Thankfully we live in a small town, so my son knows pretty much everyone from public, private and the Montessori school. He has played hockey for four years now and runs cross country through the local public school. He will continue to do so through high school. We do have some homeschooling groups around here that I we will be getting involved with (25-45min away), one of which does PE twice a month at a local college throughout the school year (the college kids lead the classes). He also takes drum lessons and may end up joining band (there is a sports agreement between our Montessori and the public school, but no other extracurricular agreements, so he has more opportunities if he homeschools, too).
I haven't chosen curriculum for my 8th grader yet, but next year I will be using Story of the World, Writing with Ease, First Language Lessons and Math with Confidence for my 6yo. Along with a lot of outdoor time (we have a hiking trail right behind our house and a park a block away). I have some excellent science resources and a wonderful library. The 6yo is ADHD so homeschooling will give him the ability to really get that energy out instead of being in a class environment. He does well academically and as long as we have a good routine down he is pretty good at sitting for short lessons. I have witnessed big shifts in the most energetic kids somewhere between 3rd and 5th grade, with a decrease in disruptive behavior and the ability to sit for a little longer for lessons. But I think he'll be a-ok.
Since I currently work at the Montessori school my children attend, I haven't searched out local homeschoolers. I have yet to give my school a heads up that I am leaving and removing my children as well, so I still need to get a grasp on how many homeschoolers we have right in our town.
As for the 3yo, he taught himself his letter sounds and numbers to 25 when he was two via a Leapfrog tablet, so we've been steadily working on that when he asks to (he recognizes patterns as we work our way up to 100). I've added some Montessori materials to our space, so he has opportunities to engage with letters and numbers and we've begun doing some phonemic awareness exercises with some simple vc and cvc words to sound out.
Overall, my reasons are (I'm sure there's others, but off the top of my head:
I am hoping to give my children a better education and a more close-knit family dynamic. A strengthening of family bonds and to know my children better.
I want to be a larger influence than their peers (Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate was an eye opening read).
I don't want to avoid the morning rush and forcing kids to wake up when they're still tired.
I want to use a curriculum that works rather than the latest fad/experiment.
I'd like less schedule conflicts and the ability to take our vacations during the week.
It also gives us more time with my mom (who has Parkinson's and my grandma who is 95, both of whom need a decent amount of help).
I'm sure I'll come up with new "Whys" and maybe even change curriculums a few times or mix and match a little more. But so far I really like TWTM curriculum. We will see if it suits my, though.
Thank you so much for your input. I really do appreciate it.