mom2samlibby Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 In that case, I would say no gift would be expected from those who already attended showers. Those who weren't able for some reason might bring a gift. Why would anyone have to do multiple gifts? I think that would be rude to expect that. I would think it's kind of like those who bring gifts to a wedding because they didn't make the shower. But if I gave a gift at a shower, I don't ever take another one to the wedding. ETA after I posted this I googled some, and apparently some people DO expect a gift from people both at the shower and at the wedding. Some posted, "If someone can't bring a gift to the wedding, they shouldn't come". But I have to say if they were a person with that attitude, I would probably not want to be at their wedding anyway! The only time I bring another gift to the wedding is if the shower was specialized, lingerie or something. Woah, that's very poor etiquette. A gift should be taken to both the shower and the wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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