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I'm grateful for this thread because I was unaware they had been revamped. I like the look of the new and will be using it next year for my two sons. One of my sons is coming out of two years of CC's Essentials, and I will be using this next year while he is in Challenge A to keep grammar concepts fresh and to shore up his latin. My older son will do this and I plan on using an old book that my husband used in college to teach diagramming. I was sad to see that they no longer have Tom Sawyer as one of the choices, though. :(
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Remember the year we did workboxes?
...filing?
...filing by subject instead of day?
...checklists?
...checklists by ____
.....loop scheduling....block scheduling.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
Guilty of all, but I still love love love the idea of loop scheduling and think it's brilliant.
But hey, it's like a common thread that runs through all (or almost all) homeschooling moms. It's one of the things that, despite differing curricula, ties us all together through a common weakness (or illness, as some might say-haha)
It's just who we are. We are constantly trying to be a better homeschool mom that we were last year, last week or even yesterday. ;)
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I am using the same Phonics Pathways book that I taught my older three children to read now with my four year old. I'm pretty sentimental about it. I'm saving it in case I get to use it with my future grandkids. :)
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I have really found Nicholeen Peck's book and website to be very helpful. Her book is A House United: Changing Children's Hearts and Behaviors by Teaching Self-Government.
Nicholeen has four children, but she has fostered many, many more than that. She claims to have gotten most of her methods and techniques from the Utah Youth Village. I know nothing about that organization other than the fact that they facilitate foster care, but being foster care spanking and the like are not allowed.
I think she has a really great grasp of using alternative methods for not only discipline, but training. She is really big on using reasoning skills to get the children to see for themselves the impact of their choices. She also really focuses on the principle of cause and effect.
One particular device that I think is the bomb is SODAS:
Situation, Options, Disadvantages, Advantages, Solution
This is meant to get the child to think through various situations and to reason on their own what a better choice would be. Instead of getting a lecture or being yelled at or whatever else, they are taught to think it through on their own.
Here is the example in her book:
Situation: You are at the store with the family shopping for new clothes for your sister, and you become bored.
Options: 1. Stay with the family
2. Whine because I'm not having fun
3. Walk off by myself
Disadvantages: 1a. I might still be bored
1b. I won't get to see the stuff I want to
1c. I have to listen to girl stuff
2a. I will get criticism from my mom
2b. I will get myself in an even worse mood
2c. It might take longer to get done shopping
3a. I could get lost
3b. I would get criticism and consequences when found
3c. If I get lost, we might end up at the store even longer
Advantages: 1a. No one gets worried or upset
1b. I don't have to talk with anyone about bad behavior
1c. Maybe we could look for something for me too
2a. We could leave sooner, because mom will get tired of me
2b. My opinions would be heard
2c. None
3a. I get time alone to see stuff for me
3b. Mom knows how I feel
3c. None
Solution: I choose to stay with my family.
She says that when her son was 7, they went shopping in a large store for clothes for his sister. Her son was grumpy and complaining because he didn't want to be there. Then he walked off on his own without asking her. The whole store went looking for him and he was found. At that moment she knew she was not in the proper frame of mind to teach him about appropriate behaviors, so they went through this exercise when they got home.
The cool thing about this particular device is that you can use it to train-which is the same principle that is advocated by the Pearls, but without the rod or constant threat of the rod. By training I mean taking certain situations that could come up and having your child do this exercise.
Anyway, this is just one particular practical tool that she suggests. Obviously, you can't do that with an infant, or a toddler, though you could talk through some situations even with a toddler.
Here is a favorite quote taken from her book that I especially love:
Your spouse and children are not just people, they are eternal beings with spirits. What we do in our homes is so much more important than just parenting. We are given charge over an eternal soul. When we interact with our child, we are talking and communicating to a spiritual being.
Nicholeen and her husband Spencer were featured on the show, The World's Strictest Parents. I believe they have the episode on which they were featured on their website. It will bring you to tears. They had two different teenagers from broken homes who came to them in a very rebellious, very scared, very angry and hurt emotional state. I felt that the way they handled them was superb.
http://www.teachingselfgovernment.com
I'd welcome any book recommendations from others as well.
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I find Floradix liquid iron supplement quite helpful, my midwife introduced it to me while pg with my first, I've taken it on and off ever since. You can get it at the health food store, and it doesn't cause constipation.
I have always been borderline anemic and I have the same problem around that time of the month. I also take Floradix and have seen improvement. I find mine at Whole Foods.
As as a side note, I was having the same problem with heavy bleeding and it turns out my estrogen/progesterone were out of balance (this is seemingly an epidemic among women in their mid 30s-early 50s). As soon as I went on bioidentical progesterone cream, my periods not only were lighter, but did not last nearly as long. I was having periods of up to two weeks or more and the progesterone put me back on a very regular seven day period.
That might be TMI -sorry if it is- but I know I was feeling desperate and going to see a doctor who specialized in bioidentical hormone therapy has changed my life. It's worth checking into because your periods should not be that heavy.
Best of luck to you!
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I love cookbooks geared towards lunchboxes and school. We have the Vegan Lunchbox, Laptop Lunchbox, and our newest is the Bento Box book.
They are fun lunches and it helps keep me going when we will be out for lunch and do need to pack it.
I only recently discovered the big wide world of bento boxes, etc. There are so many wonderful ideas posted out there about what to put in them. You ought to check out Flickr groups where people post pics of what they put in their boxes. Google "Bento Boxes" or "Laptop Lunches." That will get you out of any kind of "What's for lunch?" rut. The pictures are very inspiring for a visual person like me. Watch out, though! Viewing those threads will make you HUNGRY. :P
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That last book should have been called Hermione Granger and the Deathly Hallows.
This made me smile! I love Hermione.
What am I saying? I love everything about Harry Potter. All of the characters just rock.
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I love Neville!!
That is a cool shirt. And I have a little soft spot in my heart for Snape, too. Especially after the 6th & 7th books.
The important Snape scenes in the Deathly Hallows Pt. 2 just about ripped my heart out.
And this part:
"Albus Severus," Harry said quietly, so that nobody but Ginny could hear, and she was tactful enough to pretend to be waving to Rose, who was now on the train, "you were named for two headmasters of Hogwarts. One of them was a Slytherin and he was probably the bravest man I ever knew."
makes me cry...every.single.time.
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one of my all-time faves is, "Whole Foods for the Whole Family," by LLL International.
This was the first book that came to my mind.
:) Looking forward to seeing other suggestions.
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My daughter took formal lessons before our move last summer. We loved that teacher, and my daughter really grew as a pianist.
Our house didn't sell (still hasn't sold!!) so we had no money for piano lessons here. So as a compromise we bought Mark Almond's Piano for Life and Piano for Quitters. My husband and daughter were able to see his lecture/display at the convention.
I was very skeptical at first. It teaches you the chords and then encourages the student to explore and make music on their own with the chords they've learned. I'll tell you...my daughter had reached a bit of a rut, playing the same pieces over and over. Once she started doing the DVD program, I was amazed at what I heard coming from our piano. My husband watches it with her and he was also playing amazing music. Now my daughter gets a little irritated because she and Dad both want to play all the time and they have to share the piano time. :)
She still wants to go back to formal lessons, which we will do when we can afford it. But for now this method/perspective is a breath of fresh air.
Right now she is teaching herself to play guitar. I need to look and see if there is something similar for learning guitar.
Best of luck!
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...I'm so distracted reading the post on the Pearls that I forgot to change forums. Sorry!:001_huh:
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Has anyone used this? Experience? Reviews? Thoughts?
I'd like to order this for my daughter-she has never had any formal logic, and she does enjoy solving "crimes" or anything to do with forensic science.
Money is tight and so I want to be very certain this is a worthwhile product before I spend the $40+ on it.
Thank you!
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Has anyone used this? Experience? Reviews? Thoughts?
I'd like to order this for my daughter-she has never had any formal logic, and she does enjoy solving "crimes" or anything to do with forensic science.
Money is tight and so I want to be very certain this is a worthwhile product before I spend the $40+ on it.
Thank you!
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I believe strongly in personal responsibility and fact is that the Pearls do not advocate 7 hour torture sessions that end in death. The parents were out of control. Of course, then there are considerations of why these two particular children, but that is another topic.]
I wondered if anyone else noticed this too. It appears that only the adopted children were subjected to this. No mention was made of it happening to their biological children.
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I have not read the Pearls EVER, they have always reeked of fundamentalism to me, however, I don't think even they would suggest the extreme this family went to to punish their child.
What did really bother me though was that their first response when they found out what had happened was, "Well, we wanted to find out if WE would be implicated in this." :glare: Their first response should be, "How could someone have taken our teaching to such horrible extremes? This is terrible."
Dawn
Yes! I didn't see any signs of sadness or grief over the fact that their book (even if the parents took it further than the Pearls advocate in their book) at least in some way contributed to the death of a precious child. Debi was smiling throughout the entire interview! It made feel sick at my stomach.
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I haven't read the articles you linked to yet, though I plan to.
When I was a young parent, these books were given to us and we used them for a time.
And then I saw Michael Pearl speak in person. My husband I were both extremely put-off by his manner. He was very arrogant and said some really horrible things. I know the one that really upset me the most was his passionate blanket statement that "all public school teachers were nothing but perverts."
Obviously I home educate. But I know many fine, morally upstanding people who teach. I was truly offended at his manner and his arrogance. I just shrivel up when I think of him. I would say that not everything in his books is bad-there is probably some good stuff in there but it is hard for me to even begin to think about following any of his advice now after seeing him in person.
I very much prefer the parenting style advocated by Nicholeen Peck at her website http://www.teachingselfgovernment.com Her methods are firm, yet child affirming and the end result is a child who gradually learns how to govern themselves toward right behavior. I discovered her through the Thomas Jefferson Education camp and I think she rocks!!
Off to read the articles you linked now...
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I read "What Your Dr. May Not Tell You About Menopause" by Dr. Lee and thereby, discovered Natural Progesterone Cream. I started using it and my PMS became nearly nonexistent, I have more energy, feel better, my period is much lighter and shorter in length, etc. It helped with every issue caused by hormone fluctuations. I found a copy at my library. He's also written one dealing directly with perimenopause but does discuss all hormonal issues in the original book. Natural Progesterone Cream is supposed to help with all the cycles of life.
I use Beeyoutiful Balance. It has the right amount of progesterone and only uses natural ingredients.
By the way-natural progesterone comes from the yam root.
I have also read and highly recommend this book. I have two others to recommend: Female Brain Gone Insane, by Mia Lundin and Breakthrough by Suzanne Sommers.
I was having a lot of trouble with perimenopause and went to see one of the doctors listed in the directory in the back of Suzanne Sommers' book. This doctor supports the use of bioidentical hormone therapy. I went to see her, they did the tests, and I am on natural progesterone and testosterone creams, and certain natural supplements where I was deficient. My husband was also tested, as recommended in the SS book and is on some stuff too. We are both feeling much better. It's worth checking into.
Best of luck to you for the answers you need. :)
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We love love love LoF, so I am very appreciative of the review. Thank you for taking the time to do that. :)
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We have six of varying sizes and I am out of room. All of my daughter's new Core 100 books are currently in a neat pile on the floor because I have nowhere to house them.
I've been trying to find some at garage sales, etc. but book shelves are too expensive to buy new right now, and even at garage sales it seems the price is too high.
I might have to take old SL books and box them up as I have heard others do, but I hate boxing up books. I like to have them accessible for when the mood strikes.
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I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but I've been taking Bragg's apple cider vinegar and it's working like a charm! I just take a teaspooon in a glass of water a couple times each day.
Yes! I was skeptical too. I began getting Acid Reflux during my last pregnancy and this gave me instant relief. I usually use 2 tablespoons mixed with 1/4 teaspoon Bob's Red Mill organic baking soda (supposedly helps even out your pH). I add in warm water, and sweeten with Stevia.
I usually take mine in a straw so that it goes straight back down the throat without touching my teeth and affecting the enamel.
A great website that talks about this is http://www.earthclinic.com
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This is almost impossible to answer-but I do love a good book thread, so I will chime in:
Farmer Boy, by Laura Ingalls Wilder
Anne of Green Gables, by Lucy Maud Montgomery
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
Nana Upstairs, Nana Downstairs, by Tomie de Paola
LOTR - the chapter in ROTK which describes the developing relationship between Eowyn and Faramir is one of the most romantic stories I've ever read.
Redeeming Love and the Mark of the Lion series both took my breath away. Absolutely excellent.
The Once and Future King
Illusion by Paula Volsky - this is fantasy which is not usually my genre, but the story in this book is loosely patterned after the French Revolution. I love history so that is probably why it appeals to me so much. I love Dref!!
Jane Eyre- I think this book should be recommended reading for every young person!!
North and South by Elizabeth Gaskell
Emma by Jane Austen
Non-Fiction:
Founding Mothers, by Cokie Roberts. This is such a fascinating and inspiring book!
The Hiding Place, by Corrie Ten Boom. This book was life-changing for me.
Anything and everything by David McCollough.
Favorite SL books: Johnny Tremain, Witch of Blackbird Pond, Carry On, Mr. Bowditch and Mara, Daughter of the Nile.
How could I forget Little Britches? I was deeply affected by this book.
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This is almost impossible to answer-but I do love a good book thread, so I will chime in:
Farmer Boy, by Laura Ingalls Wilder
Anne of Green Gables, by Lucy Maud Montgomery
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
Nana Upstairs, Nana Downstairs, by Tomie de Paola
LOTR - the chapter in ROTK which describes the developing relationship between Eowyn and Faramir is one of the most romantic stories I've ever read.
Redeeming Love and the Mark of the Lion series both took my breath away. Absolutely excellent.
The Once and Future King
Illusion by Paula Volsky - this is fantasy which is not usually my genre, but the story in this book is loosely patterned after the French Revolution. I love history so that is probably why it appeals to me so much. I love Dref!!
Jane Eyre- I think this book should be required reading for every young person!!
North and South by Elizabeth Gaskell
Emma by Jane Austen
Non-Fiction:
Founding Mothers, by Cokie Roberts. This is such a fascinating and inspiring book!
The Hiding Place, by Corrie Ten Boom. This book was life-changing for me.
Anything and everything by David McCollough.
Favorite SL books: Johnny Tremain, Witch of Blackbird Pond, Carry On, Mr. Bowditch and Mara, Daughter of the Nile.
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Oh! I only saw the movie! How did the book end?
It ends with her at the table, going over the "business proposition." She gets flustered so he hugs her, she gets embarrassed and doesn't want to raise her head to look at him. He coaxes her out of her embarrassment to look at him. And there is no kiss. I'm sorry-but the movie ending is worth that kissing scene alone. I get butterflies in my stomach every time I see it!! :)
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Oh goody! I have some Netflix watching to do! I didn't realize the BBC had such wonderful productions! I've been watching too much Hollywood. Thanks for all the great recommendations! :001_smile:
Is North and South based on a Jane Eyre novel? It seemed so similar to Pride & Prejudice and Sense & Sensibility (LOVE those movies too!) I know I can just go to Google and look this up for myself, but it's much more fun to have a conversation about it, than just simply look it up as a fact! ;)
On the surface it does seem similar to Pride and Prejudice, but I think the characters are much more complex and well-developed. Mr. Thornton, for example. We are allowed into his thoughts and feelings whereas in P & P, we get only Elizabeth's perspective. Also the storyline is deeper and richer than P & P. The whole side story about the working conditions of the factory workers was done very well, IMO.
Interestingly, I read somewhere that she was not happy with the ending in the book, but was writing it in serial format and was under the gun to finish it. She wanted to rewrite it but died before she was able. I definitely prefer the movie ending to the book ending.
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Kerrygold! Though I always use the salted. I make mine with 2 tablespoons grassfed butter and a spoonful of coconut oil and a touch of stevia (I use Trim Healthy Mama stevia, but any will do). The key is blending it in the blender. Delicious!