I have had this since I was a kid, I remember I couldn't wait until 5th grade when we could use pen. I still have trouble writing in pencil, it feel like nails on a chalkboard, I am wondering if it is undiagnosed sensory processing issue but nothing comes up fitting the bill. I have discovered that I am a Highly Sensitive Person, may want to look that up. That's great that you are looking for alternatives. Good news is I am 30years old and I am a practicing artist, so she is not doomed. I do prefer crayons to color pencils. Good luck :) Also she may like to learn playing string instruments like violin and cello, because that sort of stuff is the opposite, feels so good to play or listen too. I think it may be just extreme tactile, audio sensitivity.
