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  1. Since it’s in good condition, I would leave it for now unless you really hate it. I think it’s better to live in a house for a bit and see how it feels and how it wants to be. I know my thoughts on colors and materials in our new home have changed a lot over the months of being here and I’m glad now I didn’t go with my first inclinations which would have been a mistake. 

  2. 54 minutes ago, Daria said:

    I hate jeans.  I seriously don't understand the appeal unless you're a cowperson*.  They feel like straight jackets for your legs.  I agree with the soft cargo/soft khaki options. 

    I work in education, and "jeans days" are a thing.  At my old school, teachers had permission to wear jeans on Friday if they wore a college T shirt.  The jeans were the bribe to get us to spend our own money to promote the idea of going to college.  I'm all about promoting college, but I'll wear that Tshirt with my regular pants, thank you very much.  At my current school, there are certain days where kids can bring $2 for charity and come out of uniform, and teachers can bring $2 and come in jeans.  I'll give you the money, but I'm not wearing the darn things!

    *What is the gender neutral version of cowboy/cowgirl?  Boy/girl would seem to lead to child, but cowchild seems like a calf not someone who makes their livelihood tending cattle on horseback

    I think gender neutral cowboy is cowhand. 

    Sorry I have nothing to offer about jeans except my commiseration since I hate them, too. 

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  3. Early on in our homeschool life I learned my lesson about loaning things I care about. Awkward situation.

    Now I don’t follow up on things I lend out because I only lend things I’m prepared to never see again but for whatever reason am not quite ready to get rid of entirely. Both times I lent whole curriculums they came back at the end of the year. One of the gals I loaned to insisted on making a detailed list of every book I had loaned her so I knew those were coming back. The other person apparently lost one of our books and bought a replacement copy which was very nice, but unnecessary, and I wished she had said something to me. 

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  4. My girl refuses to consider it now after her friend had such a horrible time finding her people there that she became very depressed and had to leave the school. She’s such a friendly young woman, too. We didn’t really understand it.  

  5. This is not uncommon where I grew up. The church would always host a shower without any expectation of invites to the wedding. It was the same for my workplace. They surprised me with a small shower. They didn’t expect wedding invites. I didn’t even know a couple of them very well. 

  6. 1 hour ago, DawnM said:

    Not for us.  We got an exceptional kid.  I really can't explain it.  He has been above his years socially and emotionally since the day we adopted him (2.5 years old and already speaking in complete sentences....not English, but he was a talker!)  Those who did speak his language were shocked at how much he knew.  

    This is our experience as well. Our girl came to us when she was four.  

    In our pre-adoption classes, we were told that many times an issue is a kid issue, not an adoption issue. That wasn’t to say adoption doesn’t come with issues, but to remind us not to close our minds to exploring other possibilities just to make sure we weren’t missing something. 

  7. It’s not rose-colored glasses for me. I really did not hear bad language anywhere in my lost on the plains location until high school from some more colorful older boys who didn’t realize they could be overheard or they wouldn’t have talked that way. Then I went to a Baptist university where I didn’t hear that language. And then my working environments were very Christian. I had such a shock when I married a military guy and lived on a base in my early 30s. I had no idea there were bad words I had never heard before and they were used so freely in general conversation. 

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  8. I like Iceland and saw some really good deals on tickets recently. Very tempted.

    I would pick Japan over China hands down. I find Japan to be friendlier and much easier to navigate independently. 

    Also, crowds in Japan and crowds in China are two very different things. The Forbidden City and Great Wall will be swarming with people and you will have to run a gauntlet of pushy hawkers. The pandas were sad. See pandas somewhere where they have a better habitat. 

    Possibly I still haven’t recovered from being pushef up against a barrier when the crowd surged forward at the Forbidden City the first time we were there. 

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  9. I don’t know, but I’m finding it very hard to live with. In fact, at the moment it’s making me want to scream. So much talent and creativity, but so much disarray. I’m actually a bit in mourning because a lot of promise and potential is drowning under the inability to be orderly. I honestly thought organizational skills could be learned but I’ve been teaching them since this person was three and well over a decade later have conceded defeat. 

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  10. We currently have an exchange student from China and amongst our extended family this is our fifth experience with a high school student from China. 

    Some observations: I am amazed at how long they can spend in our country and absorb very few Western ideas. And once they get to university they tend to stay in a Chinese clique. This has been our experience.

    The students with our program have to demonstrate that they have enough financially to support their school plans but they don’t have to be wealthy, although some of them are so I now know that Prada shoes come in a very lovely box. Our current student has a taxi driver father and editor mother. I suspect grandparents are contributing but I know they’re not wealthy. 

    The students we’ve met have issues either academically or socially and would have problems getting into a university in their country. Our current one has said that she’s here because the academics are easier. My sisters kid has anxiety and my other sisters former kid we think had untreated bipolar. 

    My cynical self says that being full pay gets them in to nicer universities here. 

    Also given China’s huge, huge population they are still just a drop in the bucket when they go back home. 

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  11. We do the same thing although I was bummed it wasn't possible with the mortgage and a couple of utilities. Apparently you can't do it for tuition at most schools either because the fee makes it not worth it. We are able to do our church tithe on the card now. The cash back bonus funds our Amazon habit.

  12. I don't think it's a bad thing to cover the severity of the flu. There seem to be an awful lot of people who, never having experienced it, don't get what a big deal it can be, and there are those who still go out and expose others when they know they have it.

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