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  1. Lol...that is what my dh (an adult convert who never served a mission) said when I mentioned this thread to him. I said, "She said they had fun chatting over dinner, even though she didn't give them the opportunity to 'witness'." Dh said, "That's what she thinks. She has been stealth-witnessed." And he reminded me of that thing St. Francis said (which came to mind, I think, because it was quoted in our recent general conference), "Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary use words."

     

    Lisa, you're absolutely right. Our walk often says more about us and our beliefs than our talk, no matter what our "religion" is.

     

    P.S. - Lest anyone take what I wrote above in a spirit other than it was intended, dh didn't mean to suggest that they were trying to sneakily work their theology into the dinner conversation or deceptively impose their beliefs on the host family or anything, just that we "tell" people about us just by how we live and act, and what we talk about, and that just spending time with a person (such as a missionary) will tell you something about what they believe. If nothing else, they seem to have gotten the point across that family is important to them, and they like to have fun. :)

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  2. Hi all. I'm looking for a good skin care program. I'm over 40 now and realizing that probably my normal routine of, uh, basically doing nothing for my skin is not going to cut it. So what do you recommend...Oil of Olay, Mary Kay, Clinique...?

     

    Thanks!

     

    Jamie

    I am pleased with the Oil of Olay Foaming Face Wash and Facial Lotion for sensitive skin. In the warmer weather I use the toner too.

    :)

  3. Because there is always going to be one of these people who can't grasp the possibility that there is a time and place for everything AND a wrong time and place, too, and they're bent on using the group to "save souls."

     

    Because there is always one of these people who treat their homeschooling philosophy like it was written in stone. (And, it goes both ways -- not just dogmatic relaxed homeschoolers, but also dogmatic structured homeschoolers.)

     

    Because it just is. Some people will not conceed that they aren't welcome to proselytize 24/7 and in any situation.

     

    Yes. There is usually at least one of these people, too. Every meeting becomes their political platform. Again, it is an issue of not being capable of understanding that they aren't welcome to politicize 24/7 and in any situation.

    You've made some excellant points Audrey! :)

  4. Also, the explosion of info and support on the internet changed the face of support groups. I think what made this group work is that is was a support group, not a co op. We had an "if you build it, they will come" philosophy. If you wanted something for your children, you made it happen and invited people to join you. If people didn't like what you were doing, they were free to do their own thing. Most of the newer homeschoolers (many seemed to be escaping a bad school situation, rather than embracing the lifestyle of homeschooling) wondered why we didn't have activities for their kids. They just couldn't wrap their heads around the idea that they were in charge - if they wanted something, they needed to make it happen.

    You are welcome Ellen! :)

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  5. I think inclusive groups could work if religion is not the focus of the group. As I said in another thread, the only time I find religion is brought up in any group activity I participate in is when it is a homeschooling group. Religion is not discussed at exercise class, book club, meditation group, charitable group, business meetings, or the annual Christmas party for dh's work. It isn't brought up when I talk to moms at karate lessons or dance lessons either.

     

    I don't get why it is such a focus for some homeschoolers.

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