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  1. "Sounds like a personal problem to me."

    (for whining or complaints)

     

    "I'm hanging the moose!"

    (when you are already doing what is asked of you, a Fawlty Towers reference)

     

    "What do you think this is, a fresh air school?"

    (a general use phrase, from my dh's grandmother--probably had to do with leaving the door open, but now expresses general disbelief/amused disapproval/whatever)

  2. Thank you thank you for all the support! I'm going to be checking back in for my cheering section when I become despondent.

     

    I forgot to say, the other BIG plus to this move is that my communte will go from 1/2 hour each way to 5 mintues each way! Since some days I go back and forth more than once, my free time should singificantly increase... I can pop home for lunch on work days, hop in for a meeting without missing dinner with the kids.

     

    Dh and I are ready to declutter--me more so than him, perhaps, but his therapist is encouraging him and he's ready to try to overcome his pack-rat instincts. He's really working hard to be open to this move, with a really positive attitude though I know he hates change. And the fact that he's named things that we need to get rid of--never thought I'd see that day. He's working hard, what a great guy!

     

    So today we're going over to new place and measuring for furniture. My current goal is to have the library (that room in the picture) packed by Wednesday, and be starting on the boy's rooms. Did I mention one of them has a closet filled with boxes unopened since our last move? (cough cough)

     

    OK, my ds 4 wants me to put in the "popcorn face". So, for no reason whatsoever: :lurk5:

  3. I think it's funny... for a class? Maybe not. But I'm definately the weird one of my college friends, most of who knew Rocky Horror well and did the parts in high school/college... my dh was Brad, but that was before I knew him. Back when he was really skinny. I've never seen it in a real theatre (which makes me a "virgin", in the parlance, I believe) and never had all the approriate supllies when I watched, but even on the small screen I get the campy silliness. It's SO 70s.

  4. OK, we are moving into a bigger house on September 1st. It's great, after 6 years of living in a townhouse with no yard, my church is doing a swap with the next UMC up the street, and we'll be living in their parsonage. Three bedrooms, three bathrooms, plus a huge office, and tons of storage space. And a yard. Immense by So. Cal standards (i.e., tiny anywhere else). But a yard that I can throw my children into to run off steam!

     

    The problem... how do we pry ourselves out of this place? All you de-clutterers, my house is where your clutter comes to die.

     

    We've been packing all afternoon--we've just finished the games closet. 7 big--like, U-haul extra-large size--boxes of board games later, a huge pile of games to give away later, and we've done one closet. One CLOSET!!! I did mention that our garage is packed to the ceiling, right? And all our bedrooms? And the bookshelves in the hall? Yep... we have over 20 floor-to-ceiling bookshelves full. Double-shelved, two books deep. I've finally got dh to agree that we need to jettison some stuff, but it's taking a long time, and even with a few weeks, I'm terrified!!!

     

    Here is my dh sticking his head out of the mostly-empty game closet. This is indicative of the rest of my house:

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    How am I going to do this? We go on vacation on the 23rd of this month (non-refundable tickets), I come back on August 7th by myself, and then my dh and the boys don't return until the 20th of August. We have to be out of here and moved by September 1! No paid movers (unless we can figure out how to afford them). We can do this.. right? RIGHT???

  5. The worst movie of all time is: Ghost Dad.

    http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/ghost_dad/

    Bill Cosby. Dead. Family comedy.

     

    You haven't heard of it. Be very very glad. This is actually the only movie in my life I've walked out of halfway through-- and I saw Dungeons & Dragons in the theatre.

     

    Actually, I like most of the movies you guys mention, and even those I didn't (Pan's Labyrinth--way too violent for me) are, admittedly, good movies. I think there is a difference between a "bad" movie and one that I just personally don't enjoy.

     

    Ghost Dad. Bad bad bad.

  6. I have to be honest, though -- if there were such a section, I wouldn't be able to bear fragmenting myself from my religious friends. Then I would worry that my posts would be sometimes too religiously tinged for the secular section and too much ideologically agnostic for the religious section.

     

    I'd feel like I do IRL -- neither fish nor fowl nor good red herring. I don't do secular boards because they are almost invariably "How oppressive/stupid/rude/idiotic/messed up/abusive/[insert sneering vituperative phrase here] ARE those religious people, anyhow?" then "I agree, can you believe what she said? Can you believe how much better they think they are?" And I don't do religious boards because there's a great deal of "I thank Thee that I am not as other men -- extortioners, unjust, or even as those Democrats. If only there were fewer secular humanists in the world, all our problems would be solved."

     

    And yeah, I'm exaggerating, but dang, that's what it feels like sometimes.

     

    ((Pam)) I so know what you mean...

     

    I'm an ordained pastor (yes, that means I'm Christian and very active in my faith), but have generally progressive theology and politics--pretty much the norm in my conference and denomination, not so much on these boards. The toughest thing for me in getting used to the boards over the years is the generalizations of Christians... "I'm Christian, so I believe thus-and-so", "If you were Christian, you would understand XYZ." Ummm... no. Not all Christians believe the same things--otherwise why have theologians been writing for 2000 years? So a lot of times I'm more comfortable hanging around with secular folks because they tend to make fewer of those assumptions, if that makes sense.

     

    The worst flaming I ever got (here or anywhere) was from a "Christian" who launched into me when they discovered I was a female pastor--and decided that lambasting me over points of theology during the time when my dh was in critical condition in ICU would be a fun thing to do. I was at a vulnerable time in my life, and ended up sobbing on the floor that my "boardies" had turned ugly. This was back on the old board, so it was anonymous, and in a more rational moment (of which I was having very few) I realized that many more of my dear friends stood to my defense.

     

    Honestly, I think through the board I've come to have greater apprectiation for folks of beliefs and theologies with which I totally disagree. I ran into a dear friend of mine recently, also a Clergy sister, and we had a long discussion about sin, hell and the nature of the atonement. We totally disagree. But we both recognize each other as followers of Christ, and that's just fine. It was one of the best theological discussion I've had for years--probably because too much of my professional life is spent with colleagues who would have just said "I so agree with you!"

     

    Just like it's fine that most of my best friends outside my church are Jewish, with a few Episcopalians thrown in for good measure, the only other SAHD my dh knows and hangs out with is Pagan, and one of our dearest friends these past 20 years is athiest... and I prefer the board to represent the diversity that I live in the midst of IRL.

  7. Well, that is a great description of what we love about EPGY!

     

    The financial aid isn't a loan, they just reduce the tuition. Ours comes out to about $70 a month (so... $210 instead of $500 per quarter). I do make less than $55, but you might just try it! It is a stretch for us, but beats anything else we've tried hands down.

  8. I know this was an old thread, but I noticed more people had finished their planning for next year, and I'd love to see thier plans.

     

    I also realized I've changed a few plans since originally posting:

     

    2nd Grade:

    SOTW II

    Literature--Classics 400-1600 (some read-aloud)

    GWG 4

    SWO E/F

    HWT Printing 2

    CW Aesop

    Trail Guide to World Geography

    Latin Prep

    MP Famous Men of Rome study

    EPGY Math (online)

    Explorers Beginnings II Bible

    Science Explorers -- Earth Science

    Drawing with Children

     

    Kindergarten:

    Explode the Code

    HWT K book

    Literature: Classic fairy tales (read aloud)

    Survey of world cultures (Based on GTG and other resources)

    Drawing with Children

    Singapore Earlybird Kindergarten mathematics

     

     

    So.... bump!

  9. After a belated and sullen start :glare:, I've come around to preferring the new format--so I didn't answer the poll.

     

    I consider us "classical" homeschoolers, but I can't say we follow WTM exactly or anything. I think that individuation is simply part of homeschooling, and it's a rare family that follows any particular plan exactly. I've got an acclerated son with special needs--so lots of modification going on here! We do Latin, base our structure around a 4-year history schedule... but the grammar/logic stage divide thing is not entirely relevant in our case.

     

    I'm curious--what do you mean that there are fewer classical posts? What exactly makes a thread "classical"? I guess dicussions of Latin are classical regardless... but otherwise, what would the criteria be?

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