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  1. Have you ever or would you ever sign a statement of faith to join a co-op even if you didn't really believe all that is in the statement?

     

    Nope. I definitely wouldn't lie about my beliefs to join a group. And I doubt I would feel comfortable in these groups (thinking of the specific SOFs that I have read, which are so contradictory to my own beliefs), so I wouldn't want to join anyway.

  2. We experienced the same sort of issues. She was having trouble with the concept of blending. I took a break from OPGTR, and we played games: we used the magnetic board to make words, and then switched the first letter, etc., I made homemade memory cards with 3 letter words... I didn't like the looks of ETC, but I bought it anyway (and she loves it!). We practiced, practiced, practiced.

     

    We didn't keep plowing through the lessons, but we didn't repeat the lessons either. She has now made it through Lesson 53 - we move slowly but steadily and it may take us two days to do one lesson. But she gets it now, and she didn't then.

  3. You might want to ask you pediatrician. It could be he is just small and will catch-up later, or like the poster before said, are there any symptoms that might explain his slow growth? Celiac is becoming more and more common as well as other food issues that can cause slow growth. I think just having a good check-up will ease your mind.

     

    :iagree: If you were small, and he has always been small, then I wouldn't worry too much, especially as you say he eats well and seems healthy. If you continue to worry, I would see a doctor.

  4. Yes, you responded to Sola Michelle... not that it's any big deal (no mea culpa necessary :))... I was just wondering how you did that since you don't have a quick reply button in linear mode.

     

    Okay, one more question... how do you do those multiquotes? The only reason I haven't done it so far is I can't figure out how! LOL

     

     

    I'm in linear mode, and there is a quick reply button on each post...

     

    For multiquotes, at the end of each post, next to the quote button, there is a button with quotation marks and a plus sign. Click that on each post you want to quote.

  5. Check out this book: The Highly Senstive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them. I've enjoyed it, and it has helped me understand myself and the almost 5 year old I care for.

     

    If you are the same personality type (I am as well), the same author wrote another book: The Highly Sensitive Person. I haven't read this one, though I probably should.

     

    Even as an adult, I struggle to force myself to do new things. (This is huge progress, though, as I am forcing myself, rather than being pushed by my mother.) I have learned to focus on the accomplishment of actually trying something new, rather than how well (or poorly) I actually did it.

     

    Baby steps. Push a little bit more each time, and hopefully it will get a bit easier. Offer lots of encouragement for trying new things, and putting herself out there. And be very understanding. She doesn't want to make things difficult, things are just very hard and overwhelming for her. And homeschooling is definitely not ruining her. :)

  6. I agree that a list may be the best way to go about it. It sounds like they don't want to be offensive, but they don't know what is offensive because they haven't been exposed. I would rather my children learn (at an appropriate age, which I think your daughters are - not at, say 5) what words general society finds offensive, so they don't unknowingly use them inappropriately.

     

    It is very probable (almost definite) that if you give them a list, you will be missing words or phrases. Perhaps ask them that if they hear a word or phrase for the first time to ask you about it, so you can give them an accurate meaning, and have an opportunity to warn them if it is offensive.

  7. Newbery Medal and Newbery Honor books and other award winners. Children's classics, especially those I remember reading when I was growing up. (Bonus points for ones my mother read and loved too, etc.) The Ambleside Online lists and Sonlight are good for books I have never heard of, and for reminding me of books I may have forgotten about.

  8. Check out this free file at Lulu: Grammar Stage Memorization. It's got some great suggestions of poems, scripture, and facts to memorize.

     

    We (almost 5 year old) have memorized days of the week, seasons, and months of the year, The 5 Vowels and The Consonant Rhyme (from OPGTR), and two poems "Try, Try Again" and "1, 2 Buckle My Shoe." She LOVES to show off how well she can recite the poems. (Amazing, as she is especially sensitive, and really does not like to perform for people...)

     

    We have address, full name, parents' names, etc. memorized. We are working on phone numbers.

     

    For K, I don't necessarily have any specific goals of "these are what I want to have memorized" but we do work on memory work when we feel like it, and we have fun.

  9. I also enjoy Leslie Sansone. Her videos are easy to follow, even for the uncoordinated (read: me).

     

    Crunch has some pretty good videos. Some I have liked, and some I haven't - mainly because I didn't like that particular instructor. One I particularly enjoy is their Fat Burning Dance Party. It's fun and a good workout (though it has a high learning curve for someone totally body stupid like me).

     

    If you have Netflix or something similar, I would try renting a bunch of videos to see what you will like. It's important to find an instructor you will both enjoy watching and listening to.

  10. Those look interesting.....for anyone who has used them, did you like them and did your children like them? Did you like how they were set up?

     

    I like the Kumon books, and the kids LOVE them (almost 5 yo girl, and 2 1/2 yo boy). The younger loves his tracing book - his fine motor skills aren't good enough to trace very well yet, so I kinda gave up and let him color in the book while I work with his sister on reading or whatever. It holds his attention well, so it is definitely worth it. ;)

     

    The older has most of the books for her age range, and works in them when she feels like it. She especially loves the mazes and the cutting. I like the number games and alphabet games. The numbers and letters books are more lke additional handwriting practice, so I do limit how much of those and her handwriting book she does in a day. (She is a super-perfectionist, and gets very frustrated when her hand gets tired, and doesn't know when to quit, so I have to make her stop.)

  11. What sounds more appealing to you? Chilling out with the kids on the beach, or spending some alone time with DH? (Don't you dare feel guilty for taking two trips without kids.)

     

    It sounds like you are leaning towards leaving the kids home, and just feel a bit guilty for that. Don't! The kids will have a blast staying with family, and then you can plan a family vacation that is more appropriate for them, and you can ALL enjoy yourselves, without the pressure.

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