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Rebecca in GA

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  1. This is the first year we've taken the summer off (completely), and boy, I could get used to this! ;)

     

    This is true for us as well. Normally I would be in full panic mode because we would be starting school Monday, but our virtual academy doesn't start until Aug. 13 so we still have WEEKS left!:)

     

    This has been our busiest -- and laziest -- and happiest summer in a long, long time. I have one at church camp this week and one who went the first of June. One is going on a junior high campout in Tennessee next week. One learned to ride a two-wheeler and got a new, big bike. All participated in Youth Police Academy last week.

     

    We actually are planning to spend a day with each child individually, take them to lunch and discuss goals and plans for the new year, get a new haircut/style, buy new sneakers and school supplies and socks/underwear or whatever. We've never had time to do that before school started in the past.

     

    Did I mention we still have WEEKS before we start back? :hurray:

  2. Btw, when reading about the child who runs away from being spanked, did anyone feel like they were a kid again watching Tx Chainsaw Massacre or some other first horror film? "There is no escape..."

     

    I did! And I actually felt like I did when I was a child and had horrible nightmares and couldn't get away from the monster who was chasing me.

  3. We had to give up a few things to get our children to summer camp this year, and it never would have occurred to me to ask for help. We're not destitute by any means and we do try to step in and fill needs when we can, but I would have a difficult time providing someone's luxuries.

     

    A friend of mine once worked as a church secretary, and she told me about two "have needs" cases that came in. One was a transient couple who drove up in a battered van and asked for a cooking pot. They had very obvious needs but said they were fine, that they had plenty of cans and boxes of food but just needed something to cook them in.

     

    The other was a young person in a very nice car who wanted the church to help with his/her (can't remember which) gym membership and cable TV bill, along with other utilities. My friend was blown away by this person's attitude of entitlement and what s/he perceived as "necessities."

     

    Could someone link the thread to which the OP referred?

  4. Rest or read. Eldest sometimes listens to his MP3 player and memorizes drum parts to practice later, and youngest sometimes plays with Legos on his bed and sometimes rests in my bed with me (if I think he needs to sleep). DD reads and occasionally drops off to sleep for a few minutes.

     

    I really need this time, so I require that they all be perfectly quiet so I can nap for 15-20 minutes. I started this when they were all very young so they are used to it, even though they don't like it very much some days.

  5. I'm working my way through the library's Erle Stanley Gardner collection. My nonfiction-in-waiting is Black Like Me by John Howard Griffin, Food Fight by Kelly. D. Brownell, and Blue Like Jazz by Donald Miller (subtitled "Nonreligious thoughts on Christian spirituality). I've been waiting since February for Black Like Me and it looks fantastic, so I'll probably read that one first.

     

    Next week I'm all alone during the days -- the kiddos will be at junior police academy and DH at work -- so I hope to finish at least a couple of books.

  6. Wow. We have video games at our church, but they are turned off as soon as the official church start time rolls around. They are part of the fellowship time before and after church, but never during. The teaching can be pretty in depth at times.

     

    Our kids program runs like grownup church. They have praise and worship followed by a "sermon", but it is all at their level.

     

    On Wednesday nights the kids are divided up by age and have classes. We don't have Sunday school.

     

    6th grade and up are in the sanctuary on Sunday, but have youth groups on Wednesday.

     

    If my kids were not learning in church they might be in the service with me, or more likely we would be church shopping because I would have serious reservations about the church's commitment to the next generation.

     

    Your church sounds very much like ours, Kelli. I have absolutely no qualms about worshiping apart from my children once a week and studying separately from them once a week. I need to refill my well so I can have something to pour into them.

  7. Thursday was our 15th anniversary. Neither of us is particularly romantic, so imagine my surprise when we pulled up to our church -- me thinking DH was picking up a Bible study book -- and found my family and some of our closest friends there.

     

    DH had made a slide show of our engagement, rehearsal, wedding and honeymoon set to our song, "Follow You Follow Me" by Genesis, and words popped up asking me to marry him again.

     

    So I did! One of our pastors wrote a special service for us, and he read it and we repeated new vows for the next leg of our journey.

     

    Anyway, I was blown away. DH has never done anything like this before, and I was just so honored and felt so special.

     

    Ain't I a lucky gal?:001_wub:

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