WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Ds19 just went through a major stress event (broke up with cheating gf of 3.5 yrs) and his blood sugar went crazy. He’s a T1D. He is being admitted to ICU tonite in DKA. He needs prayers like crazy, for mental and physical health. Please pray! 46 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Oh no!!! I will pray and pray! 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jean in Newcastle Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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scholastica Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying! I am so sorry for all he is going through. And you, too! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying for your ds. Are you able to be with him? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Prayers for your ds, for his health and recovery. ((((Hugs)))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Oh no. I am so sorry for everything that he is going through, poor guy. I am sending all my good thoughts and prayers his way. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Sending good thoughts for quick recovery and healing, both physically and emotionally, to your son. And what a stressful time for you and the rest of your family. You are all in my thoughts. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 Once they get him actually into an ICU bed, dh and I will leave. We’re still in an ER bed because hospital is packed. Ds is feeling better, thank god. Doctor says he thinks it will take him only about 12 hours to get out of DKA, so we’re praying he may go home tomorrow afternoon or Friday. This has been the week from hell for him. 27 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 I'm so glad he's feeling better. Holding him in my thoughts. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Sending good thoughts that he will recover quickly and soon be home. Regards, Kareni 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Sending positive thoughts 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Thank you for the update. I hope he will be back home soon! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pen Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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fraidycat Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 I hope he turns around quickly. What a terrible thing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying for your son and you. I'm so sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditto Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 How is he doing now? I'm praying for him. Poor guy is going through hell and to deal with this on top of it is just extra awful. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 1 hour ago, Ditto said: How is he doing now? I'm praying for him. Poor guy is going through hell and to deal with this on top of it is just extra awful. I hope he gets to go back home today. I feel so sad for his that his long term girlfriend turned out to be such a cheating rat. It’s just heartbreaking. 😢 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying. Breakups are just awful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 I'm so sorry. Praying that he's getting back on track physically already, and for emotional healing long term. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 (edited) We’re still here in ICU, but he should be able to go home tomorrow. Please keep praying. Edited July 1, 2021 by WildflowerMom 5 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 (edited) I will keep praying! You don’t have to answer this, but it sounds like she was cheating on him with his friend/roommate? Ugh! I hope that’s not the case, because that would be magnitudes worse. 😞 The most important thing right now is getting him well enough to get home from the hospital. And in the end, it’s better that he saw his now-ex-girlfriend for who she really is, before they got engaged or married. And if his friend is a lying weasel who would do something awful to him, well... it’s better to know that, too. But that doesn’t make it any less heartbreaking for your poor son. Will he be moving back home with you, so you can help him get through this? Edited July 1, 2021 by Catwoman Forgot something! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 Yes, dh took the day off earlier this week and we moved ds’ stuff into storage and he is home with us for now (hopefully a long time, but who knows). And there’s more than just the one, iykwim… I’m going to edit my earlier post so please don’t quote, but yes, it’s mind-boggling. but hey, at least he knows and is away from that toxic crap. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 (edited) 48 minutes ago, WildflowerMom said: We’re still here in ICU, but he should be able to go home tomorrow. Please keep praying. Edited… Dang. Well I messed that quote up. 🤦🏻♀️ Edited July 1, 2021 by WildflowerMom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 (edited) I’m so glad he moved back home!!! And maybe in the end, it will be better that it was “more than one,” because that reflects completely on her and the type of person she is, and not on your son. It would be worse if there was a new “true love,” because then your son might be wondering what he did wrong and what made someone else more appealing to her than him. If she has been with multiple other guys, it means she is just a cheating jerk, and it there was probably nothing your son did to cause it, and nothing he could have done to prevent it. And he needs to keep reminding himself of that! Edited to add — I can delete this post any time you want me to! Edited July 1, 2021 by Catwoman 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Sending positive thoughts out to your DS! ((Hugs)) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Thoughts and prayers with you guys. Poor guy, that is terrible. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 I'm sending positive thoughts, too and am sorry he's suffering physically and emotionally. Betrayal is hard to get through. 😞 And you never want to see your child heartbroken. Hope he improves and can go home tomorrow. Hugs to both of you. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Praying for continued improvement and well-being! I'm so sorry he is having to face that! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 Thanks y’all! Yes, cat, I totally agree. He knows it wasn’t anything to do with him. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
popmom Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 I'm praying. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditto Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 2 hours ago, WildflowerMom said: Thanks y’all! Yes, cat, I totally agree. He knows it wasn’t anything to do with him. Even though he knows it doesn't have anything to do with him, it still hurts like hell (which I know you know). I'm glad he moved back home where he can get the extra love and support he very much needs right now. My heart just hurts for him. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditto Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 @Catwoman. I don't want to quote you in case she wants you to delete later, but I agree with you. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 1, 2021 Author Share Posted July 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Ditto said: Even though he knows it doesn't have anything to do with him, it still hurts like hell (which I know you know). I'm glad he moved back home where he can get the extra love and support he very much needs right now. My heart just hurts for him. Ours too. It’s been a whirlwind of emotions for all of us this week. Sad, anger, fear when the DKA hit. Ds had just started lamictal for BP and they didn’t give him his dose last night, so now he’s really on edge. They are giving it to him tonite, thankfully. There was a med reason they didn’t give it last night with everything else going on. I’m hoping we can get home tomorrow and rest. We’re setting his room back up for now and I hope he’ll stay a while. We put everything in storage this week because he was bound and determined to find another apartment but I think he’s realizing he needs to recover from everything. He is *very* anti-drama and this week has been anything but that! 3 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alicia64 Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 Sending positive thoughts! I'm so, so sorry. And I agree w/ everyone: better to find out now rather than later. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resilient Posted July 1, 2021 Share Posted July 1, 2021 6 hours ago, WildflowerMom said: We’re still here in ICU, but he should be able to go home tomorrow. Please keep praying. Have been, will do. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted July 2, 2021 Author Share Posted July 2, 2021 He is headed HOME! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 blood work, everything is perfect! thank y’all for the prayers! 💛 39 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted July 2, 2021 Share Posted July 2, 2021 So happy for all of you! Thanks for letting us know. Hope he feels back to normal physically soon and starts healing emotionally as well. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BusyMom5 Posted July 2, 2021 Share Posted July 2, 2021 Glad he is headed home 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 2, 2021 Share Posted July 2, 2021 YAY!!! Thank you for the update!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted July 2, 2021 Share Posted July 2, 2021 Glad to see this. Hugs to all of you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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