I do understand the discomfort, since I've been a bit alarmed by her physical precocity at times, and the fact that she's doing most things in the wrong order has worried me--stupidly--because it isn't "normal." (DS was faster than average but did things in the "right" order.) But to not check yourself and to actually be ugly? I think people should get the heck OVER it an deal with the fact that there are ALL kinds of kids out there. *shakes head*