson. I was just catching up on her blog and I can't believe the family support she has. There was probably 40 people at her baby dedication. But what about people with no real family support who convert to Mormonism? I'm sure it looks completely different?

     

     

    My parents are converts. They joined right before I was born. Like every family with have our struggles. Our extended family doesn't understand and it can be hard. We were military and I loved moving and having instant "family" at church. Even years later we were able to have their support despite having moved away 12 years earlier. We had meals, lodging, cars, and flights provided for our family and my parents. It was amazing and made my testimony stronger.

     

    I married a Mormon from way back...his ancestors lived in Nauvoo and sang to the prophet Joseph Smith one Christmas. My kids have many cousins unlike my 2. ;) I love it.

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