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  1. I get the same way. I'm a doer. I have to be doing something and schooling my kids doesn't fill the void.

    Especially now that they are getting older and more independent in their work.

    What I've done to help, is to take my kids to do some volunteer work. There are crafts to assemble and rooms to set up for Sunday School at our church. We go in and do that on Fridays. We also get involved in the camps at church. I took over running a homeschool group, which is right up my alley, but it's only twice a month, so it's not that time consuming. I've also discovered that I have a "I hate clutter" bug, so I'm constantly cleaning out and getting rid of unused stuff. My house is pretty void of clutter but it makes me feel better to get rid of things. I also tend to rearrange the furniture out of boredom. All these things make me feel like I'm accomplishing something.

    Remember though, this is only a season...as your kids get older (which goes fast), you can find some common interests and all go do things together. You'll also be freer to pursue your interests.

    You might want to find something that interests you and jump into it in the evenings and weekends for now. You need to have something for you or you'll go crazy. I know from experience.

  2. I got married when I was 20. We waited 9 years to have kids (by choice) and for me, it was a wonderful arrangement. We took the time to get to know each other, learn how to fully respect each other, and mature as a couple before throwing in the stress of having kids. It's a blessing, but stressful for a couple, all the same. We've been married 21 years and we love each other more than ever. We love to spend time together and make it a priority in our marriage. We remain best friends.

     

    I won't recommend that my kids wait 9 years to have their own kids, but at least 5. As far as marriage age...I really think it depends on the maturity of the person. I was ready to handle marriage at 20, but my sister was not. As long as my kids are mature enough, and have a healthy outlook (mutual respect is a must, divorce isn't an option - they are ready to commit to this person for the rest of their lives), then I have no problem with them marrying young.

  3. The Sansa MP3 is great value for money. My son has one and it works great for us. It does record and it also gets FM radio. It gets hung up once in a while, but it's easily reset. For the (low!) price, it's a great MP3.

    Here's a link to one: http://www.buydig.com/shop/product.aspx?omid=103&ref=froogle&utm_source=Froogle&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=SDSDMX42048A70&sku=SDSDMX42048A70

  4. We are thinking on this right now too. We just installed Mahogany hardwood floors and we'll have a beige jute area rug. I was either thinking a buttercup (yes, yellow!) or a muted sky blue. We've had painters white in there for the last 5 years and I need something more cheerful. My kids are split down the middle on what color they'd like. I think we're leaning towards the buttercup. It's VERY soft and uplifting.

  5. My dd is 12 and is driving my dh and I crazy. If things don't go the way that she thinks they should, or if she gets punished for doing something, she is miserable and very difficult to deal with. She's mean to her brother almost constantly. I realize that this "chip on her shoulder" is typical teenage behavior (which is not an excuse as far as we're concerned) but she's bringing the whole household down on a daily basis. She argues or has something to say, about absolutely everything.

     

    We do our best not to allow such behavior (send her to her room, pass out other punishments), but we're just so tired of dealing with it constantly.

     

    Anyone BTDT and have any advice on how to handle this, and make our house a more joyful, peaceful place to be?

  6. My dd had them done at 6. They got infected (even though we cleaned them properly, as instructed) and she was miserable, so she let them grow back in. She had them re-done at 10 and was much happier the second time. I made her pay for her own the second time around.

     

    My dd is deathly afraid of shots and both times, she was fine with the piercings. She thought it just felt like a pinch.

     

    Both times, she got them done at Claire's and they did a good job.

  7. We bought a really good quality leather couch 20 years ago and it's still in really good shape. It's just started to wear in spots, this past year, and we'll be moving it to our school room. We bought a leather sectional a couple of months ago and although the quality isn't as good as the old one (you can tell by the feel of the leather as well as the price), we still love it. It's very easy to clean and holds up well to the kids. We have no dogs or cats.

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