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  1. Mine was preplanned and easy.

     

    I lwas up an walking within 4 hours and eft the hospital after 48 hours (almost exactly) with nothing more than Motrin for pain.  I had no problems getting around and actually seemed to be in better shape than many of the other women there who had traditional deliveries.  By 2.5 weeks out I was hiking (short, gentle trails) and had no real effects from the surgery.

     

     

  2. It might not be the most popular option but I cut it.  When my younger wouldn't keep her hair out of her mouth I warned her that it was gross and if it continued she would have to choose a haircut that prevented it.  It continued so she got a (very cute) short bob with bangs for about 6 months until the habit had been broken.

  3. Around here high schools are always looking for people willing to take part time positions or tutor.  Part time positions are generally one or two sessions of a class and because of block scheduling are a few hours every other day.  Tutoring is generally volunteer and you make your own schedule.  

     

    Tutoring college students might also be a good idea because you would become familiar with the class scope and sequence at the schools you might want to work at.  

  4. Sounds a lot like one of my girls.  The neuropsych eval showed a very high IQ with severe anxiety and moderate ADHD.  It has been a long process but once we found the right combination of medication (Psychiatrist) and therapy (CBT with a licensed counselor who specializes in anxiety in children) things started to get better.  She is still a harder kid than my other and likely always will be but she is not nearly as hard as she was.

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  5. It sounds like you two main options...

     

    Tell her no

    Watch her kids but don't have her watch yours (maybe there is something else she could do for you instead...mow your lawn, etc)

  6. There is no picture.

     

    It is not all that uncommon to wind up with cellulitis after a sting.  I would watch it closely and take her in immediately if it becomes extremely painful or the rate it is spreading increases.  If it isn't particularly painful it is probably fine to wait and have it looked at tomorrow (cellulitis hurts!).

  7. If the injury occurred while she was away working for the summer any required medical care should be covered under workers comp.  You may want to start by speaking with her employer to find out what you need to do to ensure you are following the necessary steps to have it covered.

  8. Here is another example:  teaching preschoolers at Sunday School.  She LOVES doing this and she is REALLY good at it...but even that, she will only put forth a little effort to prepare for the lesson.   probably a bit more than piano or organ, but not a lot...and yet, by her own admission, she LOVES teaching SS. 

     

    this is seriously her personality....

     

    so what do I say to her when she complains but doesn't desire to change?  I have told her change or don't complain...and she understands that...but she doesn't change.  even if I stop listening.  It is maddening.

     

    Is it that she doesn't want to change or that she doesn't know how to change?  I have one who can be like this and I finally figured out that it is an issue of being anxious that she will fail.  She comes off as disinterested but really she is reluctant to try too hard for fear she won't succeed and will have to face that disappointment.  

     

    It has taken a lot of sending her back to redo things until they are done well for her to learn that it is worth the effort the first time (but she is also younger...not sure how that would work at 15).

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