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  1. Dh and I plan to teach our kids to drive a manual car too. They will learn through our instructions and lots of practice.

     

    My older sister learned to drive using a simulation machine. It was offered through the school system at the time (early '80s). I don't know if that type of instruction is still available or where, besides a ps, to find it. You could research online schools, maybe.

     

    I hope she gets the hang of it soon. It will be worth all of those "rough evenings" once she's driving well. :)

    Denise

  2. I have large, overgrown scars on one leg (hip surgeries) and on my back (cyst). When my kids asked, I explained how they got there and why. It did lead to lots more questions but the discussions were always good. In the end, I said scars are like a permanent band-aid. After a time, their interest wained and the older 2 tend to forget the scars are there. The littlest is still fascinated by them. :)

     

    I think young children can and do understand about surgeries and accidents. They tend to react the way the adult reacts, so if your dd remains calm and matter-of-fact, her dc will too. The interest will take a while to subside though. :)

    Denise

  3. :grouphug: I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. You are right not to put your finances at risk. Does your mom understand that what she is requesting is putting her grandchildren's future at risk? She might not be thinking about it and will certainly deny it if you mention it, but it's true.

     

    Parents can really hurt their children and grandchildren. More :grouphug:s.

    Denise

  4. Yes. I am feeling this way now. It feels like I am failing at keeping up or doing a good job with anything - schooling, housework, cooking decent meals and so forth.

     

    I think it will pass, it has before. Where we live, there are no private high schools to send my oldest, not that we can afford one anyway. The ps academics are poor so they're not an option either. It all boils down to me bucking up and getting a handle on the schedule. Next weekend is a 3-day weekend and I plan to spend it catching up and reorganizing the school materials. If I can do this periodically, I come to the end of the yr. with everything done.

     

    My kids are very spread out and I know that contributes to feeling pulled in too many directions. My middle child is giving me a lot of push back right now and that is certainly a contributing factor.

     

    Hang in there. The support here on this board really helps. Though reading posts sometimes makes me feel like a slacker, it also makes me try to reach higher and helps me regain my motivation.

    :grouphug: and prayers that you get on top of things soon.

    Denise

  5. It's my understanding that the anatomy of a rat is closest to a human. If you can stand the idea of a rat in your house, even a dead one is too much for me, then I would choose the rat.

     

    After that, a shark and/or fetal pig for interest and variety. Plus, they're larger animals so it's easier to see the organs.

    Denise

  6. If I'm not mistaken, Lial's has a pre-algebra book?

     

    You could also use Basic College Math by Margaret Lial. Many people use it as a pre-algebra course. Plus, it's pretty inexpensive.

     

    My oldest used Russian Math by Perpendicular Press. It prepared my son well for algebraic thinking. We used the first version. I understand he has come out with a newer version.

     

    There is also the Dolciani pre-algebra books. We used it more as a reference book but it's good text.

     

    I hope you find what you need.

    Denise

  7. We use it, also bought through HSBC, and really enjoy it. My ds, 10, did not really like science until he began watching these videos. Now, he tries as many of the experiments that I will allow.

     

    Also, he's my kid that doesn't retain info. well. Things don't seem to stick for him. But with this program, he does retain the information. It's fun to hear him explain to his dad how and why things work the way they do.

     

    Have fun with it. :001_smile:

    Denise

  8. Cary Grant was awesome:

    Bringing Up Baby

    Philadelphia Story

    Father Goose

    I was a Male War Bride

    Arsenic and Old Lace

    Operation Petticoat

    My Favorite Wife

     

    :001_wub:I have them all, this is making me want to re-watch them, haven't been into movies much lately.

     

    Was Gregory Peck the one who was in Big Sky and Designing Woman?

    :001_wub:

     

    Oh, Gregory Peck. I forgot about him. He's was a favorite of mine too.

    Thanks for this thread!

    Denise

  9. Do these two people know each other? If so, I really wouldn't say anything. After thinking about it for a few minutes, I don't think you should say anything regardless of whether they know each other or not. It would only serve to discourage the one friend.

     

    You might let her know that there may be several people applying, which is probably true, and that it's a very competitive scholarship. That way your friend can make sure to put forth a good effort and be prepared to not receive it. Sometimes a rejection is easier to take if you know you've done your best but it was a very competitive field.

     

    I hope that helps. And I hope both of your friends find the scholarships they need and want.

     

    You're a good friend to consider all of this on their behalf. They should know how fortunate they are to call you friend.

    Denise

  10. Yes, I think we all go through periods of feeling anxious. For me, the high school yrs. with all the tests, deadlines and hoops to jump through have been a constant source of anxiety.

     

    When it gets really bad, I drink a tea made to relax tension. I take 5-HTP on a reg. basis to help w/other things.

     

    In the end, talking to dh and reminding myself that dc are getting a good education that will prepare them for whatever they want to do in life, calms me the most.

     

    As a mom, I'm not sure you're ever completely free from worrying about your kids, even when they are married with kids of their own. :tongue_smilie: It's the sign of a good mom.

    Denise

  11. Tell them both. Let whoever is sponsoring the scholarship decide who will get it. Being disappointed that I didn't get the scholarship would hurt a lot less than a friend withholding the info.

     

    Also, if both of your friends are quality people, recommending both of them should not carry less weight. I would tell them both so you don't end up hurting one.

    Denise

  12. That is great! I'm glad you've met some homeschool moms and have promising friendships. That is wonderful.

     

    It can be easy to feel blue. When homeschool groups don't fit or the only family you're friends with moves away. We are currently in both of these situations. Right now it's ok since we're really busy and wouldn't have much time to devote to seeing friends anyway. Still, I'll find a way to work on changing the situation. ;)

     

    I agree w/other posters, your homeschool looks fun. As people get to know you, they will be drawn to you and want to participate in things w/you. I hope it all goes well for you. If you lived near me, I'd invite you over. So, consider yourself invited! :001_smile:

    Denise

  13. My ds #1 wet the bed almost every night until he was 11. He was a very deep sleeper and I think that was the cause of the bed-wetting. We opted not to use pull-ups so yes, I had to wash the sheets and his clothes every morning. The closer he got to age 11, the less frequent his bed-wetting. Some boys wet the bed through age 12. Dh said that is very common.

     

    I was worried about camp-outs but the Scouts seem to take it in stride. No one made an issue out of it, much to my relief. So, I would just leave your son alone and it will probably resolve on it's own.

    Denise

  14. If it is at all possible, mine will live at home for at least their first 2 yrs. of college. If one of them chooses trade school or some sort of apprenticeship, they can live at home too. The only way we would not let them live here is if they behaved like bums - not even trying to get a job, doing drugs, etc. Otherwise, they are welcome to stay and save up until they can be on their own.

    Denise

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