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  1. I'm glad you are making an appointment with a counselor.

     

    I also believe if a child asks for counseling then it is very important to make this happen.

     

    This will be money well spent.

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  2. For the cell phones, our family purchased a really cheap cell phone unlocked phone for a "travel to different countries phone." The most important thing is that the phone HAS to be unlocked.

     

    We have this one.  It is a bare bones very basic unlocked phone that you can install any sim card that works in that particular country.  

     

    https://www.amazon.com/BLU-Advance-Unlocked-Smartphone-Black/dp/B072N6BD9V/ref=sr_1_6?s=wireless&ie=UTF8&qid=1514834163&sr=1-6&keywords=unlocked+phones

     

    You might need two though, for the two different cars.  

     

    Then, you can install a sim card for your phone(s).  Look around, there's a ton of different ones available.  This one popped up on Amazon when I typed in German sim card.  This one includes 1 GB of data, but there are other sim cards that don't include any data that are cheaper.

     

    //www.amazon.com/Included-Calling-Excellent-Coverage-Throughout/dp/B01HQ16WS4/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&qid=1514834294&sr=8-8&keywords=german+sim+card

     

    Honestly, we found this to be the best option even with purchasing new cheap unlocked phones. 

     

    With the power adapter, they also have a ton on amazon with good reviews.

     

     https://www.amazon.com/European-Adapter-Schuko-Germany-France/dp/B004SY5O5K/ref=sr_1_9?s=electronics&ie=UTF8&qid=1514834757&sr=1-9&keywords=european+electrical+plug+adapter

     

     

    Your trip sounds like an incredible experience!  Have fun!

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  3. My son has severe pronation and he in particular has found one pair of shoes that works GREAT for him.  They are expensive, but it doesn't matter to us because they help him so much.

     

    https://www.healthyfeetstore.com/brooks-beast-16-mens-running-shoe.html

     

    Also, on this website you can search for pronation and find shoes that are designed to help for over-pronation.  I have found it to be a very helpful website for buying shoes for him.  

  4. When I cut my hair short, I realized the same thing!  I actually called my hairstylist back and explained that I really didn't know what I was doing  (and yes, felt kinda stupid too).  But, it was the BEST thing ever!  She had me come back in and taught me how to style it.  I would do try it, and then she would tell me what I was doing wrong and how to fix it.

     

    Honestly, best thing I ever did for my hair

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  5. Cash is fine, but if you want to give a gift here are some ideas. Some have been what my own children have received and liked so I'm not sure where to buy them.

     

    Adult coloring book with pencils

     

    Cupcake kit

     

    Joke book

     

    Beginner knitting kit

     

    Cute journal

     

    Huge candy bar sold during Christmas time.

     

    I would say don't overthink it. I would buy something and be done. Personally, I don't like these gift exchanges at all. We just buy something random and go for it.

     

    For your future child. In the high school crowd Starbucks gift cards are the most coveted and stolen gifts in my opinion. Just FYI to help you out when your kid is older.

  6. Um . . . If a girl was conscious and up for this activity, wouldn’t she be more likely to want her dumpster sex to be hidden behind the dumpster and not next to it? I don’t think clearing up this particular detail helps him at all.

    Or, maybe someone conscience might not want her sex anywhere near a dumpster...,...

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  7. We played Escape the Room game last Christmas.

    I had low expectations going in, but it ended up being so much fun!

     

    I wouldn't play with too many people though. We had seven people and ended up playing it 3-2-2 people, repacking it per instructions between games. It seemed to work better with less people. We did this with 13 year olds and up, and worked great.

  8. Really, this is a bad situation all round.

     

    Here's the thing:  If the girls that she is continuing to be friends with treat the other two that were "kind of cut off....in an awkward sort of way"  This exact same thing could happen to your daughter!

     

    So, because of that I would have a long talk about how she can only expect to be treated the same way these girls are treating others.  If the tables turn, these same things could happen to your own daughter, and I think that she needs to be prepared for it.

     

    Personally, I would advise her to not engage in the drama.  I would also advise her to start reaching out to other people and groups.  There is no need to burn bridges with her friends now.  This can be a long slow process where you help her find situations where she would be exposed to other possible friendships.  Things take time.  But, I would begin NOW explaining that not all friends are like this, it's okay to make new friends and slowly drift away from a toxic friend group.   I think moms can help find situations that you think might be possible places to finding new friends.

     

    Honestly, these girls don't sound like a healthy place for your daughter to hang out.  I'm sorry.  These things are terrible.

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  9. Hello!

     

    I know someone here will have the answer to my question!

     

    My husband wants to download and listen to his favorite songs while working out. (There is no wifi)

     

    He has an old windows phone that does not have data.  He has no desire for a new phone and likes his phone

     

    So, I had THOUGHT that we might buy an ipod and download songs to it.  But, for some reason the ipods seem really expensive! (What happened when I wasn't paying attention?!)

     

    What is the cheapest way to get old favorite songs on a device (or his Windows phone)  for listening to music these days? 

     

    Thanks!

     

     

  10. DawnM, I believe this thread is so large that people are extrapolating and replying to others' and possibly giving ideas to help all different kinds of people and situations that feel this way.

     

    I think it can be helpful to a wide variety of people and myself have been appreciating ALL the different kinds of ideas that are being offered up. 😀 It's okay that their ideas might not apply to you and your family, because the ideas might help someone else. It seems to be a wide issue that affects families in different ways.

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