BamaTanya Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 if you know you should be focusing on getting out of debt instead of spending money on things you don't need? Just curious . . . We have access to money (credit), but no real money for extras. KWIM? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tami Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 ummm...most men like the free stuff. See the Valentine's thread. :D If you are ambitious, try making massage oil with some Olive Oil and a bit of vanilla or almond extract and give a really relaxing massage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momo4 Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Wow is our food budget off balance! and yes, KW YOU M! My favorite thing on my birthday is to hear, "Happy Birthday", as often as possible. It reminds me that it is my special day. I think the above post is right on for men along with a favorite meal. You could cut corners on other nights to splurge more on the birthday night. For the kids I usually use second hand and garage sales for gifts that they will like, but don't cost too much. In the future you could have gifts in your budget category.:) Not there myself! Coupon book for special favors or just give the special favor on the birthday or before. For example, clean out the garage for dh. Mine would love that present. Lastly, going somewhere special that doesn't cost. My younger ones would love to spend time at the park, my older ones would love to go fishing or hiking, and hiking for myself and my husband. Treat it like a special day and they/you will feel special even without presents. If going without presents I would explain the thinking behind it beforehand. My family is quick to get on board when they understand where we are going and why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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