Aubrey Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 You know, just checking to see how everything's going. I called a while back to check her rates, ins, etc., so she knows I'm pregnant. She hasn't heard back from me since...December, maybe? And she was just checking on me. (wow.) I'm just floored at how some of these places act like just answering the phone is such. an. inconvenience. And the contrast between her and them is SO distinct. I really love this woman! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Is she not giving you prenatal care? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 Is she not giving you prenatal care? No--I haven't decided what to do about it yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Are you having a homebirth? Or is that what you are trying to decide? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 Are you having a homebirth? Or is that what you are trying to decide? No, ins doesn't cover my mw. I'd have to do a hosp mw. Otherwise, I'm paying her out of pocket. Which is really not even a question, except that dh is in seminary & $ is tight. Kwim? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mama Lynx Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Aubrey, What about payment plans, or bartering? Many midwives will work with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Yep I know. We paid out of pocket for our homebirths. I am so frustrated with health insurance... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 Payment plans are not the issue. I need to file our taxes, & then the money's there. It's just a question of whether to use the money that way. This pg has been my easiest so far, so I'm not worried about getting to see someone quickly, although I am at the point that I've told dh I think it's time to decide. There's been a little more to the decision than I've posted here, so he's been praying about it. But since the question came up, we've received $ in the mail anonymously & from people who didn't know it was an issue. At this point, without touching the tax return, we can pay for nearly half of a home birth. There were still 2 mw groups that our ins would cover, though, so I called them yesterday. They were supposed to be mw who operated out of a birth center, but, in fact, they were hospital mw's. One group I think was the very one I visited last mo & didn't like. That pretty much clenches it for dh. He says he's convicted about a home birth, which I think is sweet. I've told him I'll go to a hospital if I need to, & he's said he'll find the money to pay for a homebirth. And just as I'm typing this, I've remembered that we put a lot of furniture in our shed at my in-laws house. We wanted to sell it, but didn't get it listed on Craig's list until mid-December when everybody was thinking about Christmas gifts. I bet if we were to re-list it, that would cover another significant portion of the birth. See, it's fine either way. It was just a question of which path was wiser. I couldn't decide that on my own, but talking it out here while dh prayed about it was really helpful. Also, fwiw, dh's job is going MUCH better. He was finally transferred to his new store, where he's consistently gotten at least 30 hrs (as opposed to the 10 he was getting at the old place or the 40 he was originally promised). He's finally started training for the position for which he was hired, & his new boss *loves* him. She says he works so hard he makes the other shift managers nervous. He's met the district manager, who was so impressed with him that she took the time to email his boss. The whole reason dh took this job was because the assistant managers have decent schedules & make slightly more $ than we'd hoped to be making while here. But being in sch, they wouldn't hire him for that position--only shift manager. So he took the shift position in hopes of being promoted. The store he's at now doesn't have an assistant, & the manager herself is pretty new. Dh has tons of experience in cust service & inventory management, the 2 weakest areas of the store. So he's hoping things are looking up. At the very least, we shouldn't have another month when he brings home $700.:w00t: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 That is excellent news, Aubrey. I am glad things are working out :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnneJ Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I am so glad that your financial situation is looking up and that your prayers have been answered. Have you seen Ricki Lake's movie "The Business of Being Born"? It is all about home births. It was quite amazing and I really enjoyed watching it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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