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  1. 1 minute ago, Bootsie said:

    I try to leave enough room so that I can see the ground behind the tires of the car in front of me.  If someone rear ends me in the stop-and-go traffic line, I don't want to rear-end the person in front of me.  If the person in front of me has car problems, or for some other reason I need to exit the line, I want to have enough room to maneuver.  

    However, if I see that leaving that much room causes problems such as leaving the car behind me stuck in traffic, I will pull up closer.  

    This is what I do too.

  2. What about under eye cover up? I use a Mineral Fusion concealer, but cream and tiny wrinkles aren't a good combination. (I inherited darkish under-eye circles from the Polish side of my family; we all have them.) I have also used Pacifica correcting concealer, and experienced the same problem. Recommendations?

    And I second the Acure products for face creams/serums. They work well for me.

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  3. We're having a crazy spring, summer too. We flew halfway across the country because our eldest was in the hospital with Covid complications and needed help when she was released. (My husband and I sat across from the doctor's office at a shady graveyard and did crossword puzzles for a couple hours on my birthday, since we couldn't go in the clinic, there wasn't anything within walking distance, and we needed to be ready when her appt was over. Somehow, we did manage to have fun!)

    The next month we went on a trip to celebrate our youngest's college graduation (first pleasure trip since pandemic) and my dh cracked a rib sand sledding, and I cracked my tibia and partially tore my ACL a few days later skiing. The next week, back at home, same dd and her fiancé were bicycling and he had a nasty fall and broke both bones in one wrist—had to have surgery and a plate inserted.

    It's been two months since my accident and I am just now able to walk without crutches (except stairs) and was cleared to drive short distances, in town, last week. So, I have done a lot of sitting around this summer!

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  4. On 7/16/2022 at 4:28 PM, Pam in CT said:

    For literally decades I used to be fine with them -- I mean, I guess I was kinda-sorta picky about which ones I'd wear, but once I had one that fit I never used to chafe at wearing it.  (Never needed an underwire/massive support; and never wore one to sleep, so always had downtime.)

    BUT. In my advanced menopausal age, I now get HEAT RASHES between the books and all around the elastic.  Doesn't matter what kind. Cotton is marginally better than anything-other-than-cotton, but even the cotton ones have elastic. So now, no matter WHAT bra I get, I have a chronic rash between the books that never heals; I'm itchy and twitchy by the end of the day and, increasingly, resent every minute I'm wearing one.

     

    I wonder if these could help: https://www.eczemacompany.com/remedywear-bra/

    I have a family member who had some skin issues who wore the bra and also some of the leggings. The elastic at the waist is fabric covered. They do only offer light support (looser fitting than a sports bra).

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  5. We just age-qualified and signed up for one year because we rented an SUV for a week of vacation, and the AARP discount was the best we could find. I don't know whether we'll renew.

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  6. Our 24 yo nephew is treated seriously and with respect by his John Hopkins team. His biggest issue is getting the side eye when people see him self-transfer (stand up) from his wheelchair.

    Dd27 was just diagnosed last week—onset due to long Covid. Her primary and specialists (pulmonary and cardiac rehab) are respectful and proactive, but the hospital personnel were a nightmare. She was inpatient two days and had all the heart tests. When they came back normal, they told her she was being discharged since nothing was wrong and it was just psychological. (She couldn't sit or stand without her heart rate hitting 180.) She is half the country away, but I called and was advocating for her. I asked for a POTS screening and also for a referral to a long-Covid clinic. The nurse I spoke with hadn't heard of POTS and said they wouldn't refer her to the out-of-network Covid clinic. Dd27 heard the staff scoffing and saying POTS and long Covid weren't real things and how ridiculous it was that they had to speak with the mother. Being written off was more difficult for dd27 than feeling physically horrible.

    She held firm and said she was not well enough to leave the hospital and, thankfully, she had a different doctor the next day who looked at her inpatient heart rate monitor history, checked her rates when she changed position, and prescribed a beta blocker.

    So, yes, we have seen dismissal of POTS, but specialists and caring primaries seem to be taking it seriously.

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  7. 7 minutes ago, ktgrok said:

    Ooo! Thank you! I'll share the first, for sure. (The second might make her feel worse than she already does for potentially exposing me.)

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  8. 33 minutes ago, mommyoffive said:

    Oh wow, and you she is trying to stay up on the CDC news.  I don't blame her.  I feel like you have to be really on top of this for the last 2 plus years to know what you should do.  Dh pays a tiny bit of attention to it.  I have paid so much attention to it.  Like over the years it was everyday and reading all the stuff.  He would come to me to know what to do.  I can't imagine if you were not even paying attention or reading anything, how little you would know.  Plus the CDC has not been good during this at all getting messages out.  

    I agree. I am like you and have followed carefully (thank you WTM Board!) from the beginning. Still, I have received many eye rolls and pretty much all our friends have drifted from us because we suggested others might want to buy ahead before Covid hit the US hard...wear masks...avoid large, indoor gatherings...stay at home from church when things are bad.

    It seems like if the general public had the information we have on this board, from the very beginning, that a lot more people might (might...) be willing to mask, stay home when sick, etc.

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  9. 1 hour ago, Joker2 said:

    To be fair, I was told by the doctor I saw yesterday that, “I was almost done”, since I was on day 4. She told me on day 6, I could start hanging out with my family again and did not need to retest or anything. I just nodded but thought she was crazy since for the first four days I woke up feeling worse than the day before. Today, is the first day I didn’t but I feel the same as yesterday. I’m not hanging out with my family until my symptoms are gone and I test negative. Unfortunately, it seems many are being told by healthcare workers after day five they’re good no matter what. 

    Yes! The communication about this disease is not good—geared to less work-time loss rather than best health practices.

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  10. 1 hour ago, SHP said:

    Let me guess, she also doesn't think she should retest to ensure she is not positive? I dealt with that with an in home health care worker. She actually entered the house of an immune suppressed client who has been fighting an ongoing infection for two years without a mask and without retest with the rational that it had been 5 days and she wasn't told to retest. I was so shocked by the ignorance and disregard for clients health that I was unable to verbalize any of the million things going through my mind. Probably for the best, but still HOW can a person be both knowledgeable and yet so ignorant?

    Exactly. I don't think it has occurred to her to test until negative, and that is not the messaging the CDC is putting out there.

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  11. Can I just agree with what has been said so often: information-sharing and messaging is abysmal. I work for a very intelligent, lovely woman who does try to stay abreast of CDC recommendations. Yet...

    1. Came into the office unmasked even though hoarse, stuffy and sneezing.

    2. Got a positive Covid result on Saturday and emailed (instead of texted or called) the three of us she had been in close contact with. I got the email at work today...after having our daughter over for Father's Day.

    3. Said that I should be fine since we were socially distanced (standing in my office about 6 feet apart and talking/sneezing).

    4. Took a couple emails and a phone conversation to convince her to ask her doctor about Paxlovid. She didn't know it was readily available and not only prescribed to those who are immumocompromised. Her doc immediately wrote her a script due to several factors.

    5. Only plans to isolate 5 days if she is fever free for 24 hours.

    Sigh.

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  12. When ds25 was in high school, he broke his collarbone skiing out of state. Through some mix up, he didn't get a bill, and the medical center didn't want to tell me the amount to pay. He had to ask.

    About a week later, I had to sign a permission slip for him to go to the local zoo with his high school photography class. (I understand that the first instance was HIPPA and the second was a liability issue for the school, but the contrast still made me laugh.)

    Edited to add: He was 18 at the time.

  13. 6 hours ago, Harriet Vane said:

    I'm so very, very sorry. I think it's so much more devastating in someone so athletic.

    It sounds like you are doing all the appropriate things to assess and figure out healing and repair. One thing I will add--a very dear friend of mine is a physical therapist and does athletic training as well. Her observation has been that there is no way to hit the ground running from this--she says repair and exercise specifically post-covid has to be "low and slow." 

    I am not a dancer, but I do exercise with intensity several times a week, and when I had what I think was covid back in March 2020, I found that I was breathless for many months after. It was hard building back up, specifically because of the quick breathlessness. I was able to get back into non-aerobic activity slowish-but-okay (like weight-lifting), but anything with an aerobic component (going through repetitive motions quickly, biking, elliptical, or stairs) left me gasping and unable to function all too soon. 

    Thank you! And I think you are right. Ballet dancers are used to pushing through and usually have a high pain tolerance, which can be a problem. Dd27 just kept pushing through a couple months of rehearsals and performances until her body rebelled. She had worked all day and showed up for rehearsal the day she was hospitalized!

    I'm thankful that her director sent her home and that her doctor counseled her to go to the ER when she was talking with the doctor on the phone and having a hard time making it up the stairs in dd's home.

    And, yes, it is hard when it hits an athlete who has trained so hard for so many years. From the beginning I have dreaded this scenario because, of the five of us, long Covid can most affect dd27's life/career. (And to add to the data, two of the five of us have had Covid, dd22 and dd27. Dd22--college girl--was very tired, but functional, for about five days and had sinus congestion.) Dd27 said she will always get available boosters, since obviously her body does not do well with Covid!

    Having said all that, we are very thankful dd27 was only in the hospital for two days. Some families' situations are so much worse than ours.

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  14. I don't want to clog the thread with personal updates, but since there have been a few recent posts about young adults post Covid, I'll share one more update on dd27 (professional dancer and preschool teacher) who is vaxed and boosted, contracted Covid in February, pushed along, and then ended up in the hospital a couple weeks ago for two days.

    We ended up flying to her to help her for the week after she was released from the hospital. She missed 2.5 weeks of work (plus the 2 weeks she was flat out in February with the initial Covid infection), and today was her first day back to work since she was released from the hospital. She had hoped to start dancing again this week or next, but it's looking like she will be out for the rest of the season to heal.

    She will have appointments with a neurologist to test for POTS as well as working with a pulmonology/cardiac rehab team. She has been on a beta blocker, since she was hospitalized, as her pulse hit 140-180 every time she sat up or stood. The med is doing a good job of stabilizing her heart rate.

    So, yeah, it's an awful disease that is unpredictable in its outcome!

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