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  1. So my stepson was diagnosed with adhd around 5 years ago, but I wasn't there for his little kid days. We're starting to think our 5 year old might be in the same tribe. Reading about it though, the symptom lists seem so vague. Can anyone give me some examples of neurotypical vs adhd behavior expectations? Ex. Most 5 year olds are energetic - when does it become "extra"? 

  2. 5 hours ago, YaelAldrich said:

    Ok, on the word buttons.  I'm kinda obsessed with the short videos on dogs communicating with their owners with buttons.  Is this for real?  Are some dogs too dumb (for lack of a better word) to do this?  Are some dog breeds better than others at this?

    I definitely believe it's for real, but yes, some dogs are smarter than others. Dog breeds that tend to exihibit more independent intelligence (vs just being really trainable) are going to do better at it.

    Bunny is the best example. She has come up with novel statements to solve problems. She has asked existential-type questions. My dogs on the other hand showed no interest lol.

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  3. I sat down with little man to talk about it. He confirmed he doesn't like it because it's hard. I said it's ok that it's hard - everybody struggles with learning something new sometimes. I asked if he would want to try doing it a different way - yes. So we've moved away from our usual school spot and he's working through 1 word at a time while I write a short sentence like, "The dog sat on mom." The last couple of days have been much, much better for both of us.

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  4. He likes doing math and looking at/watching science stuff. He's not enthusiastic about handwriting, but that's not a high priority. It's really just the phonics. It doesn't come as easy for him as math does. That's probably the real issue - teaching him to stick with something that isn't so easy. 

    I'll try changing the scenery/scaling back. 

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  5. My little guy is doing kindergarten. He has known his letters/sounds for ages, and has has shown that he is capable of working out CVC words. (We're using Explode the Code.) He's driving me up the wall with his resistance to phonics lessons though. I aim to keep it brief - sometimes just half a page at a time. I walk him through each word. But it's like pulling teeth to get him to look at the 3 letters on the page instead of the wall. (Vision is fine and doesn't show signs of ADHD this far.)

    Advice appreciated.

  6. On shortages topic - I started looking for a swingset for ds last April; we just got one this month. The type we wanted was constantly out of stock. 

    I built a raised garden bed out of cinder blocks cheaper than lumber. As a bonus though, it'll last a lot longer. 

    We definitely see more random empty spots at walmart too. 

  7. On 5/3/2021 at 9:31 PM, Starr said:

    We have those, some years worse than others. They are a kind of beetle not the happy lady bugs that are good for plants. And they stink if you squish them. lol

    Stink bugs are totally different from lady bugs. Stinkbugs can hurt your plants, on top of being super annoying inside. The Brown Marmorated variety are an invasive species, so no natural predators to keep them in check. You might try Diamataceous Earth. Most insecticides will only kill them with direct contact; the residue does nothing.

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  8. 10 hours ago, cjzimmer1 said:

    We've got several manufacturing companies here desperate for workers.  starting pay is over $20 an hour, plus a signing bonus, plus another $2.00 an hour raise after 6 months, plus performance bonuses.  Dental insurance is free, health insurance is some of the cheapest employee rates I've ever seen (and the coverage is pretty decent) as well as an in house clinic that costs nothing to use, free fitness center, 401K etc.  All they ask is you pass a drug test and actually show up for work everyday, no work experience required, no reference checks, seriously all they ask is that you pass a drug test and actually show up to work on time everyday.  And they can't find enough people.  Either they can't pass a drug screen or the idea of showing up to work everyday is too difficult and after 3 no shows, they get let go.  It's kind of mind boggling to me.

    We have a similar manufacturing situation here. Here at least, it's less about the drug test/showing up everyday than it is about the chronic pain and excessive overtime that usually comes with it. It's also difficult to find childcare for such long hours, and most people actually want to see their kids once in a while.

  9. The best thing is to get your doctor's input on doses.

    Personally, if I don't take magnesium supplements (800mg), I get cramps in my feet. It seems to run in my family. It got progressively worse for my grandpa, but I don't think he was taking magnesium. 

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  10. I'm with DawnM. Technically, I do fall under the definition of evangelical, but it's got so mixed up with fundementalism that it's hard to use the word. 

    My introduction to the church was SBC, but after a series of other churches & several years of no church at all, we now attend an Episcopalian church. 

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