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  1. I thought I wanted a Glock 19, but believe it or not it is just a bit too big for me to get the proper grip. The Glock 26 seems like it might be so small that the recoil would be killer. Maybe not though. Really, I need them to make a gun in between, lol.

     

    I can shoot the 19 with no problem, but I have to wiggle my thumb around a bit to hit the mag release. I wish it were just a wee bit smaller....

  2. I have a 9mm Glock 19. We have a 9mm Glock 26 on order. It has a smaller grip and is better for CCW.

     

    I really wanted a Sig Sauer, they shoot like butter, but they are about twice the price. Glock 9mm is what most law enforcement agencies use. It's very reliable, rarely jams and you could bury it in the mud, come back a year later, pick it up and it'd shoot just fine.

     

    I love my Glock and have pretty much decided I don't want my Sig afterall.

  3. Sorry, but I attachment parent and I tell my kids, "no" all the time. Some attachment parents give other attachment parents a bad name. Don't be fooled by their nonsense. At my house my children are expected children obey the first time without arguing or complaining or there are consequences starting around age 2. I still co-slept until they were school aged, nursed on demand until toddlerhood, then I nursed on my convenience until they weaned themselves or turned 5 years old, I wore them in a sling until they were about 2 most of the day and then wore them part time, etc. Crying for legitimate things (being scared, hurt, confused, etc.) was tended to immediately. Crying for illegitimate things like being picky, demanding, unreasonable, disobedient, etc. got immediate consequences.

     

    I did not mean to offend you or the idea of attachment partenting. I should have qualified my statement with "this is her idea of attachment parenting" She was very concerned with not ever causing her daughter any disappointment or grief or any other type of emotional discomfort. In her world ~ that is what attachment parenting is all about (we had a few conversations about this during prior meetings)

  4. Never tells her daughter "no?" Wow! That is going to get expensive pretty darn quick.

     

     

    She is a very crunchy, earthy sort of mom that is very into "attachment" parenting. She believes that she can reason with her daughter and get her to understand why certain things aren't a good idea. ie: "The pony is so expensive and we have such a small yard, I guess it was foolish of me to even ask Mommy for one in the first place"....

  5. I really really really like this website, written by a woman. It has a whole section of articles about guns and kids. I think you should read all of them, read the section on gun safety, then take the gun safety class with your son. Then YOU can be the voice of reason. http://corneredcat.com/Contents/

     

     

     

    I've met this woman (she taught the first gun course I took and we're in a women's gun club together) and she is fabulous! (She also homeschooled her whole brood of boys) :001_smile:

  6. We were at a birthday party for a friend and I was talking to another mom (that I've met a few times through a mutual friend). It came up that we homeschool and she asked "Oh, that is so fascinating! But I wonder ~ how do you switch from mother to teacher? How do you get your children to do as you ask?" I sort of looked at her like this: :001_unsure:

     

    Once I collected myself I told her that it's the same as when I ask them to pick up their toys. They just, um, do it. She replied, "Well, I never tell my daughter 'no' and I'm not firm with her in discipline, so I'm not sure I'd actually be able to teach her. I wouldn't have any credibility as a teacher."

     

    This time it was more like this: :001_huh:

     

    I wasn't sure what to say. I just nodded and smiled and excused myself.

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    Gun supporters will no doubt tell you how the safety classes will solve every worry.

    Catherine

     

     

    I not only do not agree with this, but I find it offensive. Gun safety classes are imiportant, however they are not a substitute for responsible gun ownership.

     

    A responsible gun owner will take a safety class, but taking a class will not, necessarily, make a gun owner responsible.

     

    Responsibility is a learned behavior, with guns, with cars, with anything really. It's about modeling responsibility to our children.

     

    The OP expressed concerns about her own husband's responsibility. That would give me pause, for sure, about letting my child go hunting with him.

  8. 99% of the time, I agree with this bolded sentence.

     

    My 1% exception is the feral hogs rampant in East Texas. They destroy everything in their path, and spread disease. (One can confirm this with Internet searches.) My son who hunts occasionally, joins his friend to reduce the number of these pests on the farm belonging to the friend's grandfather.

     

     

    I consider this to fall under protection. Protecting oneself from animals is not always a life/death situation. I'd protect my dogs from predators, my crops & my property from nuisance animals.

  9. On further thought I'd be ok with hunting if it were for food. If it were for any other reason, no. It's not different than fishing. But if it is just for the sake of shooting at animals then I don't get it.

     

    Beyond the universal rules of gun ownership I mentioned, the first thing we taught our children was "If you kill something, you eat it."

     

    We do not kill animals for fun. We kill for food or for protection. Period.

  10. So I wouldn't come off as nuts for asking? LOL I'm afraid of dogs too. I guess I'm just a spazz. :D

     

     

    Not at all! Most gun owners are very discreet and you'd be surprised who was walking around armed and never let on. :001_smile:

     

    I've never met a gun owner who (also had young children) who would be offended by the question. In fact, I'm in a babysitting co-op in my MOMS group and the questionaire covered food allergies, pets, swimming pool, etc...but didn't have any questions about firearms in the home. I'm the one that suggested we should add that question! LOL!

  11. Have you thought about asking the parents if they have guns? I'm just asking because I've thought about doing it. Neither one of my boys have been to someone's house without me so it hasn't come up yet. I wonder how many people would be honest. And then I wonder how I will feel if I know they do. I'm rather torn.

     

    I've had people ask me before and I'm always honest and up front about it. Some of my friends were uncomfortable at first, but as they, themselves, spent more time at my home and never ever saw any evidence of a firearm (it's not like they are laying on the coffee table), they became more comfortable with their kids at my house.

     

    I have two very large dogs and to be honest, more moms have issues with that than they do about firearms (and the dogs and guns are ALL locked up when we have company!) :)

  12. I do not intend to hijack this thread, but I'm very passionate about guns and there is something I have to ask:

     

    To those that are very anti gun and claim their children will never be around one (and I respect this decision, I do not wish to change your mind), have you at least spoken to your children and do they know what to do if/when they are not with you and they are confronted with a firearm?

     

    For instance, they are at little Jimmy's house and little Jimmy says "Hey, I know where my dad keeps his gun, wanna see it?" Do your children know what to say/do?

     

    I only ask because I have a lot of anti gun friends and this scenario seems to not even be on their radar. They believe that because they don't have guns, they can simply ignore the issue with their children. And that, I belive, is tragic.

     

    Off my soap box. :D

  13. Neither my DH nor I grew up around guns, but we both now are lifetime members of the NRA and both have our CC permits.

     

    My DH is a commercial airline pilot and takes part in the armed pilot program. I knew if he was going to have a gun in the house, I was going to have to get comfortable with it. I had him take me shooting at the range and then I took some basic hand gun courses so I could understand how the gun works and begin to feel comfortable with it. Once the gun lost it's mystery to me I began to see it as a tool and I wasn't so uncomfortable with it.

     

    Last year was my DHs first year hunting and he's going again this year with some friends. We live very close to the hunting area (within an hour) so we have discussed my husband going back out in the afternoons with our oldest DS (8.5 yo), but it would only be the two of them. I wouldn't be comfortable with DS going with "the guys" just yet.

     

    My son has his own .22 rifle and that's what he'll take. My husband's hunting rifle would be way to powerful and would knock DS on his bum (me too. I refuse to shoot it).

     

    In your situation, I'm not sure I would let my DS go. In a big group, and with a family you don't particularly trust just seems to raise red flags for his first time out.

     

    If your DS does end up hunting, there are universal gun rules that he must know and always follow:

     

    1. Every gun is always loaded. It doesn't matter if you just unloaded it and answered the phone. When you walk back, it is loaded. Period. Treat every firearm as such and you shouldn't have any problems.

     

    2. Never, ever, ever point the barrel of a gun at something you do not wish to destroy. Even if you think its unloaded, its not (see rule 1).

     

    3. As a child, never ever handle a gun without a responsible adult present. Period.

     

    Children and guns can be a fun experience, but they have to respect the firearm and understand how it works.

     

    Also, if your son does go hunting, make sure he wears plenty of orange. Especially a hat. His head will be lower than where other hunters will be looking for fellow hunters.

  14. We didn't, but my DB & SIL did. They had told everyone my neice's name was to be XXXX Abigail.

     

    I had a beautiful picture frame engraved with the name and showed up at the hospital the evening she was born and was told her name was XXXX Olivia.

     

    I gave them the frame anyway and they put a picture of the baby me and me in it and displayed it in her nursery. It became a bit of a family joke. :D

  15. I haven't read all of the replies ~ but here are my (opinionated) thoughts on the flu shot:

     

    I never got one as I was allergic to eggs (all food allergies disappeared after having children). When I married DH was all gung ho flu shot and literally hated the fact that I couldn't get them.

     

    We had children and I was able to get them (allergy tests revealed all food allergies gone) so we started getting them for the whole family.

     

    Three years ago, Dr says "How about the Flu Mist instead of the shot for the kids?" Yea, sure, ok.

     

    Less than 24 hours later Boy 1 (six years old at the time) is in the hospital with a pulse ox of 89 (it needs to be 95 or higher). Steroids, nebulizers, albuterol and chest x rays are now a common, ordinary part of our lives.

     

    My son did not have asthma before the Flu Mist and had never exhibited any symptoms that led me to believe he would ever develop it.

     

    The doctor that treated us during the episode was hesitant to say it was the vaccine that caused it. Our regular ped says there was "likely a connection", however he feels the vaccine just triggered the inevitable.

     

    Personally, DH and I believe the vaccine weakened his lungs and while he may have eventually developed asthma, I don't think it would be as severe as it is today.

     

    And still, our ped asks about the flu shot every. single. year. I just smile and say "No Thank You. We're done with flu vax."

  16. I also recommend couch to 5K ~ also get him started on resistance training (weights, dumbells, etc...)

     

    There is also a program called 100 pushups (they also have a sit ups program) or something like that.

     

    Cut out any processed junk food and get him on real food asap. Lots of water to flush his system.

     

    He has a long way to go, but I'm sure he'll be able to see significant improvements if he buckles down and works hard :)

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