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E_Edgerton

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  1. As a home-tutor I deal with this a great deal. I don't have the same pull that Mom and Dad do. I just have to keep on them. I try to break up tasks that are received with bad attitudes into smaller segments. Example...if a report is being complained about, we do a couple of paragraphs and then do something else...like an instrument or reading. Same goes for cleaning room stuff, if they make the bed we can come back in a little while to do toys and books. I just feel like this allows me to praise more often and plead a lot less. Also, a bad attitude can be so contagious, with multiple kids this is a terrible situation so, if I can stop it in its tracks, I have a better day and so do the kids. It can take serious patience! :)

  2. This is such a tough thing. And something that makes me so angry!!! I think that we all want to guard kids from this terrible behavior, but I think the only thing you can do is comfort and console him, explain he is a wonderful kid and that sometimes kids just are mean, for absolutely no reason....just because they can. Let him know that it all passes. :grouphug:

  3. I don't have any of my own children yet, but the more I am part of the homeschooling community I realize it is how I will raise my own children. My DH was homeschooled but it wasn't until I actually began helping families that I saw it in action, (to his relief). Anyway, to the point, I notice that many, or in my case everyone I know that homeschools wasn't themselves. I certainly won't raise my own kids the way I was raised...no curfews, very few limits, no real connections with my parents in terms of values and strong family ties. I also notice many are very different from their parents and other sibs...in terms of lifestyle choices. I even notice that in many of the books I've read on the subject there are a few paragraphs or in some case a full chapter on how to explain your choice of homeschooling to family and friends. So what changed or inspire you to take the path less traveled? :bigear:

  4. I am not a parent, but as a nanny/in-home tutor, I would say 'no'. I need to be the one who disciplines and gives out the consequences..just to maintain order.:) But, more importantly I think it keeps the relationship between the siblings peaceful and that is what I want to promote between them. However, I work with a very mature 11 yr old (2 younger sibs) and I can see the temptation.

  5. I am curious about the actual dollars and cents of starting a family. My DH and I have been married 3 years, together for 7 and are really feeing the strong urge to begin our family. My DH is not quite finished with his degree and so that is where we run into issues. We have great insurance through his job and I work currently as a hired home educator, (which is why I visit these boards, but have no children of my own). We live frugally as it is and are very big savers. Also our debt is limited to student loans. We have a reliable car we own free and clear and live a a quiet free-standing apartment. Anyway, I feel like all of you could really help me by sharing some of your wisdom in this area. Thanks in advance.

    E.:bigear:

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