Tanaqui Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 We're all so hooked on phonics here, so why do so many posters spell the word "frig" when they mean "fridge"? Fridge. Rhymes with bridge. Frig. Rhymes with brig. Originally a dialect word meaning "to rub" and, at least in some dialects, such as mine, means to rub a particular part of your body. It is, in a word, frigging weird to see it pop up over and over again on this forum. (And I always say "frigging" instead of "freaking" too.) I'm not sure if I want everybody to stop doing it or to just explain your reasoning or what, but the cognitive dissonance is getting to me. 8 2 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 could it be people using their phones more to post on the forum? I know my phone changes words all the time . it is so annoying 7 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 My iPhone’s autocorrect is bizarre at times. It even tells me that I spelt words wrongly when those words are easily found in dictionaries. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Lol I 100% have been biting my tongue since that post 🤣 frig to me sounds more like a word people substitute for another word in polite company 12 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AbcdeDooDah Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) Thank you! Can I add vaca to the list? I vote we just say vacation but if you must shorten it, please use vaycay. Edited July 16, 2021 by AbcdeDooDah 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noreen Claire Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 1 hour ago, Ausmumof3 said: I 100% have been biting my tongue since that post Can I ask, what post? I must have missed that one! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristin0713 Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Can I add coop? Drives me insane. It's co-op, not coop, unless referring to a chicken coop or being cooped up. 7 3 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 8 minutes ago, kristin0713 said: Can I add coop? Drives me insane. It's co-op, not coop, unless referring to a chicken coop or being cooped up. I saw a post on facebook that said chicken COUP! That made me laugh. 3 hours ago, Arcadia said: My iPhone’s autocorrect is bizarre at times. DH was at the store yesterday and was texting me with questions. I typed that we had "wheat" in the freezer and didn't notice that it autocorrected to weed. So, he got "We have weed in the freezer." And I've had some really awkward ones I sent to my kids. 😛 16 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbel Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) "Frig" for "fridge" has been used well before cell phones; it is not simply an autocorrect thing. I've seen hand-written signs and such using it. I also hate it, probably more than any other misspelling. I know in casual writing people let things slip. But as noted in the OP, "frig" has a completely different meaning/connotation unrelated to refrigeration. Edited July 16, 2021 by marbel 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 4 hours ago, Tanaqui said: We're all so hooked on phonics here, so why do so many posters spell the word "frig" when they mean "fridge"? Fridge. Rhymes with bridge. Frig. Rhymes with brig. Originally a dialect word meaning "to rub" and, at least in some dialects, such as mine, means to rub a particular part of your body. It is, in a word, frigging weird to see it pop up over and over again on this forum. (And I always say "frigging" instead of "freaking" too.) I'm not sure if I want everybody to stop doing it or to just explain your reasoning or what, but the cognitive dissonance is getting to me. I know I used it recently because I was in a big hurry and did not spell out the entire word….refrigerator. I annoyed myself by not spelling the entire word. It never crossed my mind the shortened word was incorrect. In my case Ii used it because I don’t normally shorten the word—I also had no idea frig was an actual word much less a vulgar one. So that is my explanation. I learn something new every day. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 37 minutes ago, Noreen Claire said: Can I ask, what post? I must have missed that one! Probably my post on the quote thread. The one where I said Those who feel they must always speak their mind fail to see silence as an alternative. 😉 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theelfqueen Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I think this may be regional. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 59 minutes ago, Scarlett said: Probably my post on the quote thread. The one where I said Those who feel they must always speak their mind fail to see silence as an alternative. 😉 lol… how ironic. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibiche Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, AbcdeDooDah said: Thank you! Can I add vaca to the list? I vote we just say vacation but if you must shorten it, please use vaycay. Yes, my first thought is always a cow! Every time. (although I’ve only ever seen it vacay otherwise) Edited July 16, 2021 by bibiche 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 @Scarlett, no worries, I know I spell it that way all the time. Re(frig)erator. That's why. It's not re(fridge)rator. But I don't want to offend, so I'll try to remember to spell it out from now on. 🙂 1 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 10 minutes ago, MercyA said: Re(frig)erator. That's why. It's not re(fridge)rator. Not all abbreviations are just the shortened word for the very reason that's the title of this thread. When I first quoted your post I had some in mind and now for the life of me can't remember any. 😂 2 hours ago, Kassia said: I saw a post on facebook that said chicken COUP! That made me laugh. Picturing the chickens staging a coup is hilarious! Two of the misspellings that bug me the most aren't phonics related. Both are based on the way people speak. I don't know if you'd call it mispronouncing the word/phrase as much as just lazy pronunciations that cause the misspellings. Prolly for probably is so annoying to me and makes my skin crawl. Could of, would of, should of don't make my skin crawl but do make me cringe a bit. I'm about to start a book called Because Internet: Understanding the New Rules of Language, and I hope it will help me to NOT get so irritated with evolving language. Language is humanity's most spectacular open-source project, and the internet is making our language change faster and in more interesting ways than ever before. Internet conversations are structured by the shape of our apps and platforms, from the grammar of status updates to the protocols of comments and @replies. Linguistically inventive online communities spread new slang and jargon with dizzying speed. What's more, social media is a vast laboratory of unedited, unfiltered words where we can watch language evolve in real time.Even the most absurd-looking slang has genuine patterns behind it. Internet linguist Gretchen McCulloch explores the deep forces that shape human language and influence the way we communicate with one another. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 15 minutes ago, Lady Florida. said: Not all abbreviations are just the shortened word for the very reason that's the title of this thread. Right, but that's all I've got. 😉 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EKS Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Yes--and apparently frig has it's own special meaning. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EKS Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) 39 minutes ago, Lady Florida. said: Not all abbreviations are just the shortened word for the very reason that's the title of this thread. When I first quoted your post I had some in mind and now for the life of me can't remember any. 😂 One that should have the spelling changed is veg--as in vegging out. Veg rhymes with leg. Since it actually rhymes with ledge, it should be spelled vedge, but does anyone do this? No! Edited July 16, 2021 by EKS 3 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 25 minutes ago, EKS said: One that should have the spelling changed is veg--as in vegging out. Veg rhymes with leg. Since it actually rhymes with ledge, it should be spelled vedge, but does anyone do this? No! Yes. And the real question now is veg a real word and is it vulgar. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanin Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I always misspell refrigerator for just this reason - I want it to be "fridge" but it's not. 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annandatje Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 9 hours ago, Tanaqui said: We're all so hooked on phonics here, so why do so many posters spell the word "frig" when they mean "fridge"? Such things bother me more than they should. I calm myself by remembering that the g when followed by i, e or y typically is a soft g (aka j sound). Re: shortening of dog breed names. Rottie for Rottweiler makes sense, but Sheltie for Shetland Sheepdog does NOT; it should be Shetlie, not Sheltie. I feel your pain 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in NH Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 DD did an online homeschool ornithology class this past year which was fabulous! Except the guest birder told the group of middle/high schoolers that the term GISS for "General Impression of Size and Shape" is actually spelled jizz. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farrar Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I'm with you, Tanaqui. I saw that recently and was like, um, obviously that's not how you spell fridge. I've never seen it as frig until I started seeing it here occasionally. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 And I'm looking at the title and thinking "bitten!" I've bitten my tongue enough. :) I'm the family grammar police, but I actually tend to give a lot of grace here. I just assume that our brains are working faster than our fingers. 😉 7 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 To much thinking. Yall should of prolly got over it bye now. 1 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I agree! "Frig" has a connotation here too - not exactly what the OP refers to, but in the same general region of the brain. 😛 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 6 hours ago, EKS said: Yes--and apparently frig has it's own special meaning. But does it? Hm. While I’ve heard others use the word frigging, I’ve not seen frig used. And if it was the g would be singular and only doubled when ‘ing’ was added. I caught a frog. I went frogging. An e behind a g marks the sound hard, like refrigerator. Alone it should be soft. But, I can understand abbreviation to a single g because folks want to not amaze the word as it was spelled in the original. But the Abigail should be Abi, not Abby or Abbie. (We have one.) English is a bizarre, complex, ever changing language. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EKS Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 25 minutes ago, BlsdMama said: But does it? Hm. While I’ve heard others use the word frigging, I’ve not seen frig used. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Frig is the F word. "I'm so friggen mad night now." 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Autocorrect changed my “sell” to “see” and I didn’t notice until I read my own post a second time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 21 hours ago, Slache said: Frig is the F word. "I'm so friggen mad night now." This is part of the entry from the OED showing the meaning I am familiar with 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 22 minutes ago, Laura Corin said: This is part of the entry from the OED showing the meaning I am familiar with I don't know how to feel about this. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 35 minutes ago, Slache said: I don't know how to feel about this. Why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 1 hour ago, Laura Corin said: Why? The poetry lines! Very strange. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 8 minutes ago, Slache said: The poetry lines! Very strange. Yes. Odd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanaqui Posted July 18, 2021 Author Share Posted July 18, 2021 They've got to get their citations from *somewhere*. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GracieJane Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 I never, ever correct spelling or grammar on forums because I think it’s tasteless, but…if I read “loose” one more time (“I keep loosing my keys”, “I can never loose weight”, etc.), I will loose my faith in humanity. 3 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theelfqueen Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 I decided years ago to embrace the loosing... (which by the way, my phone autocorrects, as I just discovered) and think of it in the "setting something free" sense of the literal verb form of the word loose. I'm setting this weight free sounds pretty great. I let my keys be free. I kind of dig it and smirk when I see it now. 1 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlowRiver Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 People are more inclined to make errors when shortening longer words IME, they aren't thinking about phonics but just the word as a shortened form. But I also find typing is different than real writing. I fairly regularly use the wrong "their" when typing in a forum type format.But I know how to use them properly and I never do it when using a pen or pencil to write. I'd not like frig for refrigerator though, I'd tend to read it as referring to sex, which isn't just a substitute for the f-word, it's a real word of it's own from old English. But I wouldn't tend to get hot under the collar about it in a personal way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessieC Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 (edited) I hear you. The g needs the e in order to make the soft sound. And the d keeps the vowel a short I rather than a long i. "Loosing" vs. "losing" drives me crazy! Edited July 18, 2021 by JessieC 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not_a_Number Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 On 7/16/2021 at 1:39 PM, Junie said: And I'm looking at the title and thinking "bitten!" I've bitten my tongue enough. 🙂 I'm the family grammar police, but I actually tend to give a lot of grace here. I just assume that our brains are working faster than our fingers. 😉 Hahahah, I've actually been thinking this ever since I saw this thread!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 On 7/16/2021 at 12:39 PM, Junie said: And I'm looking at the title and thinking "bitten!" I've bitten my tongue enough. 🙂 I'm the family grammar police, but I actually tend to give a lot of grace here. I just assume that our brains are working faster than our fingers. 😉 15 minutes ago, Not_a_Number said: Hahahah, I've actually been thinking this ever since I saw this thread!! Well you know the rule. The person who complains about someone else’s grammar, word usage or sentence structure will definitely make an error in said complaint. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not_a_Number Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 2 minutes ago, Scarlett said: Well you know the rule. The person who complains about someone else’s grammar, word usage or sentence structure will definitely make an error in said complaint. Hmmm, applying this recursively, I should have an error in my complaint... 🤔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 18, 2021 Share Posted July 18, 2021 Just now, Not_a_Number said: Hmmm, applying this recursively, I should have an error in my complaint... 🤔 It only applies to initial complaint. Not the follow ups or piling on. 🤷🏻♀️ I don’t make the rules. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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