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  1. We took the summer off and started SOTW 2 last week. Today, I was reading from chapter 4 about the Byzantine Empire. After one paragraph I asked a question. She looked at me and said "I don't know what you are talking about"

     

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    Yes, I have a ds who has done the same thing with SOTW 1. Though, he does not do this with every book I read. If he is super interested he will be able to share what I read. Could it be that your dd is not interested (yet) in the content of that particular book?

  2. I'm considering CKE Earth & Space for my 8 yr olds, as well. I've been looking throught it and have thought the same thing....there is too much writing for my dc. I'm either going to save it for next year or just tweak it a bunch. I thought that they could do many of the sheets, but we would probably skip the "reading sheet". I'm trying to figure out a fun way to have them make a book w/ the map sheets etc.

     

    Again, I'm also thinking of waiting until next year. As crazy as it may sound, we are also going to do Nebel's BFSU. I just LOVE his science book. I thought I could weave the 2 books together??

     

    Have you made any more decisions about CKE?

  3. Wow, this post thread has been very encouraging. Thank you(OP) for starting it! I wanted to follow the WTM history cycle starting in 1st grade. Unfortunately, SOTW did not work well for us that year. I waited a few months and tried again....and failed again. We opened SOTW 1 again this summer and have been slowly reading it. I still notice that my dc(8) glaze over while reading, but I'm determined to finish it. I skip over some of the mythology stories because it seems to be hard for them to differentiate between real and pretend(in this book). After we read a short chapter, I grab my Usborne Ancient picture books and show them some colorful pictures about what we just read. We also look at the globe if applicable.

     

    I have a feeling that waiting until they are 10-12 to cycle through would work better for us.

  4. As hsers, grade level is irrelevant for practical purposes; however, my very strong recommendation is that when it's necessary to choose a grade- level designation, it should be the one a child would be in if he were in school, according to his birthday and the cut-off date in the state where he lives. And he should be "in first grade" the year he turns 6--IOW, not kindergarten.

     

    My boys would not have been emotionally ready for 1st grade at 6. Another thing to think about- We have lived in different states, with different cut off dates.....so the average age for each grade has changed from state to state.

     

    Regardless, I'm very glad that my dc started K at 6, which means that they started 2nd at 8.

  5. I wrote stereotype because the families that we have come across in our homeschool path automatically assume that we are Lego lovers. Maybe stereotype is not the correct word. Really, I should have titled it "Why do so many people assume that- because we homeschool and have boys- we love to play with Legos?".

     

    After reading all of the responses, I've realized that NOT everybody assumes this.....for some reason, we keep meeting families who have different interests than ours. We just happen to meet Lego lovin' kids. It doesn't seem to bother my boys . I think it bothers me:lol:

  6. 1. They don't involve a screen

     

    2. As far as toys go, they are a bit more on the wholesome/educational side

     

    3. A large span of ages can play with them

     

    4. Many kids really do like them (my girl is the biggest Lego fan in the family).

     

    5. Very few people object to them. I have some friends who don't do TV, some who don't do video games, some who don't do Harry Potter, some who don't do toy guns, swords, or war games. But I've yet to meet anyone who has a moral objection to Legos.

     

    Put all those together, and it's easy to see why a lot of homeschoolers embrace them. My kids really do like Legos, but I've probably encouraged that love more than I have with any other toy.

     

    Oh, I understand why a homeschool family/child would like them. Heck, I like them....I love all of their pretty colors. My children are just not that interested in them. I get that they are used to keep busy fingers occupied during lessons, but that would not work in our home. Give them a pile of rocks, marbles, Beanie Babies(etc) and they will have a blast. Legos, not so much.

  7. I'm really glad you asked that question, it's one I've pondered often. If encouraged my lot will build Lego models with a fair amount of enthusiasm, but they DO need encouragement, it would never occur to them to get the Lego out themselves. In fact I don't think it's been out in almost a year. I have sometimes worried that maybe they're just totally uncreative and boring, but then I watch the elaborate make-believe adventures they play for hours in the garden (all four of them together aged 3 to 11), and I'm reassured. :001_smile:

     

    :iagree: Yep, same thing in our house. Though, as I mentioned, they love the little Lego guys. As you mentioned, right now I can hear my boys acting out different characters and jumping on their mini trampoline...and then I'm reassured:001_smile:

  8. No, you're not. My boy enjoys Legos, but not with a passion. He'll build the odd thing once in a while, but he'd much rather read or build things with real wood and nails or just plain do other things most of the time. I find the Lego thing to be pretty consuming in many of our homeschool groups, too... one of the boys is even setting up a Lego blog. I just kind of shrug and move on.

     

    :iagree: I could totally relate to your post. Thanks for sharing!!

  9. I've always found this stereotype sort of interesting. My boys could take or leave Legos. They love the Lego guys and will make up all kinds of pretend stories around them, but building with Legos has never been their passion. In each homeschool circle that we have been it is assumed that my boys must love Legos. At our last homeschool co-op, the morning devotion was centered around Legos....we have been invited to Lego parties...playdates are focused around Legos. I'm fine with all that( I guess) but it's starting to feel like we are the only homeschooling family of boys who like to do a list of other things before playing with Legos. Really, unless I pull the bin out, they forget we even have them.

     

    Tell me, are we the only non-Lego loving family?

  10. Karis-Thanks for clarifying. I think I used the word "girlfriend" too loosely. She's a person I met a few months ago...more than an acquintance. Anyway, no worries.....I think there was a bit of miscommunication throughout the post:001_smile:

     

    I did learn a lot through this post, thank you all! I'm guessing that they got a quiet divorce and will marry when this situation blows over. Wow.

  11. I'm a Christian. I struggled for a while with my Christianity.....one day I realized that it was certain Christians, it was what man had turned Jesus and the Bible into, it was so many man-made Christian "habits", it was people that I needed healing from and not my faith, hope and love for Jesus.

     

    I believe that Christianity today is very different than Jesus had meant for it to be. Just MY thoughts , from my experiences.....please no one attack me.

     

    And with that being said....I'm re-learning who He is.

     

    Wishing you peace and clarity Joanne.

  12. Auntie M-Thank you! I appreciate your kind reply. Actually, I did ask her some specific questions last time we were together. She seems to have an answer for everything. I have already realized that we are not meant to hang out. It's not a positive experience. I will continue to be kind and welcoming to her, but I will not initiate any playdates etc. I actually feel really sorry for her.

  13. The things people do!!

     

    It's a scam. A way to "get over."

     

    Legal? Sure.

     

    Ethical...?? :001_huh: :glare:

     

    But it sounds like she shared this info. in confidence.

     

    Yes, she's anonymous to us but would she appreciate you discussing it?

     

    She should've kept her personal household business to herself.

     

    In any case, she talks too much. If she readliy shares her own business, she'll share yours, too.

     

    Did I just get chastised for asking an anonymous question? How is my anonymous question any different from any other anonymous question on this board? People are posting questions about neighborhood kids...neighbors....other families...work questions....mother in laws...etc.

    Anyway....back to life.

  14. I've been thinking "run far away" too! The sad thing is that we are new to our area and they are our only homeschool friends. I'm fooling myself though, she is not truly a friend. Friendship needs honesty.

    She definitely pretends that they are living an amazing life...always on the go, always happy and bubbly, constantly buying new things. I usually leave our playdates feeling discouraged and boring.

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