Thank you so much to each one of you for the insight and opinions. I am learning so much from you. He is my oldest and I am learning as I go. We have an appointment next week with the dual enrollment manager and we will make a final decision . The clerk, one teacher we know, and some other parents did not warn me about all these things you told me about ; they all said he will be ok. Our college is in a suburb area,and from what I heard from other homeschool moms, it's very quiet, without troubles and the students just go to the class and leave...I am glad I listened to my gut and came here to ask for advice.
I think I may let him take programming only,depending what the DE manager says after I will express my concerns. We will continue with Foerster ( he did not struggle with it, I just thought why not get credit if possible) and I have to find something for English. We have tried many programs,like WTM, IEW, EIW, and I like them all for different reasons. What I have trouble with , is correcting his essays, for punctuation,grammar,sentence structure,and style.I might have to inquire at our local school to see if he can take English there, but my husband thinks it will be a waste since he's seen how kids in public school write . That might have changed now since they say they have more rigorous standards...we shall see.