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  1. Have any of us brought this idea up as a possibility? It suddenly occurred to me that your priest may be honoring your husband as the head of your marriage. It could make sense, in that context, for him [the priest] to want to speak directly with your husband, to hear from him that it is ok for you to draw closer to, and eventually enter into, the Church. To form his own sense that your marriage is not going to suffer as a result. This is a signal to your husband that he deeply matters in the big picture, that he is important. That he is essential to your life. That he is not "an enemy".

    That is how I tried to explain it my dear husband, and he understands, but, making it happen is another story.

     

    :)

  2. I am in the same boat.

    It is so difficult to move forward without my dear husband, yet, I do not want to wait around for eternity. :)

    He, also, must meet with the priest before I can proceed alone, and was not too excited to hear that. He is very supportive, though, which is why he was shocked to hear of such a request.

    I am still waiting for the best opportunity to proceed, and I do not want to be pushy, either.

    Sigh.

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