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  1. DD12 is usually done in about 6ish hours each day, but I still need reassurance at times.   One of the best things I heard was Dr. B. answer a similar question at a conference -- something like "When were you confident that you were doing the right thing."   Her answer was priceless:

     

    "When my son got his first college acceptance letter."

     

    I should really have that on a wall plaque.

  2. What's kept me alive thru almost 3 years of Stage IV Metastatic Ocular Melanoma is working with the very few doctors waaaaay out on the bleeding edge of emerging therapies.

     

    I had a 6-hour surgey in which all the arteries around my liver were clamped off so the super-toxic chemo, a derivative of mustard gas, could not eecape to other parts of my body and kill me. I do miss the abdominal muscles they sliced that never healed right. I had off-label infusions of a skin cancer drug that sent my immune system into overdrive, and my pituitary gland into hibernation. Radiation was kinda neat when it was coming from a huge robotic arm aimed at my spine, but the doses aimed more broadly at my abmdomen still cause sporadic fatigue.

     

    If I have any hope of remining "chronic metastatic," a term only now trickling into use for some cancers, it will mean continual therpies and/or drug trials. Since mine is an orphan cancer, most trials are piggybacked onto cutaneous (skin) cancer trials.

     

    So yeah, that's a huge difference. Metastatic cancer has historically been the end of the line, but we're on the verge of making it HIV, or diabetes - deadly for some, manageable for most. Stage IV will have to have subgroups, or perhaps a Stage V will ultimately be established as the new "TERMINAL" after a long period as chronic metastatic.

     

    That would be pretty nifty.

  3. One of DW's former principals used to stock cases of bottled water and cheap crackers in DW's room -- it's a big (relatively) band room with shelves at the back.  I guess the idea was they could still have food and water during an extended shelter-in-place emergency?!?   Yikes.

     

    I don't think any food is left, as the kids ate it all over the past few years.

     

    :glare:

  4. Budget?  What budget?  We just squeeze more blood from the stone each month and somehow the universe seems to provide.  Dance is up to few hundred a month, but so far, we've been able to schedule four classes into two nights, so it's not crazed.  Being an independent Juliette Girl Scout helps avoid little fees here and there, although we are making payments for DD to go on a huge GS trip to London and Paris in two years.

     

    Our biggest expense may turn out to be the NJ Youth Chorus, since DD just auditioned into the Advanced Choir after 6 years in the training choirs.   DD got a partial scholarship, and this is the one activity that is so soul-nourishing, so professional, I can't imagine us NOT doing it.  Advanced tours and records and has heavy gigs with orchestras and such, so the travel and ticket prices might start to add up, but I can always sneak in since I'm married to the accompanist's page-turner!

  5. I also like Building Foundations of Scientific Understanding. Each chapter/unit has good suggestions for additional reading, which I actually use more than the book since DS9 likes reading more than doing experiments. :)

     

     

    I second Building Foundations.  Best series we've found.

     

    For volumes 1-2, I usually read aloud.  Now in Vol 3, I've taken to doing Powerpoints with embedded vids from Discovery Streaming.  That also allows me to put in bad visual puns along with the more serious diagrams and such.

  6. DW has lockdown drills regularly and absolutely hates them.   Still, in her first school in rural MD, circa 1987, they had a real bomb scare and sent the teachers around to look for the bomb.  DW was the band director, and found herself looking into tubas for....what does a bomb look like?   Red sticks taped to an alarm clock?   A black bowling ball shape with a burning fuse?  It doesn't help when your main point of reference is the roadrunner.

  7. So far, 12 really hasn't been anything I can't handle, although I do count on at least two professionals -- DW, the veteran middle school teacher, who deals with this age range for a living, regularly reassures me that yes, everything is normal, and yes, it would be far worse in PS.  Then there's the child life specialist at my local cancer center, who is a gem.  DD always comes out of those sessions very bouncy and happy, even more bouncy than is her default mode, which is pretty bouncy indeed.

     

    I had horrible anxiety in high school, which only now do I really recognize for what it was, and I'm sure i must be saying to DD what I wish my mom said to me.  So yeah, I count a psychologically crappy childhood as pretty decent parental training!

     

     

  8. I think it unlikely that a double income family in New York (especially an affluent rather than independently wealthy one) is getting home at 5pm. It's quite likely that mom and dad are working until later in the evening and activities are designed to match that.

     

     

    Here in N.E. NJ, many families live on "NY time."   Dad and/or mom gets off the train from the city past 8pm, so family dinner, assuming there is one, is after that.   One of my current SAT students has a high-powered mom who works in the city until 10pm.

     

    Yikes.

  9. I'm HSing with Stage IV cancer, which, hopefully, I can manage long term as a chronic, rather than fatal illness.   HS started 6 years ago; cancer started 4 years ago, so DD has spent her share of time in waiting rooms, etc.

     

    One memorable time was several weeks after I had major abdominal surgery/chemo two years ago.  it was in late August, and I was still on pain meds as we started the year.  I still remember nodding off as DD did math, and she'd periodically say "DAD!" when she needed to check an answer.  That was interesting, but survivable.

     

    Fatigue has been my symptom du jour this fall, but we still work through it.

  10. Spelling Workout by Modern Curriculum Press.  DD has done every level over the years, and is now on the last one (H).

     

    DD's test scores sound very similar to what you described.  We've done a lot of different things with writing -- First Lang Lessons, both editions -- first was great, but I think DD was too old by the time we did #2. Paragraph Town was a bore.  Then I just picked up old copies of Warriner's English Composition and Grammar, used off of Amazon or Ebay.  There's still nothing wrong with this old war horse, and yes, as an English major, I'm totally biased.  This year, we're trying Dr. B's Writing With Skill, but still using Warriner's for grammar.

     

    We have found WWS a bit slow if we go by the day-to-day schedule as printed, so we've started doing 2-3 days in one sessions.   We shall see.

     

    I've found it best to just get DD to mind-dump, which is what I also do when working with high school kids on their application essays.  I trot out the adage that good writing is RE-writing, although I suspect that gets through to only a fraction of my students.

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