We go to the library every week, and I allow my girls (ages 4 and 2) to pick out a couple of books on their own. It never fails that my four year old gravitates toward the Dora, Bob the Builder, etc. books, which is precisely why I limit the number they get to pick. My girls don't even watch network t.v.; we very occasionally will check out a Dora or Bob video or DVD from the library (maybe 2 times a month). Otherwise, they might get to watch a children's church/Bible songs or Miss Pattycake video a few times a week (i.e. while I shower). We have a number of Disney Princess books at home, mostly given to us as gifts. How do I limit this (for my own sanity, if nothing else) without being a mean ogre mommy?
To clarify, we do a lot of reading, and because my graduate degree is in library science, I am already fairly knowledgable about what is considered quality children's literature. We read lots of pictures books and a chapter or so out of a longer book just about every day. However, there's always some "twaddle" mixed in there.
What do you do?