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  1. We just had a stray cat adopt us. Can't let him in though because of allergies and asthma with ds and allergies with me. The only time he wanted to come in was when it was raining. He's been hanging around for about a month now and winter is coming. I don't know what we're going to do for him when it starts getting really cold. Maybe make him some sort of house? Right now he's sleeping in a makeshift house dd made for him out of a cardboard box and rags.

  2. I saw a man at a travel stop on the way to Michigan wearing a t-shirt that said "PETA: People Eating Tasty Animals." The back said "Vegetarian: Ancient Tribal Slang for the Village Idiot Who Can't Hunt, Fish, or Ride." :lol: I wanted to get one for my dad, the carnivorous hunter/fisherman.

     

    (This message was not meant to portray any real life people. No vegetarians were harmed in the production of this message. The poster does not think being a vegetarian means a person is stupid.)

     

     

    Very clever and funny disclaimer!! :D

  3. Wow!

     

    Children are by nature lazy creatures (with exceptions of course) and they will rise to the expectations we set for them. If we expect nothing, then that is what they will deliver. Where is the incentive to do well and to try hard when the kid next to you does nothing and gets a 50%?

     

    I think the lady they quoted was right on the money when she said

     

    "Judy Leonardi, a Stanton Heights resident and retired district home economics teacher, said she objected to the notion that a student could "walk in the door, breathe the air and get 50 percent for that."

    "I don't think it sets kids up properly for college, for competition in life," she said.

     

    To Ms. Leonardi, a 20 percent score means a student isn't trying or needs more help with the material. Automatically putting 50 percent in the grade book, she said, doesn't help the student in either case. "To me, it's morally wrong," she said."

  4. I can't STAND The View. I really can't.

     

    I saw a clip of the McCain interview on TV and I burst out laughing. I couldn't help it. I saw the look on Barbara Walter's face and she was not happy. At. All. At least she could have pretended to be nice for the sake of professionalism but I guess it was too much for her.

     

    I also saw a clip of the Obama interview and she was fawning all over him. If I remember correctly, she kept her hand on his leg for a lot of the interview. Again, professionalism out the window!

  5. I'm not entirely certain what being a Christian has to do with this situation. And I'm sure a lot more "nonbelievers" (which kind of cracks me up - I BELIEVE - just not in Jesus Christ) would be willing to chime in if they were not so denigrated. Some of us nonbelievers even have law degrees! :D

     

    Jen

     

    Hi Jen,

     

    I am so sorry that you felt denigrated by the OP's post. Of course, I can't speak for her but I *think* she mentioned being a Christian because she wanted people to know that she wanted spiritual advice too but she didn't want to limit it to just "Christians."

     

    The "non-believer" phrase simply means "not a believer in Christ" as used by the OP. As a Christian, I would be considered a non believer to a Muslim or a Buddhist simply because I don't believe as they do. It is a general term that can be used by any religion.

     

    So much has been made on these boards about whether to put CC in the title of a post, how christian content should be handled...it seems like no matter what a poster does, there will be someone to find fault with it. The OP was trying to be inclusive of everyone. A little grace goes a long way.

  6. First off, here's a :grouphug:. What a tough situation.

     

    Have you consulted a lawyer about this? Maybe there is something that can be done legally because of your dd's handicap.

     

    I totally understand your frustration about your ex-dh and his lack of involvement with your dd. And yes, I would be mad. And probably frustrated that he "just doesn't get it." He has no idea of the joy he is missing by not getting to know his dd and getting involved in her life. To me, this is not the mark of a true man. A true man takes care of his responsibilities even when he doesn't have to (by law).

     

    And even though it is really, really tempting to try to cut him out of the picture all together, I would seriously pray about your motivations for wanting to do this because it appears that this would be your way to get "revenge" on him and God says that vengeance is His, He will repay. Not only that, cutting him out deprives your dd of knowing her dad (as imperfect and selfish as he is). I'm guessing that she loves her dad and would probably not understand why she doesn't seem him anymore.

     

    I just want you to know that I admire you a lot for all you are doing. Being a parent is hard. Being a single parent is even harder. Being a single parent of a disabled child has to be one of the hardest thing a person can do. But remember...you serve a BIG God! :001_smile:

  7. ...I would act like I didn't think that I understood correctly. I would probably say something like, "My DD thinks that you are telling her that her clothing is inappropriate. I'm sure that you didn't intend to convey that message, but if you have a difference or difficulty with my parenting, I hope and expect that you will talk with me about it rather than with her. After all, she is only 6. I don't want her to feel attacked over something that is not of her own choosing." And I would say this pretty warmly, not argumentatively.

     

    That way he has a way out--if he says that she misunderstood, then you let it go this time and watch for a recurrence. If he defends himself, then you take it further to the authority issue. Don't be drawn into a debate about conflicting standards if he is one of those people who will get mean about it. As long as it doesn't recur, you have accomplished your goal, and that is what really counts, right?

     

    I think this advice is right on the money...it was similar to what I was going to say but Carol said it waaay better then I could have!

  8. I may read the first few posts in a political thread, but that's about it. I simply choose not to get involved in those conversations because it just seems like everyone is trying to change the other person's mind. And of course no one's mind is going to be changed.

     

    It would be much better (imo) if posters could agree to disagree politically and just move on instead of beating that poor dead horse...

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