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  1. You could have her try applying raw honey to her lips. My eldest frequently had eczema flare-ups on her hands and arms when she was in the 10-12 year age range, and, while she never had lip eczema, I would frequently see honey mentioned as a treatment when I was researching her condition.

     

    Also, remind her not to lick her lips, as saliva can aggravate the condition.

  2. I love tilapia, but am trying to find a new source that isn't farmed in China. !

     

    Just a heads up: Some studies are showing that farm-raised fish in general, and farm-raised tilapia in particular, might not be a good choice for people with asthma, heart disease, arthritis, and other auto-immune problems because of the unfavorable proportion of omega 6 (which is high in tilapia), and omega 3 (low in tilapia). This link refers to the Wake Forest study

    Farm-Raised Tilapia Could be a Bad Choice for Those with Heart Disease.

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    I can't say enough about Apple products. Of course, we have 5 Apple computers in addition to our handheld products, but we are HUGE fans!!

     

    Oh, one neat thing about the Nano is, if you order it from the Apple site, and you choose to get new, you can have it engraved free - oldest dd had a really neat scripture on her first iPod about music. It would add a special touch!

     

    ETA - And don't worry about her knowing what to do - my kids have had iPods since the iPod minis (about 6 or 7 years ago) and even my youngest knew what to do LONG before I did!!

     

    I agree with all of this. We have had both iPods and off brand mp3 players, and have found we get so much more for our money going the Apple route.

     

    Ds has the nano and dd has the iTouch (Mom has a nano :001_smile:). In addition to iTunes music, there are so many neat, useful, educational, and just plain fun podcasts out there (and they are free!). And, the Apple Applications available for the iTouch and iPhone are amazing. Dd downloaded Great Expectations (for free) from the App store for her iTouch. Of course, not all apps are free, but dd has found many that are. We have been very happy with our nanos and iTouch.

  4. So someone dealt with the 'macabre'.

     

    We also cremate in our family, but I always make sure to honor the body and be there to say goodbye. Because we can hire people to do some of the 'dirty' work doesn't mean there isn't any. Combing my grandmother's hair, kissing her hands, arranging them, was very important to me, and not the least bit macabre. The dead also need loving care.

     

    That's wonderful. I was holding my mother's hands as she died in my home, and I'm so thankful I was there at the time. However, how a family chooses to say good-bye to a loved one after his or her death is entirely an individual issue. Also, how someone achieves closure is not "one size fits all.' If some people find the idea of a funeral with an open casket macabre, well, then, that's their right. It doesn't make them wrong.

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    I don't know. The whole funeral thing just seems to macabre to me. I much prefer a memorial or a celebration of life.

     

    I could not agree more. And, I will not make my children attend funerals. They did go to one for a grandparent, but opted out of subsequent ones. I did not force the issue.

     

    My children did attend a "celebration of life" for my sister when she died---she did not want a traditional funeral. We put together a life-story video featuring photos of of my sister set to her favorite music, we shared memories of her, and comforted each other. This was done at a beach park my sister enjoyed visiting. For our family, it was the perfect way to say good-bye and find closure.

  6. I started walking in the mornings--a nice way to start the day and it really helps. I try not to pig out, but am otherwise not super-strict about what I eat. I've lost about 20 pounds since July doing this.

     

    :iagree: with this, except for the morning part ;). I walk in the early evening. I have found that when I keep to a regular routine of fast-walking, I really don't need to change what I'm eating to stay at (or get to) a weight I'm happy with.

  7. We have no dress code around here. Sometimes we might stay in pjs all day. Sometimes I have a knight, or a super hero, or a ninja, or a clone trooper to teach. If we are going somewhere, sure they get dressed. Just staying at home anything goes.

     

    :iagree: Yes, many a day I taught a pirate, Spiderman, Batman (sometimes even a combination of the above:)) when my ds was younger.

  8. My 5 year old DD actually likes doing workbooks and stuff like that.

     

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    My dd, also, enjoys workbooks. Her favorites are Brain Quest (which has a bit of everything in it from phonics to science), The Complete Book of Phonics, Spelling Workout A, and A Reason for Handwriting.

     

    We also do Rocket Phonics, Horizons Math, and lots of read alouds, including many Five in A Row books.

     

    She takes a homeschool art class every Tuesday, and piano lessons on Wednesday.

     

    She really loves doing nature walks with big brother and sister, but, I've been shelving that lately, so I need to get back to that.

  9. I have a kid like that- he is 13 now and still a challenge.

    Does your son really feel you love him unconditionally, no matter how badly he behaves? Are you using withdrawal of love to control him? For my very sensitive son, getting into a negative feedback loop with him really upsets him- even if I feel righteously that he deserves my criticism or punishments. I have to step back, be the adult and stop the cycle, and start fresh, calm and open to him, try and see things from his perspective and stay patient.

    I would say your son isnt meaning, consciously, to behave in such a challenging way, so to punish him isnt really going to work because its not something he is trying to do, so he probably can't easily stop it either. Something in his life, combined with his unique way of seeing the world, is causing the behaviour to play out the way it is. Could well be that Dad is not so available and you are distracted without your pregnancy and not 100% present with him.

    All I know is that with my grumpy, beligerant,obnoxious (and sometimes totally gorgeous) son, when he walks into the kitchen first thing in the morning, I try and start fresh and love him as if he was my newborn baby, as if all the trials and arguments we have had lately havent happened. I just think that's what all kids need- a 2nd chance every single day, every moment if possible. I see my job as not stooping to his level and reacting to everything he does- trying to see from a higher perspective. Easier said than done, of course.

     

    Peela, this is such a wonderful and wise post! I absolutely love what you said about starting fresh each day and loving your child like he was a newborn. I really do believe it's so important to keep holding our children close even when we sometimes feel we are at our wits' end with their behavior.

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    I've read some on the history of domesticity in the US and the 70's was the heyday of newly marketed processed food. I think our moms were so excited by the convenience they lost their minds. My mom is a gourmet now. :)

     

    You know, I think you have a good point here. As I mentioned in my other post, my mom was actually a good cook/baker, but we ate a ton of convenience foods when I was growing up. In addition to the fact that she worked full-time, the novelty of the processed food market is probably why so much of it worked its way into our home.

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