You guys are awesome. I came here to read more and I am in tears because its great to have someone else who's "been there, done that"... thanks!
As for doing just 2 things... yes, I can do that. That's doable and does not seem as overwhelming! I definitely want to make the therapy happen for her... however we can. She has an appt in two weeks to be evaluated by an optometrist. I didn't know there were two different kinds! LOL Anything in particular I should ask the optometrist for when she is being looked at?
As for phonemic awareness... we only got through part of Level 1 of Barton. I am sure its because she probably needed LiPs first and I didn't realize it.
As for my phonemic awareness, no offense taken. Yes, I have good phonemic awareness... can read nonsense words, I know how to sound out words, etc. I have taught all my other children how to read the same way I was taught back in 1984 with phonics based reading programs. Reading is actually my strong suit and I think this is why this is so difficult for me... knowing how reading/writing opens up a whole world to a person and feeling frustrated that my daughter still can not grasp something that I learned to do when I was 4 1/2. Reading/writing came easy to me. Once it clicked, it clicked. I have a high vocabulary and reading comprehension. I personally haven't been tested for awhile but I am the speller, the reader, the teacher in our home for that area as I am sure my husband is dyslexic himself and refuses to get help for that. I know this is part of my problem with teaching my daughter. I do not understand nor can I grasp at all how she is looking at these words or letters. I am not getting what it is that she is not getting. Is she seeing the letters upside down and backwards? I see a word and I read it. If I don't know the word, I sound out the letters of the word until I figure it out. I don't have to do that for many words. I taught my other kids the sounds of each letter of the alphabet and then we started putting the letters together to form basic words and they progressed. They started out with short readers and now are in larger chapter books. We used Sonlight phonics and Well Trained Mind. With Leah we tried those two programs plus Hooked on Phonics and Barton. All three of my other children that read are a grade level or two above in reading and my soon-to-be kindergartener has already started reading!
I guess I am not understanding how all of this fits together and yes, there are so many things/issues to worry about... it makes my head spin just thinking about it. I don't know how we'll afford everything either.
One step at a time.
How do you do LiPs at home? I thought I had to see a trained person to do that program and is it very expensive? I don't even know where to start.
My daughter is in serious need of speech and language therapy along with some reading help and possibly some OT. She had OT a year ago back in Washington where we used to live and she loved it and I really think it helped her.
Thanks,
Steph