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  1. You have all given me a tremendous amount to consider and resources to investigate that would allow him further explanation, if he chooses. I will examine some of the suggested texts and inform him they are available -- on all sides of the issue. The most important theme I see is that I cannot force belief (and I know that), and that I could inadvertently push him further down his current path (though he may be happy to stay there, anyway :-). And, you are right -- a spiritual journey cannot be controlled by another person.

     

    And, to clarify, notice the Romulus and Remus episode was kindergarten -- his dates were off...but he was already making connections that most kindergartner's would not. The priest at our church did handle things well, explaining that God's stories are told again and again and in ways that different groups can understand :-). That was just the beginning, lol. Gilgamesh and the Arc, Plato theory of forms and the Holy Trinity, etc. He simply makes connections that I never made as a child (nor do I even fully make now ;-).

     

    Anyway, I am working through his thoughts myself -- and will keep reading and studying on my own, too. THANK YOU.

  2. Thank you all!

     

    Eliana, your words truly spoke to me. What a glorious way of seeing this process. Thank you for helping to ease my burden and stress. I will continue to pray that the path he choses brings him the fulfillment and happiness he deserves. And, Catwoman, thank you for the reminder that a spiritual journey is filled with twists and turns, and that this may be the beginning of many adventures in faith for him.

  3. He sees the need for God to explain anything as unnecessary. He has a wonderful moral compass and embraces life. He simply already has decided that God is a simple way for people to explain things science cannot yet explain. He gets annoyed by what he sees as silliness and illogical thought.

     

    Thank you for those of you who do not have faith in God and still see the wonder in life! I will look through several of the readings suggested .... I know this is a personal journey for him, but want him to think through all sides -- though I know faith isn't about "thought." ;-).

     

    Oh, and yes, it is God, not just organized religion. He is certain, though, Christianity is no different from the myths of ancient Rome and Greece.

  4. want him giving up faith so early -- though I cannot control him.

     

    We are Catholic, and since Kindergarten, he has been questioning (seeing the Cain and Abel story as a rip-off of Romulus and Reemus, etc.). He is VERY logical and engineering/math and sciences oriented.

     

    I am sad he already fails to believe -- mainly because I see it as a loss of childhood and wonder, I think. Though, I do wish my faith was much stronger as well. I feel like I have failed to give him something I already lack.

     

    Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, readings for him, comfort for me, etc. are all appreciated. In some ways, I think I'm just venting.

  5. Hi all,

     

    Getting ready for the Thanksgiving feast and I've been asked to make Mac and Cheese. No matter what I do (velveeta, butter and flour roux, etc.) mine always seems kind of lumpy or stringy. I have melted the cheese ahead of time, made sure it wasn't too cooked, etc, and there are always chunks of cheese or things that look like cottage cheese left. HELP! What do I do?

  6. I grew up in Miami, the Kendall area, and went to UM, but haven't been back in 20 years.

     

    I want to take my kids for a few days next week, and I can't sort through all the Everglades options -- kayaks, airboats, bike trails, etc. I have 3 kids and 1 couldn't do a paddle alone kayak. My main concern is just having fun while exploring the Glades...they will appreciate the experience without having to spend a ton of money.

     

    In Miami, I will be taking them to Baptist Hospital to feed ducks (a major childhood memory for me), walk around campus, hit Crandon Park/Key Biscayne, maybe the Venetian Pools, and of course the Miami Seaquarium.

     

    Then, we will hit John Pennekamp and Key West.

  7. I haven't read all replies, but it frustrates you that if a waitress manages to get 40 hours of shifts, week in week out over a year, she'll earn $41,600 to $62,400? It frustrates you they might be able to manage a middle class wage?

     

    No kidding! And in pts. of California, that still can't buy you a home! If you don't like it stay home and cook.

     

    Servers btw is the correct term. Waitress or waiter is similar to stewardess.

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