Earthmerlin Posted January 20, 2021 Posted January 20, 2021 Howdy. My child is a 6th grader who started hating math in 3rd. She’s come some ways in both attitude & computation but still struggles. I’ve noticed that while she applies algorithms correctly, she nonetheless makes errors in computation. For example 6/6 = 6. Once she goes back (I point out the error) she knows immediately the issue. How do you get an 11 year old kid to slow down, pay attention to detail, & review work? I feel like I’ve been at this forever. Thanks! Quote
Not_a_Number Posted January 20, 2021 Posted January 20, 2021 33 minutes ago, Earthmerlin said: Howdy. My child is a 6th grader who started hating math in 3rd. She’s come some ways in both attitude & computation but still struggles. I’ve noticed that while she applies algorithms correctly, she nonetheless makes errors in computation. For example 6/6 = 6. Once she goes back (I point out the error) she knows immediately the issue. How do you get an 11 year old kid to slow down, pay attention to detail, & review work? I feel like I’ve been at this forever. Thanks! Well, I'd say your bigger problem is that she hates math -- that's probably what's making her sloppy. Do you know why that is? Quote
Earthmerlin Posted January 20, 2021 Author Posted January 20, 2021 2 hours ago, Not_a_Number said: Well, I'd say your bigger problem is that she hates math -- that's probably what's making her sloppy. Do you know why that is? It started with timed tests in 3rd grade in b&m school. 1 Quote
Not_a_Number Posted January 20, 2021 Posted January 20, 2021 1 minute ago, Earthmerlin said: It started with timed tests in 3rd grade in b&m school. Ah yeah, those can be stressful 😞 . She's homeschooled now? Is she enjoying math at all or no? Does she find concepts easy or hard? Quote
prairiewindmomma Posted January 21, 2021 Posted January 21, 2021 Any chance she has inattention issues elsewhere in her life? ADHD in girls looks very different than it does in boys... https://childmind.org/article/how-to-tell-if-your-daughter-has-adhd/?_gl=1*gg2vvp*_ga*NURfVWt0bFN5VEZ4QXE0Mjl2UVhsNnAxcG13YTVicDY4VmJtVGo0OGJuYmdVSEo4TGhyVTBIV1BoaW9FcnB6NQ.. 2 Quote
Porridge Posted January 21, 2021 Posted January 21, 2021 My DS10 is very similar. He grasps math concepts very quickly, but gets very bogged down in computational errors. The result is that if he were to take a test, he might get half the problems wrong, even though he knows how to think about the problem. DS was recently diagnosed with moderate - severe ADHD. It was like a lightbulb for me. He hates math because he thinks he isn’t good at it, but he’s actually quite math-minded, just inattentive and therefore inaccurate. When he was assessed, the psychologist advised me to just let him use a calculator (DS also has pretty bad dysgraphia). DH and I feel it’s still too early for the calculator, but I have that option in the back of my mind for later. For now, here are some things that help us— - graph paper for scratch paper - coach him to write out his thought process - sometimes I scribe for him -for me — try to be really patient and really encouraging (I fail a lot, but I still try!) — this helps him feel more confident and more willing to work / try. 1 Quote
Momto6inIN Posted January 21, 2021 Posted January 21, 2021 My 2nd DS was like this, as is my DD who is currently 12. They understand conceptually, and can easily find the mistake when shown the missed problem, but they make soooo many careless errors. DS grew out of it, and that gives me hope that DD will too. Sometimes it just takes maturity. 1 Quote
LinRTX Posted January 21, 2021 Posted January 21, 2021 Well, my reply will not be popular, Once I knew the child could do the computations accurately with confidence, I required them to check their work before giving it to me. And if there were more than 2-3 careless errors, I just handed the work back without telling them where the error was. I was trying to develop good work habits. My youngest did not like math at all; she is currently in the middle of her junior year at college as a math major with a 4.0 gpa. It did not kill her love for math or hurt her at all. 4 1 Quote
Momto6inIN Posted January 23, 2021 Posted January 23, 2021 I make my kids correct their mistakes too. How else will they learn? But I think maturity has more to do with them overcoming the careless errors than me making them correct them does. 1 Quote
cougarmom4 Posted January 23, 2021 Posted January 23, 2021 (edited) Sometimes I assign just part of the problems and tell my dd if she gets them all correct, she doesn’t need to do the others. It motivates her to be more careful. Another idea is to give him a few completed problems with intentional errors and have him find the mistakes and correct them. This is kind of an outside the box way to see if they truly understand how to solve the problem but also trains them to correct their work. My dd likes it if I say she’s the teacher and even give her a red pen. Edited January 23, 2021 by cougarmom4 2 Quote
mathmarm Posted January 23, 2021 Posted January 23, 2021 On 1/20/2021 at 12:08 PM, Earthmerlin said: Howdy. My child is a 6th grader who started hating math in 3rd. She’s come some ways in both attitude & computation but still struggles. I’ve noticed that while she applies algorithms correctly, she nonetheless makes errors in computation. For example 6/6 = 6. Once she goes back (I point out the error) she knows immediately the issue. How do you get an 11 year old kid to slow down, pay attention to detail, & review work? I feel like I’ve been at this forever. Thanks! My fix for this has been to require that they check their work before they turn it in to me. For a couple of weeks, I would half the number of problems that I'm assigning daily and require that she compute each problem twice in order to neatly check her work. So, if a 6th grader has computed 34.15 - 17.08 = 17.07, then the they must also compute 17.08 + 17.07 = 34.15 in order to verify their own answer. During this phase, require all math steps to be written out logically and neatly, so if they just hand in a math paper and no "regrouping" is shown, hand it back. They need to actually verify their work. Not just write each number "where it should go". After a couple of weeks, go back up to 3/4 of their normal daily exercise set with them checking each problem. After a month or so, you should be able to go back to doing a complete lesson and they need to actually check any problem that they have doubt about as they are going. When they pass in a math lesson to you for verification, any problems that are wrong must be re-worked and verified by them. 2 Quote
Earthmerlin Posted January 23, 2021 Author Posted January 23, 2021 On 1/20/2021 at 8:03 PM, prairiewindmomma said: Any chance she has inattention issues elsewhere in her life? ADHD in girls looks very different than it does in boys... https://childmind.org/article/how-to-tell-if-your-daughter-has-adhd/?_gl=1*gg2vvp*_ga*NURfVWt0bFN5VEZ4QXE0Mjl2UVhsNnAxcG13YTVicDY4VmJtVGo0OGJuYmdVSEo4TGhyVTBIV1BoaW9FcnB6NQ.. I’d say no. I think it’s like others said—not liking something & so rushing through it to get it over. Quote
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