We are an active duty family and had been living in Manhattan (KS) for the past year, until we moved to Topeka to be near my oldest son's swim team training. Let me say that, as with any state, what city/ area you live in really can dictate whether or not you love or even like that state.
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Manhattan KS!!
I Like almost nothing about Topeka.
Manhattan was a smaller city and had the nicest group of people I have ever met in my life. Everyone we ever met or even passed by during our walks or bike rides, almost instantly became friends :) Young and old alike were just genuinely warm and friendly. Crime is pretty much unheard of in that area.. other than some petty crimes. Traffic is pretty much non-existant most of the time. The city is small enough that you can get around very easily, but large enough to have what you may want/need.
It is situated right in the rolling Flint Hills of KS, which make the scenery just beautiful. The stars are so bright on a clear night :) The thunderstorms rolling in were just beautiful. Within a matter of minutes, you could be out in the country surrounded by farms and cows... it was just so peaceful to me.
I sure do miss Manhattan.
Topeka is the complete opposite. It is a much bigger city with a lot more poverty, and crime. The overall "feel" of this place to me is just rude and everyone is in a rush. If Topeka were my only experience living in KS, I would have to say I dislike KS. However, I know that I LOVE certain parts of KS!