From Jill’s book: “We understand that no family is perfect and that you can recognize the beauty in your story while still acknowledging the difficult parts and even setting boundaries. It shouldn’t make you unloving. It’s like roses and thorns, the two can coexist, and I do love my family. The highs aren’t invalidated by the lows and vice versa.” (Jill Duggar)     I admire her for this way of thinking about a family that let her down so deeply and also abused her. This