DawnM Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 can you please pray for me? My anxiety is through the roof right now. I am making careless mistakes at work, very angry at someone I thought I could trust who has betrayed my trust, and just need court to be over and for the judgement to be in favor of this child. I am having to take something to help me sleep right now, and am struggling to do much more than drive through meals and no housekeeping, although I have told the boys I will pay them to clean and I hope they will take me up on some of it. The child is not the stress nor is my dad moving in, it really isn't. It is court, threats from the birthmom that no one seems to take seriously or care about, and my own stupidity for believing people say what they actually mean. This is not good. 5 41 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Oh sending some hugs and some prayers. I am sorry you are going through so much right now. I hope that things get resolved in the courts soon. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippymamato3 Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 The period of time right before adoption is the very worst. If you're still waiting for TPR, it's even harder. I will hold you in my prayers. We've been through it and it's awful. Hugs to you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeppermintPattie Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for peace and the right resolution. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 I will pray right now for peace, protection, and that God will provide all that you (and the child) need at this time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 ((((((Dawn)))))) I am so sorry you have to go through this stress. I have friends IRL who have been through it and it is brutal. I feel sure it will work out and hopefully birth mom is far enough away that she is not a physical danger to your child. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 I'm praying for you and your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LinRTX Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Holding you in my thoughts. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for you and sending hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 ((Dawn)) Praying for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Prayers for you Dawn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AStableBeginning Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for you ❤️ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 I am praying for you, your family, that the whole process really goes for this child properly, and that it is quickly resolved in your favor. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
***** Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 You are in my thoughts and prayers, hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kbutton Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for you right now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scholastica Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for all of you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 (((Dawn))) I’m so sorry. I can relate to the anxiety at play, to a point. I’m pulling for the right outcome for all of you! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Familia Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 ((Dawn)) Blessings! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Definitely praying for you. Right there with you. Keep breathing. Keep busy. (((Dawn))) 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Sending positive thoughts to you, Dawn, and to anyone else in need. Regards, Kareni 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Just prayed 🙂 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Will definitely pray for you. When my anxiety was thru the roof dealing w dh’s sister, Xanax truly made a huge difference. It was a tiny dose and all it did was take the edge off. I was able to function way better- no mistakes and no anger, but I was still able to fully focus on advocating and getting things done. It was amazing stuff. Haven’t needed it even once after that situation was resolved. Not saying you need something, but do know that for some folks it makes a huge difference. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corbster98 Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 25 minutes ago, Annie G said: Will definitely pray for you. When my anxiety was thru the roof dealing w dh’s sister, Xanax truly made a huge difference. It was a tiny dose and all it did was take the edge off. I was able to function way better- no mistakes and no anger, but I was still able to fully focus on advocating and getting things done. It was amazing stuff. Haven’t needed it even once after that situation was resolved. Not saying you need something, but do know that for some folks it makes a huge difference. Agree completely on the small dose of Xanax. I have had to rely on it at different times of crisis in my adult life when my just ' normal' anxiety went off the charts. The small dose helped me to feel more calm, sleep better, and I could think more clearly without feeling completely overwhelmed. It also minimized the physical symptoms I was experiencing that resulted from the anxiety. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 It is so hard.....you feel all of the responsibility....but have none of the power to make any decisions. 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excelsior! Academy Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Praying for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 7 hours ago, Seasider too said: Praying that the right people will have their eyes opened, take necessary action and render righteous judgment. And that you will feel the Lord’s presence and peace. This! Praying now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Much prayers for you during this time. Praying for peace, calm and comfort. Much hugs ((()))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
popmom Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Praying. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Sending positive thoughts 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 25, 2021 Author Share Posted March 25, 2021 And.....I found out that this Tuesday's court is NOT the end. This is just another stepping stone. It is a hearing and after that they will set a trial date, which could be 3-6 months out. 6 more months of what I thought was over, specifically phone calls that stress all of us out. 15 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheReader Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 (((hugs & prayers, Dawn)))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Sending hugs. You're doing a good thing; I'm sorry the process is so stressful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 2 hours ago, DawnM said: And.....I found out that this Tuesday's court is NOT the end. This is just another stepping stone. It is a hearing and after that they will set a trial date, which could be 3-6 months out. 6 more months of what I thought was over, specifically phone calls that stress all of us out. Can you request no contact? We had visits stopped when the termination petition was filed. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
readinmom Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Dawn, praying for you...peace and strength. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 3 hours ago, Ottakee said: Can you request no contact? We had visits stopped when the termination petition was filed. Agree. Death threats are a reason to request protections for this child and for you. A friend of mine did get a step down in visits once termination trial set--they went from weekly to monthly. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 25, 2021 Author Share Posted March 25, 2021 4 hours ago, Ottakee said: Can you request no contact? We had visits stopped when the termination petition was filed. I have. SEVERAL times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 2 hours ago, DawnM said: I have. SEVERAL times. Maybe again, in writing, again....uggg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 25, 2021 Author Share Posted March 25, 2021 6 minutes ago, Ottakee said: Maybe again, in writing, again....uggg I documented every little thing and sent it to DSS and to the lawyer. They still didn't stop them. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Oh no, I am so sorry. Sending you peaceful good thoughts as you get through this process. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
73349 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Many hugs to you! And a question: If someone is making threats, that should be illegal--would a restraining order outweigh a custody ruling? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 1 hour ago, DawnM said: I documented every little thing and sent it to DSS and to the lawyer. They still didn't stop them. Have you sent it directly to the judge? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 Can a child psychologist strongly recommend a temporary halt to contact. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 26, 2021 Author Share Posted March 26, 2021 6 hours ago, Carolina Wren said: Many hugs to you! And a question: If someone is making threats, that should be illegal--would a restraining order outweigh a custody ruling? Nope. I am told it is darn near impossible to get a restraining order served to her in another state. If she isn't served, it is not valid. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 26, 2021 Author Share Posted March 26, 2021 4 hours ago, Melissa in Australia said: Can a child psychologist strongly recommend a temporary halt to contact. No one will get involved. I asked the therapist he has and she said she isn't allowed to get involved in legal matters. None of them want to show up to court, etc... 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 26, 2021 Author Share Posted March 26, 2021 6 hours ago, Ottakee said: Have you sent it directly to the judge? It was in the court documents sent to her. She said that unless I can prove he is suffering some extreme damage from the calls, they have to continue. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 2 minutes ago, DawnM said: No one will get involved. I asked the therapist he has and she said she isn't allowed to get involved in legal matters. None of them want to show up to court, etc... that is so disappointing. it adds so much distress when nobody will stand up for you 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted March 26, 2021 Author Share Posted March 26, 2021 2 hours ago, Melissa in Australia said: that is so disappointing. it adds so much distress when nobody will stand up for you I am told it is very hard to find any therapists who will get involved unless you pay someone privately. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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