My advice is to wait. My dd was just like that when she was 5. I put up the reading book and would pull it out every once in a while to see what her interest level was. In the meantime I just kept reading everything I could to her. About a week before her 6th birthday she just picked up the reading book and wanted to learn. With in a few weeks she was done with it and is now reading whatever she can. My dd would cry and tell me she was stupid too that is why I decided to stop pushing her altogether.

I am the first born of 3. My brothers are 7 and 10 years younger than me. I have 3 girls so far. ETA: my brothers are 22 and 26 and think I am nuts for home schooling.