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  1. Jumping in here. I know a fair amount of couples that were involved in affairs, that did not end the marriage. I also know a fair amount of couples that one or both spouses had an affair, and the marriage ended. With that being said, the affair was not necessarily the defining moment when the marriage had ended. Many, many other issues were involved, the affair was just a part of the decision to divorce. I've seen strong marriages, have' weak moments," in difficult times. This does not = divorce whatsoever.

     

    Everyone's story is different. In my world having an affair is not automatic grounds for a divorce. When a divorce happens, many, many issues were involved long before the affair. Clear as mud? ;)

  2. I remember a few months back maybe, National Geographic magazine (the smaller thick magazine with yellow trim)...I think this is the magazine. Anyways, it was on the front page about the King James bible, and how it came about. I actually saved the magazine. I will look, and see what I can find. Honestly, I was quite suprised as to how it came about. 6 men I believe privately interpreting, making the language flow, and then coming together to discuss.

  3. The other parish in town is similar. Not enough of a difference to justify the drive. I think my dh and I are going to visit the parish an hour away. Maybe, the kids can continue the midweek youth group with their friends? Our old parish was not TLM, but it was wonderful. I honestly didn't know that Mass could be so contemporary. No hymnals, the songs are on put on the wall with a projector...I suppose that would be helpful if you are juggling a baby :) I know the RCIA director shared, that they were going to start a children's service during Mass....

  4. We have just recently moved, and live in a pre-dominantly Catholic neighborhood, very near to the Parish. Our children enjoy attending mass, and they attend a youth group during the week also ( we live in the "bible belt" and the church didn't want them attending another church during the week)...

     

    Here is the situation, mass here is very contemporary. They have a band, lots of clapping, hand holding, more modern music, and they don't burn incense. These are just a few things off the top of my head, now with that being said, the homily is wonderful. Honestly though, I do squirm in my seat. I'm not a clapper, lol.

     

    Thoughts please? Our intentions are to attend RCIA here, however @ an hour away is a Parish with Latin mass/traditional services.

     

    Fwiw, my dh feels similar BUT feels convenience is important, too. Is there a happy medium? Thank you.

  5. My dh and I are beginning RCIA, as well. Our children will come into the church at the same time we do. We are eager to begin the process. It has been very challenging getting to this point. My dh has been deployed, and attended mass overseas...I took the children stateside. This is something we wanted to do together, and finally have some stability! Fortunately, our parish is very understanding of military families, and are willing to work around crazy schedules :)

  6. With your children, without children? Is it part of your homeschooling day?

     

    I ask, because well...I always feel like I am the "only" one. I would like to take my children to mass during the week. I just feel like I am the "only" one that would, kwim? Yes, I know that feeling this way is probably ridiculous, lol.

     

    Thank you, for your patience!

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