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  1. I'd go with the natural progesterone. The Mini-pill is not progesterone, it's progestin, a synthetic version of progesterone and so isn't treated quite the same way by your body. Also, progesterone of any kind taken orally is not well-absorbed because something like 80% is filtered out by your liver. A cream or shot is best because it gets the progesterone into the blood stream which means it can get more directly to your reproductive system.

     

    Is your major symptom bleeding prior to your period? Has your progesterone been tested? Are you TTC or just trying to get healthy? If you're TTC I suggest a NaPro doctor, at least look into if there's one near you, they are experts on treating fertility problems and really all reproductive problems even if you're not TTC. They frequently use progesterone and can give a lot of info on it.

     

    I have had low progesterone for a long time, probably because my thyroid is always a tiny bit off. What helped me 2 years ago was going on the Maker's Diet, that helped me get pregnant after 9 months of no success with that. I've tried going back on the diet now but am struggling to maintain it so I'm trying the progesterone cream to help, jury's still out on how effective it is since it's been just a few cycles.

  2. I have a bachelor's in English Education (grades 6-12)

     

    90% of my courses were regular English courses, same as any other English major would take and those were excellent. Also, my specifically English Ed classes were very good, 2 were even excellent and very challenging. However, all of the regular education courses (Child Psych, Classroom Management, etc) were a joke and an easy A for anyone who can read and write at a 5th grade level.

  3. I agree with some of the people who suggested that a 4-year liberal arts degree is useful in and of itself for the learning-to-learn and broadening-your-horizons aspect, however, I do wish I'd gone with a different major. I majored in 6-12 English Education and while I LOVED my classes I taught for just 1 year before becoming pregnant with my son and then I couldn't possibly leave him all day long and then come home to grade papers and worry over classroom management or administration stuff. I thought teaching was a family-friendly job, but it wasn't as much as I'd hoped. The benefit is my major is what led me to considering homeschooling my kids, and then my first year as a teacher confirmed it, rofl!

     

    Anyway, I was just telling my DH today that if/when we have daughters I would encourage them to pursue a degree/training for jobs that have full-time and part-time/at-home potential. I wish now I'd taken a few courses in just technical writing so I could feel equipped to do writing jobs online from home. It's hard to tell what direction your life will take but I do think you can choose to get an education that leads to a few particular career paths.

     

    So the things that come to my mind that I might consider if I was 18 again:

     

    Nursing/Physical Therapy-- I have friends who do this part-time yet make almost full-time pay because they work overnight Fridays and Saturdays, then have all week at home with their kids. Steady income too with the older generations outnumbering younger generations recently.

     

    Writing-- don't think just books, but proofreading/editing, blog writing, technical writing, newspaper/magazine articles, etc. You wouldn't get rich but could earn an income and go part-time when you have kids.

     

    Tutoring-- some education degrees (as others have mentioned) really are a great lead-in to tutoring. You can teach until you have kids, get the great health benefits and such, then quit and tutor while you use your education to help you homeschool :) However, if you are coming from a homeschooled environment you might be a bit appalled at the state of public schools, lol!

     

    Accounting/CPA-- I realized recently that I actually do okay at taxes. I do our own complicated self-employed clergy taxes to save money and even though I'm not a math person I kind of enjoyed it. This is also something that could be done on the side.

     

    Real Estate-- my mom did this off and on and it was decent income and it's kind of what you put into it. Some people do it part-time and make part-time money but if you put 40-50 hours a week into it you can make full-time income easily.

     

    Appraiser/Inspector-- for houses, this is what my dad got certified in to supplement his regular income as a butcher. He could do as many or as few jobs as he was willing to advertise for/accept. It pays nicely too imo.

  4. My ODS could name all his letter names and sounds and point them out when written down by 19-20 months and was counting to 5 I think. So I don't think it's totally unrealistic, though definitely on the younger side. I did work with him a bit, but nothing crazy, no flashcards or anything silly, just some fridge magnets and a magnadoodle. Then I got morning sickness and he watched a lot of Super Why, rofl!

     

    and I don't think it's necessarily rote memorization, though with some kids it is, my son began reading by 2.5 with a handful of sight words and sounding out words so clearly he understood. I think different kids just fixate on different things. Last year it was letters, this year it's trains, next year maybe it'll be mud. At least now he can read about the trains and mud if he wants, haha!

  5. not the liberal mainline form of it that we find here in the United States (primarily with the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America).

    LOL! This made me laugh, my DH is an ELCA pastor and yep, they are a liberal bunch for sure :) I personally hate the services, I don't like the over-emphasis on music and preaching instead of word and sacrament but DH says I'm being silly. I never feel like I went to church that Sunday when I go to just DH's church, especially his parent's church in Georgia. I've been curious how different the Missouri Synod worship style is but as I can't quite get behind the theology and we already attend 2 churches every weekend I haven't bothered to attend one of their services.

     

    Interesting article though!

     

    Btw, who are the WELS Lutherans, I don't know that I've heard of them? Is it the Wisconsin ones?

  6. We're doing the Hubbard's Cupboard 4 year old curriculum for my ODS and I'm trying to decide how to organize all the lesson plans and printouts for each week. We're hoping to move out of state this fall so things need to be organized enough that nothing gets lost mid-year.

     

     

    My two competing ideas are:

    1) use the File Crate System--one file for each week with all related printouts and the weekly lesson plan. I'd need some place to keep the overall scope and sequence though and it wouldn't be as easy to flip through everything if I was wanting to look ahead/behind.

    2) get it spiral bound--print everything in order, insert cardstock for dividers, and take it to get a spiral binding so it's all in one place and lays flat. The advantage here is portability (and laying flat smiley-smile.gif) but I'm not sure if it would be ideal for the printables that I'd want Tobias to look at. I'm not sure if I'd be better off keeping those loose so I can post them in the playroom or something where he can see them (not sure where I'd do it though)

     

     

    Any ideas? Which do you think would work best?

  7. Hmm, I can't think of any off the top of my head that are directly geared towards informing Protestants about the Catholic faith besides of course Catholicism for Dummies (not meant to be a joke, it's actually a good book despite the name, my priest owns a copy, lol!)

     

    Scott Hahn is a former Presbyterian pastor and really just a great guy, he does a wonderful job explaining the Mass from the Catholic perspective in his book The Lamb's Supper. My DH is actually going to read that soon, he liked the snippets I read aloud to him. Hahn's journey to Catholicism is outlined in Rome Sweet Home, but that doesn't sound like what you are looking for, though I'm 99% sure there'd be nothing offensive to Protestants in that book, I didn't get a tone of disgruntlement or anything, just an honest, humble search for truth and a respect for all his Protestant and Catholic friends and colleagues.

     

    The Conversion Diary blog is also a great reference, she converted to Catholicism from atheism so you'll see great general Christian explanations as well as her discovery of things unique to Catholic doctrine.

     

    If you want I can ask my DH, he just went to an ecumenical week-long retreat held by my Catholic diocese with a bunch of Lutheran, Episcopal, Methodist, Presbyterian, Orthodox, and Catholic laypeople and clergy.. He might have some suggestions from there.

  8. Oooh, nice homeschooling room!

     

    I would line the far wall of that first picture with bookshelves, that should hide the cable wires and extra outlets from the toddler :)

    Then in that middle space near the big bay window I'd center the large school table maybe 2-4ft. away from the window for general schoolwork to happen at. For the actual windowseat I would definitely make a pad for it and add a couple pillows, it'd be a perfect place for the kids to lounge and read.

     

    Along that very long wall I'd do the whiteboard and bulletin board above the Target cubby shelves. Next to that I'd put the Ikea shelves thing centered and on the other side put the maps and such on the wall, maybe with the single desk below them.

     

    In the corner beside the windowseat I would make a little nook for your toddler, maybe use the target cube shelves to have montessori/workbox-ish work for them to do and put a small carpet there to define his workspace. That would be an excellent place for the raingutter bookshelves too, going up the short wall beside the window. We used the Ikea picture frame ledges in white for raingutter-style bookshelves and they work perfectly.

     

    In the remaining floor space in front of those beautiful double doors leading outside maybe a big rug would be good and that can be a good space to get the wiggles out, give your LO room to break out some bigger toys like train tracks, or do other non-table projects.

     

    Btw, you totally need to post pictures when you've got it all set up :)

  9. Well, how my DH convinced (coerced) me into naming our second son Peter was he refused every other name I suggested. I basically was left with no choice, he wouldn't consider any of the names I preferred and I didn't mind Peter, it just wasn't my first choice. Eventually I felt a need to pick a name for the baby and so we picked Peter Isaiah. I told family it was just "probably" Peter and that as always I reserved the right to change it at any time but they went and gave us gifts (hand paintings, etc.) with the name Peter, ugh! He's 8 months and I'm still not thrilled with the name, I wish we'd named him Isaiah most of the time, Peter just is so common to me. ::sigh:: Oh well, he's cute regardless of his name. And I guess I can't complain because I named our first Tobias and refused to hear any other names, luckily DH was pretty on board with it anyway now he says he couldn't imagine him named anything else and loves it. Our family on the other hand threw a royal fit, lol!

  10. OTC Progesterone cream might help. It has helped my migraines that used to come right around ovulation for me and it cured my postpartum depression. I use Pro-gest I think and it's one little packet in the am and one in the pm starting after I ovulate and continuing until my period starts. It's totally safe, I take it while nursing and it's often prescribed for use during pregnancies.

  11. We keep a routine for the kiddos so I'll share our current schedule, it's flexible but this is what works right now :) I have a 3 year old and an 8 month old.

     

    7am I nurse the baby while DH gets 3 year old out of bed and dressed (takes awhile, he's a sleepy head)

     

    8am breakfast & clean up & chores (3 year old feeds kitties)

     

    9am outside/free play

     

    9:30am baby naps, 3 year old roomtime (plays in playroom independently, it's childproofed and has a reasonable amount of toys so not overwhelming).

     

    10:30am baby napping, 3 year old school (after doing calendar time in the playroom we move to the kitchen table to do OPGTR, math manipulatives, and art/crafts or play dough

     

    11:30am nurse baby, 3 year old watches spanish video

     

    12:00pm lunch & clean up

     

    12:30pm free play

     

    1:30pm storytime

     

    2:00pm Naptime for kids

     

    4:00pm nurse baby, 3 year old snack

     

    4:30pm outside/errands/free play if rainy

     

    5:30pm baby in jumper seat, 3 year old watches video while I prep dinner

     

    6:00/6:30pm dinner

     

    7:00pm nurse baby, baths, pajamas, story, prayers

     

    7:30/8:00pm bedtime for kids

  12. Time for a new shower curtain, maps, periodic table, ... :D

     

    Seriously, I've seen a shower curtain map before, it was the coolest thing ever!

     

    Anyway, how about prettying it up and using a frame with just the glass and writing on the glass in dry erase marker? Or just using one simple frame and changing out the 'picture' inside to be a printed quote every week or every month.

     

    Ikea has some magnetic boards as well I think. In fact, Ikea has everything I want for our schoolroom, lol! Love that place :)

  13. We've got the same problem (err, I mean blessing :lol:) around here too. Mine is younger than yours (just turned 3) so sorry I don't have a lot to offer as help. I think it's normal though for comprehension to lag a bit behind decoding ability. We're starting narrations now to reinforce what he reads, but we're only doing the books I read aloud to him. Probably by the time he's 4 I'll start asking him to tell me what happened in the books he's reading since he'll have graduated completely from Bob Books leveled readers by Christmas and be reading more interesting stuff than "Dot has a cat." lol!

  14. Yeah, that's a tough one. I think I usually went for a "pass the bean dip" reply. "He's my oldest, they grow so fast, do you have kids?", "He's getting bigger every day. I love your necklace, where did you get it?"

     

    I also used my tone and body language (sometimes overt gestures) to give the "ssh" message, but that didn't always work. Sometimes "yes, he does read a bit, we're trying not to make a big deal out of it" gets the point across, especially with an overt gesture or two (finger to lips in "ssh" motion, etc.) and another bean dip comment.

     

    LOL! I love the "pass the bean dip" replies :lol: That's actually a good way to deflect, I'll need to try that.

  15. Thanks everyone for these great tips!

     

    About the math, I was actually just thinking about that. He is certainly capable of moving on a bit there (currently he just counts to 29 and can do one-to-one correspondence) and it might be a good challenge, keep his mind and hands busy.

     

    We're definitely doing phonics, he hasn't done much sight reading up until these last few weeks. Before that he sounded out every word and right now his default is to sound out words. He only has the few necessary sight words "the, I, said, is" But yesterday he sounded out correctly a 7 letter compound word, lol! We're only on lesson 41 in OPGTR so it's way below his level but my thought is if I keep plugging away at that he'll have a firm underpinning in phonics and it'll just make sure I don't skip anything accidentally.

     

    I'm still trying to find a good way to handle those comments in public about him reading. He reads signs and papers and packaging all the time, out loud, and in public. Inevitably store employees say "how old is he?" and I tell them and they freak, going on and on about him reading. I'm actually considering lying but that seems like a bad precedent to set. I remember hiding my test papers from my classmates in school because they all yelled it out and made a big fuss if they saw an A. I was hoping to spare my kids that kind of embarrassment about academic achievement.

  16. Hey everyone, I figured I'd jump on here :) My DH is interviewing at a church in Hollidaysburg, PA next week. The last 1.5 years we've been in West Virginia (horrid place, don't go there, lol!)

     

    Is anyone else in the Altoona/Hollidaysburg area? I'm really hoping I can find a homeschooling group of some kind there.

  17. The above would be a very interesting discussion. What exactly happened in the American RC Church back in the 70's?

     

    Okay, I'm new to posting though I've been lurking on WTM boards a lot these past few months, so I have no idea how to properly quote people, lol! Sorry!

     

    Anyway, I think a lot of people would say Vatican II happened (1965 I think), but from what I can tell it was just one part of it, there were lots of reasons the catechism stopped being taught to kids. As a former teacher a lot of the modern educational theory can explain the poor catechesis of the generations of Catholics since 1970-ish. Those same modern educational techniques (pushing little kids to be creative, a fear of making them memorize prayers or catechism or bible verses), made their way into the Catholic church's education programs. When I was in CCD/PSR elementary school years we heard a few cute stories, were given facts orally and never required to write in class, and basically only told that Jesus loves us. Then our poor confirmation teachers got us and realized we didn't even have the Lord's Prayer memorized! So they spent their time drilling us in the basics--prayers, basic catechism stuff, and had no time to do the connecting/understanding level stuff. By the time we were confirmed most of my classmates were bored to tears and begged to stay home from church. They had no idea what the church was about.

     

    So now we have a couple generations with crappy catechism education, not a good thing. There are other aspects of American RCC that are problematic but the education of youth is my big issue.

     

    As for EO and RC, I am loving this discussion. My DH is Lutheran so I've actually looked into the EO church a bit, since he's a pastor and won't ever convert to RC especially since he couldn't be a pastor there. EO wouldn't have that hang-up. So far though I haven't found any compelling reason to go with the EO church over the RC church, not that the EO church doesn't have much to offer, it really is beautiful and I see a lot of wisdom in its teachings, I just haven't been compelled in that direction.

  18. Hmm, everything I've ever read or learned about language aquisition points to early learning being better. My MIL is a Spanish and German teacher and says the same thing. I nannied for a girl who was in a French Immersion school and she loved it, she really thrived there and was a fantastic reader. I've also known a 4 year old raised in a trilingual household who knew all 3 languages well and was very bright and well-spoken. I don't think anecdotal evidence alone really would make my decision on this one though, and the studies and experts I've known are firmly on the side of earlier-is-better so I definitely don't doubt going in that direction.

     

    Loving the discussion on the music stuff. The strings vs. piano thing makes sense, the hand span problem was one of the reasons I'd heard for waiting on piano a bit. Also, one piano teacher was concerned about burnout and students not being mature enough to handle the practice, but I think that's pretty individual.

  19. Thanks so much for the suggestions and advice so far!

     

    Carpe, music might be a good idea actually. I had always heard that piano shouldn't be started before 2nd grade though. He loves the piano, but I assume his fingers are just too small to really play it, he just messes around with the one at church (DH is a pastor and plays piano). Maybe I'll have my DH show him a few things on the piano, just goof off and see how he does. I feel like he needs his destructive little fingers kept busy. I've been giving him lots of lacing activities but need to get smaller beads, the ones he has are too easy.

  20. So I've been telling myself our son (turns 3 in 2 months) was just bright, but essentially normal. However, I'm starting to realize he's a freak (I mean that in the best way of course ;))! Anyway, he read his first Bob Book this Christmas, at 2.5 years old. Now 5 months later he's finished all of the first set (there are 12 or 16, I can't remember) and is moving on to basic digraphs and the "sneaky e". I'm loosely following Ordinary Parent's Guide to Teaching Reading ever since Christmas but he keeps jumping ahead. He seems happy with the review though so we'll keep plugging along. Thank God we're homeschooling but it's a little overwhelming to me, I'm hoping he levels out later on and the reading thing is a fluke because I feel totally unqualified to teach a super advanced kid.

     

    My question is long-term, what do I do with this kid until he's kindergarten age? He's obedient and a good kid overall but recently is getting destructive, taking objects apart whenever he's alone for even a second, and just thrives on more challenges.

     

    I already plan to do swim lessons, and then soccer next year after we move. We'd like the kids to learn spanish, would it be a good idea to try and slow down a bit on his reading/writing/number sense stuff and get him to focus on learning the second language instead? As a Lit major I was told that 0-5 is the key time to learn a second language, but then I struggle with spanish myself so we'd need a curriculum to teach me and him, kwim?

     

    WWYD? Would you carry on with academics, ignoring the fact that he's so young and going with his ability? Or would you attempt to slow those down and focus on a second language? Are there other things you found fun/useful to keep your accelerated learners happy and busy in preschool? I want him challenged and thriving, and while he has tons of time to free play I'm finding that too much free play leads to him becoming Mr. Destructo, lol!

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