katilac Posted February 7, 2023 Share Posted February 7, 2023 Just now, barnwife said: But what about families without vehicles? I just...can't fathom how this works. What about homeless families? Oh boy....it's a good thing I've never heard of this because I'd be that person protesting and doing it anyway. Sorry, OP, for the tangent. Walkers are a separate category from pick-up line. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 7, 2023 Author Share Posted February 7, 2023 I have spotted a couple walkers but I don’t know where their cars are… they probably live nearby. Xh stonewalls. He ignored every text about swapping weekends. Then asked me a question. I didn’t answer him, just repeated mine. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 8, 2023 Author Share Posted February 8, 2023 Had a preliminary interview on Zoom today. If they want me for round two, I'll hear back this afternoon and they will schedule a face-to-face one in LA. The pay scale is pretty broad so I'm not sure what it would be but I know what I'd need to make. 24 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terabith Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 How would moving out of state affect things legally? I know that can switch up courts and stuff. I can’t get over that nobody will even have court about him moving them so far away from you and denying you so much visitation. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 3 hours ago, heartlikealion said: Had a preliminary interview on Zoom today. If they want me for round two, I'll hear back this afternoon and they will schedule a face-to-face one in LA. The pay scale is pretty broad so I'm not sure what it would be but I know what I'd need to make. Wow, I hope you find something that works for you. How close will you be to the kids if you get this job? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katilac Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 3 hours ago, heartlikealion said: Had a preliminary interview on Zoom today. If they want me for round two, I'll hear back this afternoon and they will schedule a face-to-face one in LA. Our constant reply in Louisiana, whatever the topic may be: At least we're better than Mississippi! 😄😄 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 8, 2023 Author Share Posted February 8, 2023 43 minutes ago, Scarlett said: Wow, I hope you find something that works for you. How close will you be to the kids if you get this job? 1.5 hours it’s outside of New Orleans too so at least a chance at a social scene lol. I have 2 girlfriends that live in the area. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 8, 2023 Author Share Posted February 8, 2023 No call back, ugh 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 15 hours ago, heartlikealion said: No call back, ugh I'm sorry, Heart. Job hunting isn't for the faint of heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 9, 2023 Author Share Posted February 9, 2023 2 hours ago, historically accurate said: I'm sorry, Heart. Job hunting isn't for the faint of heart. Yeah it’s ok. I just hate being in limbo with my living situation. 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 9, 2023 Author Share Posted February 9, 2023 I was offered an interview weeks ago which I was tempted to take — but now that they (the agency) finally got around to asking if I can come I said I’m holding out for a job closer to my kids. This was a job through the nanny agency I work for but the family wants a “household manager.” You organize things, cook meals, do some cleaning, have limited time with child after school is out. Has benefits. But still 3 hrs from my kids. So I’m still looking. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 9, 2023 Author Share Posted February 9, 2023 Dropping off rent today and will include a letter discussing possible early lease termination. They know the basics of my situation already. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 9, 2023 Author Share Posted February 9, 2023 On 2/8/2023 at 1:14 PM, Terabith said: How would moving out of state affect things legally? I know that can switch up courts and stuff. I can’t get over that nobody will even have court about him moving them so far away from you and denying you so much visitation. Sorry, meant to say I do need to discuss this but given the job market and proximity to the kids, I think 1-2 hrs outside the state line would be permitted. Probably would ask for 3 weekends a month or something like that and meet up on Friday evenings after work. Not sure. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 10, 2023 Author Share Posted February 10, 2023 Spoke to lawyer. He’s going to draft something but I suggested we meet in person to go over it. I emailed some of my wishes. I bought a ticket to a huge event/networking opportunity on the coast in March so if I don’t have a job by then maybe I’ll get a lead. It’s an award thing (I attended similar when I worked for a newspaper). Tickets are refundable but I’ll probably go either way. And there’s an 80s/90s theme so I asked my gf/hairdresser if she had a tool to crimp my hair and she said yes. Just really trying all kinds of things. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 I'm glad you were finally able to speak with your lawyer. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katilac Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 8 hours ago, heartlikealion said: I bought a ticket to a huge event/networking opportunity on the coast in March I can't remember if this was asked: do you have a LinkedIn? It can be very helpful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 10, 2023 Author Share Posted February 10, 2023 26 minutes ago, katilac said: I can't remember if this was asked: do you have a LinkedIn? It can be very helpful. Yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 11, 2023 Author Share Posted February 11, 2023 Landlords will release me from lease if I need to go. I even applied for the Logic of English customer support person (remote) but they didn’t disclose salary and I’m sure it’s not a living wage. I’m sick as a dog but it’s probably just a cold. However, I think I may visit a walk in clinic to outrule strep etc. A nurse friend said some are testing positive for Covid with negative home tests. No fever. Just have had an on going sore throat & cough. It’s really derailing my productivity. 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted February 11, 2023 Share Posted February 11, 2023 I hope you feel better soon! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted February 11, 2023 Share Posted February 11, 2023 I'm glad your landlords are being reasonable, and am sorry that you are sick. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 12, 2023 Author Share Posted February 12, 2023 Not strep. Not flu. Not Covid. Just a very red, sore throat. They write a script for a cough syrup but ins didn’t cover it and it was $65. I didn’t buy it. I’ll check all my labels soon to see if the ones I’ve been using maybe expired. I bought a bottle of severe cold & flu. Even though I don’t have fever it might be the best one for me to use tonight. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatfirstsip Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 I'd probably double or alternate Tylenol and Advil if the primary symptom is sore throat. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 12, 2023 Author Share Posted February 12, 2023 3 hours ago, thatfirstsip said: I'd probably double or alternate Tylenol and Advil if the primary symptom is sore throat. That’s the active ingredient in my cough syrup. This stuff isn’t doing a great job of suppressing the cough, which is what keeps me up. I bought a bottle of Vit C tablets and took some. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 Benadryl helps me sleep when I have a cough. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 12, 2023 Author Share Posted February 12, 2023 Nothing is working. I took Benadryl. The NyQuil didn’t suppress cough well. The Dimetapp didn’t do much, either. The Robitussin was expired. Google says some cough suppressants just don’t work period. Hmm. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 I'm sorry you are feeling bad 😞 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieJ Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 Delsym is supposed to be a good cough syrup. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 12, 2023 Author Share Posted February 12, 2023 2 hours ago, KatieJ said: Delsym is supposed to be a good cough syrup. I’ve read that there’s no proof some work any better than a placebo. I wonder if they just don’t work at all. I don’t think I’ve seen that one in stock locally. Shelves are pretty bare. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hen Posted February 13, 2023 Share Posted February 13, 2023 my daughter swears on pineapple juice to stop a cough, I've read it is suppose to be effective for that, but I haven't ever tried...can't get past how sweet it is! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 13, 2023 Author Share Posted February 13, 2023 I’m willing to try! The Dollar store brand cough syrup I have says it’s comparable to Delsym, but it didn’t work and claims to last 12 hrs. I can’t wait for this to be over. Dd gets a 5-day weekend soon for Mardi Gras so I will be visiting several days soon. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted February 13, 2023 Share Posted February 13, 2023 Nothing over the counter really stops a cough completely. Musinex helps thin secretions as well as lots of fluids. Perhaps a little alcohol would help before bed. I hope you are feeling better every day. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 It’s like it’s getting worse, not better. Up another night due to coughing. I’ve ate straight honey, drank pineapple juice, sucked on marshmallows, eaten frozen treats, had soup, hot cocoa, water, tried a little hot tea, take 2000 mg of Vit C… I tried Mucinex DM capsules. Nothing seems to help. I don’t think I have bronchitis. I have had that in the past. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 Are you actually sick, or is it just the cough? I had a stress cough for at least eight years, and it still comes back under certain types of stressful conditions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 6 hours ago, Rosie_0801 said: Are you actually sick, or is it just the cough? I had a stress cough for at least eight years, and it still comes back under certain types of stressful conditions. oh no I’m sick. It’s sore throat, some head congestion/runny nose occasionally, and cough. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dianthus Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 (edited) Gargle warm salt water. Drink warm tea with a couple slices of ginger. Drink warm chicken broth or bouillon. Mucinex doesn't work thinning mucous unless you drink a lot of fluids. Take benedryl at night but not with mucinex. Benedryl thickens mucous, slows drainage, and makes you tired. Edited February 15, 2023 by Dianthus 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 1 minute ago, Dianthus said: Gargle warm salt water. Drink warm tea with a couple slices of ginger. Drink warm chicken broth or bouillon. Mucinex doesn't work thinning mucous unless you drink a lot of fluids. Take benedryl at night but not with mucinex. Benedryl thickens mucous, slows drainage, and makes you tired. It might work for the thinning but I took Benadryl that one night and it didn’t make me sleepy. move been gargling with salt daily. It just seems like anything that helps helps for 2 seconds. 😞 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scholastica Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 I would go get checked fir a sinus infection. You’ve been sick a good while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 For bedtime some vicks on the chest can stop the tickle feeling that you have to cough, long enough to get to sleep. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 Yeah, it's time to head to the doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 I just sent a message to my primary care dr. I saw the one at the clinic on Saturday. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 They are calling me soon for a phone appt. I don’t know if they will need me to drive there later or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 They called in some products for me to pick up at the pharmacy (hoping ins will cover these ones). If things don’t improve within a few more days then they recommend I do fill the antibiotics script. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanin Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 2 minutes ago, heartlikealion said: They called in some products for me to pick up at the pharmacy (hoping ins will cover these ones). If things don’t improve within a few more days then they recommend I do fill the antibiotics script. My mom got a prescription for cough suppressant pills after two weeks of a cough. She said she was like a new woman after a few hours. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clemsondana Posted February 15, 2023 Share Posted February 15, 2023 If it lingers with no fever, also consider benedryl. It's been unusually warm and wet in my part of the south, so the folks with allergies are having some issues at a time of year that usually is OK. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 15, 2023 Author Share Posted February 15, 2023 1 hour ago, Clemsondana said: If it lingers with no fever, also consider benedryl. It's been unusually warm and wet in my part of the south, so the folks with allergies are having some issues at a time of year that usually is OK. I tried the capsules that I had but it didn't seem to have any effect. I feel like I'm immune to all products LOL The pharmacy had 2 out of 3 products. I called around and found it in stock at Walgreens. Waiting on the nurse to return from lunch to send it to Walgreens. I sent her a message in the portal. It will take me an hour to drive there and she won't be back from lunch for another half hour or so, so this is kinda dragging out, but I should have some products in hand by this afternoon. They prescribed Bromfed cough syrup (this one IS covered by my ins), some capsules, and a nasal spray. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartlikealion Posted February 16, 2023 Author Share Posted February 16, 2023 I took all the meds. I also tried some wine to see if it would help me sleep. Propped my head up in bed. That was around 5 or so. Didn’t get much rest/relief if any, just took another shower with one of the Vicks shower menthol things. I feel like I’m just immune to everything. Like popping tic tacs. Funny story, woman at one pharmacy accidentally sent me to my car with the hand scanner in my bag. I heard it beep and brought it back. We all got a good chuckle. They were looking all over for it! Dd is sick. My dad is sick. Probably won’t drive to them. Might try the antibiotics as last resort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terabith Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 Did the doctor think it was a bacterial infection? You've been sick long enough that it might have invaded your sinuses or something. I'm not sure why you wouldn't take the antibiotics if it could reasonably be bacterial? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 1 minute ago, Terabith said: Did the doctor think it was a bacterial infection? You've been sick long enough that it might have invaded your sinuses or something. I'm not sure why you wouldn't take the antibiotics if it could reasonably be bacterial? Probably because it costs $65. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terabith Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 Just now, Scarlett said: Probably because it costs $65. Oh, yeah, that is a good reason. I missed that part. I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 @heartlikealion can you request a less expensive antibiotic? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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