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  1. I think it really depends on how well managed his diabetes usually is.

    Is he generally good with his blood sugars and this something that just happens when you go out?

    I don't think it's at all unreasonable for him to indulge now and then if he is otherwise well managed. And if he isn't otherwise well managed, well eating out is not really the problem is it.

     

    My Dad was a diabetic, the diabetes didn't kill him, cancer did. He was very well managed but when we went out to dinner he did like to splurge. It was very irregular, perhaps 6 monthly. And then on his birthday and Christmas we always had pavlova which is a giant sugar hit, but it was his treat and he upped his insulin to cope.

     

    If it is a 3-4 weekly date, perhaps you could go to a splurgy type restaurant every 2nd or 3rd date, and perhaps go to more healthy places or do other activities the other times. I think I'd sit down with him and approach it from an "I'm concerned for you, how can we work this so that our dates are special and you are not tempted to eat like this as regularly."

  2. I was referring to what John Marinovich, (CEO and Partner of AB Group One Brand Marketing Agency) said on the video link TN Mama posted.

     

    It's honestly the first time I've seen an actual grown man imply that not wearing a certain brand of clothes will cause your kid to be a loser outcast. And he seemed quite serious.

    I didn't read what he said that way at all. I read it as having your kids in school uniform would mean less nagging to buy A&F.

     

    It's risqué but it's not pornographic. And I guess I'm in the minority but it doesn't even really bother me.

    :iagree:

  3. I disagree with "string".

     

    It should be replaced with DUCT TAPE!

     

    My kids make so many things, and do so many things with DUCT TAPE. :)

    Nope, string would be high on my list. I disagree that they only need short lengths though, mine like to use the whole box.

    J used to make a knee height spiders web between all the furniture in the living rooms.

  4. I had to get rid of carbs. I was always told to eat carbs, and avoid fat/oil. Turns out the opposite is what worked. If i avoid carbs, or at least grains, i do so much better!

    :iagree:

     

    Hadn't heard of that. She has gf oatmeal, corn & rice but no wheat, barley, or rye. Where you able to tell if you had more problems with certain type of grains over others?

     

    I am celiac and I react to oats too, it's not uncommon as the protein in them is very similar to the gluten proteins. I also react to potato sometimes.

    I'd definitely ditch oats and maybe see if potato has a reaction, it's usually within a very short time for me.

  5. The other thing is that there are a lot of people importing cameras out of Hong Kong at vastly reduced prices, because even with parity with the USD, we are still paying ridiculous prices here. I'm in the market for a pro DSLR at the moment and the saving is hundreds of dollars, lots of hundreds! The warranty issues are a little more complex than for Aussie cameras and for that reason, and the fact that I can't be without my camera at all, I'm going Aussie product for the camera body, but if you are not studying or working as a photog, take a look. Many of them have some kind of special Aussie warranty arrangement.

  6. SLRs and mirrorless interchangeable-lens cameras tend to be the fastest in operation. And as I said, you can find some quite small, definitely in the size range of a good bridge camera.

     

    If you want a camera that's practically instant-on, plenty (maybe all) modern SLRs fit the bill. You can also set them up so that a half-press of the shutter or a button will wake it up instantly.

    :iagree:

    When I got my first DSLR, DS and I had a shoot off with the DSLR vs the point and shoot, I shot 17 photos by the time he shot one. Instant start up and no shutter lag. If your budget will allow it, I'd go for an entry level SLR or bridge camera, you will not regret it.

  7. I discovered that I was allergic to latex when my airways started to swell blowing up balloons for our engagement party, at that point I put two and two together and realised the same thing had happened at DS's 1st birthday.

     

    I react to gloves, bandages, adhesive tape, and balloons, I've had issues with medical things at times, but that is getting better as awareness improves.

     

    I can be around balloons, but only a couple. If there are more than 5 or so balloons in a room, I start to get wheezy. If my mucous membranes are touched with latex, it's not good.

     

    I've never seen an allergist or been tested. I considered wearing a medic alert bracelet until I did a first aid course, where the trainer said that standard procedure was to treat first and then check bracelet if time. Well if I was unconcious and they treated me with latex gloves on, by the time they checked the bracelet it would be too late anyway. I'd be heading into anaphalaxis if they touched my mouth or raw flesh with the gloves. And if I have breath then I tell people. I'm very careful to have it on my hospital preadmission, and always tell the dentist, doctor, blood sucker etc every single visit. A few years ago it was a real headache, I had to leave a dentist once and drive down the road to get gloves from a pharmacy so they could treat me! I had an IV in once for antibiotics and it hurt so bad and swelled so much that I insisted they take it out and put in a new one each time for the ABs then remove it again. These days most places are well prepared.

     

    I have always found bananas a bit funny tasting, they leave the same taste in my mouth that having a balloon in the room does. But they are fine if they are very very ripe, no idea why.

     

    My biggest fear is beginning to have issues with food that was prepared with latex gloves. I think about people at factories making canned, frozen and pre-made food, and how many of them wear latex and it gives me the willies.

     

    From what I have been able to read, it was probably the multiple surgeries as a child that caused it.

  8. I wouldn't say Turkish delight is exactly like gummy candy (or wine gums). It has a softer, stickier texture. And I've never seen it covered in chocolate but usually covered in powdered sugar.

     

    I'm a big fan of Turkish delight, especially rose flavored or with pistachios. Yum!

    :iagree: I love it! It used to be my treat when I went to the market, a packet of delicious, soft powdery sweetness. But they use wheaten cornflour for dusting :( I need to learn to make it.

  9. I wouldn't go out of my way to either encourage or discourage it. I would be open to discussion if he asked questions or wanted to talk about it, but I would be honest in my responses if asked what I believe or don't believe. I think it is important for people to work out their religious beliefs or lack thereof for themselves. I would leave him to exploring it on his own. I would take him to the library and let him read or engage in other media. I draw a line at taking a child to churches, though. That falls under "going out of my way to either encourage or discourage."

    :iagree: Especially the bolded.

    All of my kids have done the god thing at various times. I just go with the flow, answer the questions. All of them currently state that they are athiests but that may change.

  10. Thanks again for the thoughtful discussion!

     

    We don't know where DS got the shooting/gun interest. Our kids have minimal screen exposure and none to anything picturing guns. Perhaps at cousins' house? They are big into Star Wars....

    I couldn't work it out either. We don't own guns, we don't use guns. My relatives use guns on their farms but at that stage the kids were not exposed. I don't like to watch violence on TV, so they weren't exposed to any adult gun containing programs. J was a very sensitive child who got upset at The Ugly Duckling, so I carefully monitored what he watched, but still he made guns out of fingers and sticks. The only thing I can think of is cartoons, and of course toy guns at their friends houses.

  11. Wendy, I used to think exactly like you but then my family discovered Nerf guns and the sheer joy of shooting each others' butts. I kid you not. Shooting your spouse is actually very theraputic. :lol::lol:

    :iagree: Nerfs are such fun!!

     

     

    Both my kids have fired multiple weapons and that cracks me up. Another parenting thing I swore I'd NEVER do down the drain... :glare:

    :iagree: Yep, for me the clincher to allowing toy guns in the house was realising that when my children went to friends houses who were allowed toy guns, my children played obsessively with them while the children of the house weren't that interested. I was creating an alluring mystery instead of encouraging anti-violence. From that realisation, we allowed them in the house and they very quickly lost their allure, the kids hardly touched them. We are recent Nerf converts, I only discovered them a year ago. Such fun!

  12. I've been trying to wrap my brain around what models of Nikon and Canon line up. I found an interesting fact which would impact on my decision on an entry level DSLR, so I'll share it. Hopefully it's all correct, but I'm sure others will fill in the bits that I have got wrong.

     

    Canon cameras all have the auto focus motor in the body, so the lenses are totally backward and forward compatible with higher and lower models (until you get to full frame cameras which are a bit of a different beast again and slightly more complex)

     

    My kind of vague understanding is that Nikon entry level cameras do not have the AF motor in the body but in the lens, this means that the lenses are not compatible with higher level cameras and vv. Potentially this is not really too much of an issue as you are not likely to really want to put an entry level lens on a better camera anyway, but if you may start to want to buy better lenses before upgrading your camera, it could be an issue. Hopefully someone can clarify exactly how it works.

     

    I also agree with Fairymom that a 50mm 1.8 lens is a great purchase for not much $$ Mine pretty much lives on my camera.

  13. DS and I were driving home from Scouts tonight when we came across a wee dog running about on a busy road. We stopped and with another man, managed to catch it.

    Lucky has a collar with numbers, but his owners are not answering their phones, we think that he was probably frightened by fireworks that evening. I've left messages and texts on both numbers on his collar.

     

    Our boxer puppy, Lola, is friendly and exuberant and rather too much for the stinky wee fluff ball, Lucky, who bares his teeth every time she comes near. We can't have them near each other as there will be tears.

     

    The issue is that it is 10.30pm and bedtime. Lola sleeps downstairs, lucky seems to want to be near me, but he STINKS and DH has decreed that he is not to sleep in our room. It's a warm night, temp shouldn't drop below 60F, is it safe to tie him up outside? We can't let him off as we have a pond he could drown in. If the owners have not called tomorrow, we will deliver him to the city animal shelter.

     

    Lastly, we are newish dog owners and completely unsure how to introduce them in such a way that Lucky will not try to go Lola.

  14. The way I like to describe my athiest/humanist perspective on morality is simple. Since I only get one go-round with this life and existence, I should do my best to leave the world a little better than I found it and help others do the same. :001_smile:

    :iagree: that sums it up for me.

     

    Ipsey, Nance.... I :001_wub: you both!

    :iagree: Thanks to both of you for presenting "our" case in such a well thought out and polite way.

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