My new stepson is almost 13 years old. My new husband was trimming his toe nails and finger nails in my living room. I almost gagged. His voice has already change and he is taller than me! I wanted to tell him to TEACH his son how to do his own toe/finger nails in the BATHROOM! However, my husband babies him, takes him a hot lunch to school every day (because he doesn't eat sandwiches and he doesn't like the hot meals at school). The boy-with-the-man-voice isn't even very nice to his Dad! Ignores him when Dad is trying to make a conversation. Does not do as he is told, makes demands on his Dad, My husband is constantly running around getting him this and that, making him special dinners/breakfasts, etc. If he doesn't like what we are making, my husband makes him his own meal. My grandson, who is 12 sets his alarm for school every morning at 6:30, showers, dresses, makes his own breakfast (scrambled eggs and toast), makes his own lunch and is ready to be picked up by car-pool by 7:40. Am I being overly critical of my step son? (Who btw has at times bullied my grandson by throwing wet sand in his face, with no consequences).