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  1. Last suggestion....I'm trying to get at least 15 min. a day on the treadmill. My little ones make it almost impossible and I find the treadmill about as boring as it can get, but every little bit helps!

     

    I have definitely found that I eat healthier on days when I exercise. Even if it's just down the street and back. Too much guilt if I exercise then throw all the benefits away by eating junk food.

  2. and it changes every semester. This semester is relatively "normal", but last semester, we had school at odd hours and some on Saturday to accommodate the odd timing of dh's classes. However, some of our oddness stems from the fact that dh teaches the older kids grammar, lit and writing, so I need to plan my teaching around when he'll be home and available to work with the girls.

  3. I know I don't have to say anything beyond "it's what we think will be best for our family right now." ...but it seems that people immediately get defensive and want to defend their school choices. I really think it's fine for people to choose public or private schools or whatever....it's just not for us right now.

     

    I pretty much leave it where you do. However, when I sense the other person getting defensive, I will often respond with, "I am glad that you found an educational situation that works well for your family." For some reason, many fell judged because they aren't homeschooling, so some reassurance that it's okay not to seems to help.

  4. I have been considering this option in lifestyle for quite some time and am feeling possibly drawn to this again.

     

    When I have been feeling unfeminine or unspecial I will go for an extended period wearing only skirts and dresses. I actually prefer long skirts with leggings underneath in the fall and winter. It feels much warmer to me. Somehow wearing skirts gives me the motivation and energy for more domestic tasks. Not sure why. Maybe it was all those hours of Little House on the Prairie. LOL. On those days when I wear my long skirts at home, I seem to get much more done in the way of housework and yard work.

     

    I say that if you'd like to, go for it.

  5. I have very vivid crazy dreams. I have had them my whole life. I will wake up in the morning and be a tad crabby to dh only to realize that his alter-ego dream self was the offender, not his real self. LOL! He thinks it is kind of funny that his dream self gets his real self in "trouble" sometimes!

     

    My dh will be happy to know he's not the only one who gets in trouble for his dream-side alter ego's missteps. LOL! There are times I have been short with him during the day, and he's had to say to me, "Wait until you're asleep and yell at dream me. Awake me loves you and caused you no offense." LOL!

  6. Also, are classes not an option because they aren't available or because they are too expensive? If it is the former, I would try to find some sort of natural childbirth class in addition to the Bradley books. If it is the later, you might want to ask if a local Bradley teacher accepts bartering. I did. It was wonderful. One couple brought my family dinner when they came for class (in my home), and we would enjoy it the next day. If I hadn't have stopped teaching, I would have bartered chiropractic care for my dh in exchange for classes for them. I think a bartering system is wonderful, but many don't advertise it, so you'd have to ask.

  7. It's been about nine years, but these are the Bradley books I read:

     

    Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way, by Susan McCutcheon

    http://www.amazon.com/Natural-Childbirth-Bradley-Way-Revised/dp/0452276594

     

    Husband-Coached Childbirth, by Dr. Bradley

    http://www.amazon.com/Husband-Coached-Childbirth-Bradley-Method-Natural/dp/0553375563

     

     

     

    These two books are excellent. I think the first is more helpful without a class to accompany it. I taught Bradley classes up until last year. Feel free to email me if you have any questions and can't get a hold of your SIL. (apollosacademy at gmail dot com)Have you checked to see if there are any other naturally-based childbirth classes in your area so that you can benefit from the pros of two methods and have a flesh-and-blood person to talk to and receive encouragement from?

     

    As with all methods of childbirth, the number one "rule" is to find a doctor/ midwife who you respect and trust and who respects and trusts you in return. This is key if complications arise since you know you will be treated with respect when options of care need to be discussed and that if there is an emergency you know that your MD or midwife is being straightforward with you and telling you the best path to chose for your health and your baby's health and that those suggestions and decisions are being made while honoring your desire for a natural birth as much as they can in the situation at hand.

     

    Blessings to you and congratulations!

  8. I was planning on having him read, read, read, read, read, but I was also planning on starting him in spelling and he is already doing grammar and handwriting with other programs. I was just hoping that maybe I could find a single program that would allow me to cover all of those subjects with less prep on my part since he's my third, and there are other things I'd like to plan but don't have the time for. I stumbled across LLATL and thought maybe it would fit the bill but didn't know anything about it.

     

    I think I am going to just go with what we've been doing, and I'll try to see if I can streamline the prep some more. Thanks for all of your help.

  9. My 7yo went from struggling reader to voracious reader in about 3 months, so I am looking for a language arts program that involves a lot of reading but is all inclusive to cut-down on prep for me. LLATL appealed to me since it includes reading, grammar, vocab, spelling and writing in one program, but I know very little about it.

     

    If you've used it, could you let me know what you think? TIA

     

    Oh, and his handwriting is still very rocky, so is it a program that would provide handwriting practice while allowing me to adapt it to verbal answers if he gets overwhelmed with the writing?

  10. I worked "inside the beltway" for awhile, so I've met a few politico-types:

     

    Letitia Baldridge

    Secretary Lloyd Bensten

    Tim Russert

     

    I also received a very nice note from President and Mrs. Regan when I was a kid. I had asked for an autographed photo of both of them and received the standard Pres. photo. I wrote and told them that was not what I had requested (how snotty was that?!) and in return received a photo signed by both of them plus a note written by the President and signed by both of them.

     

    My dh has met more famous people than I have.

     

    He interviewed Sam Donaldson for a news article. (He was supposed to speak with Mr. Donaldson's press agent, but Mr. Donaldson got so upset about the topic my dh was calling about... he was about the millionth reporter to call... that he got on the phone himself to give my dh a piece of his mind. The interview ended on nice terms, though.)

     

    My dh was also in a service frat with Carson Kressley in college and went to high school with Dylan Bruno (from Numb3ers) and Jay Lender (co-creator of Spongebob Squarepants and son of the "Lender's Bagels" guy). Small schools so everyone "knew" everyone, but they were just acquaintances.

     

    He also has a friend from his master's degree program who is an actor, as is his wife, and they still chat regularly. I'm not sure why but because they are friends I don't feel right saying who without dh's blessing, and he's in class right now, so I can't ask him.

     

    It must be genetic for my dh 'cause my FIL has a knack for meeting famous people. He's actually writing his autobiography because he has had such an interesting life and met such fascinating people. (Plus it keeps him out of my MIL's hair. LOL)

  11. My ds is 7 and just finally "got" reading. His two older sisters were reading when they were 4, so I was nervous at first when he didn't read early, but he had a mild speech impediment. Once he was over that and we began HOP, his reading took off... three months ago. Now he's a voracious reader. He still struggles periodically, but he's progressing quite well. He just finished HOP, and we are just reading for now. He loves it.

  12. The kids are loud and just basically run around and it's noisy. I know whomever does stuff with the kids would miss the adult study, but that's just what's going to have to happen. There are about 20-25 kids a week ages from 2-13 or so. It' just driving dh and I crazy and we feel there needs to be some structure to it. (it's mainly the noise level that gets out of control)

     

    This would be a wonderful opportunity to teach them to serve. A couple teenagers could teach a Bible study to the children then have a structured play time. There may need to be a willing adult to hold the teens' hands for a bit early, but what better discipling opportunity could you ask for?

     

    As to the Heelies, could you designate a Heelie zone where the kids could skate to their hearts content while not causing much of a disruption? My dd have Heelies and there aren't too many places where she can use them (a lesson in buying something you have no adequate place to use them), so she will ask if she can use them in our Fellowship Hall if it is not crowded. She is allowed to, but knows that she may be asked to stop if it becomes too crowded.

     

    HTH

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