I know all kids are different, but I have had the opposite experience with my ASD son. He has no problems with gross or fine motor skills and enjoys physical activity of all kinds. He cannot, however 'imagine' a story, so reading to him doesn't help a lot. We still do it in an effort to encourage further learning, but he requires a much more hands on way if he is going to learn things efficiently. We have found Leapfrog products and videos great for him, as well as a toy called the 'Word Launcher' that is a leapfrog product. We try to make as many learning activities sensory - writing words in finger paint and pudding, for example. For times when he needs to concentrate and can't, our son's ot recommended he sit on a yoga ball. For some reason when he is rocking on this ball a little he seems more able to focus. All kids are different, and that certainly applies to the ASD ones as well.