mommyoffive Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I feel like I haven't moved very much in my life. How many times have you moved? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Moved from childhood home to marital home. Relocate from Asia to USA. Moved from temporary rental arranged by HR to another rental. Moved from rental to current home. So four times with three times being within a year of relocating to USA. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 My family moved a lot when I was growing up, and we were technically homeless for several months in the 80s (tent camped in a friend's backyard and then lived in a travel trailer in a couple of campgrounds/low rent trailer parks). Counting everywhere we lived more than 4ish months, I count 12 places from birth - age 18. I had one house before I was married. DH does not like to move; we've had three places. So 16 total, although I am almost sure I am missing at least a couple of places from my childhood. Every place has been within the same county. I did not count school dorms or apartments) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Well if you count short college related jaunts, many times. I also moved several times as a single young adult living alone. 15+. But I've been in the same place for the past 16+ years. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheReader Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) Oh my gosh. So.Very.Many. Before being married -- apartment from birth to age 2 house from age 2 to 4th grade apartment for 6 months of 5th grade house for 5th/6th grade different house for 7th/8th grade different house for 8th/10th-ish grade different house for 10th/11th grade different house for 12th grade/while "home" from college (I won't count college dorms as "moving") So, from birth to college: 7 moves/8 different homes DH and I married shortly after my graduation from college, and our moves are as follows: garage apartment for 1 yr married student housing for 1 yr 2-bedroom apartment for I think 18 months-ish 3 bedroom apartment for 3-ish years rental house for 6 months 1st house we bought, for about a year-ish rental house for about 3-ish years moved to Brazil; hotel for 1 month, apartment for 2-ish/3-ish years rental house in Brazil for a year other rental house in Brazil for the rest of the time there (2-ish years?) moved back to US; lived in a relative's vacant-but-furnished home for 6-ish months moved into our current house (2nd house we've owned) approx. 6 yrs ago So, from college to now: 11 moves (not counting the hotel)/12 homes (not counting the hotel) So....all total....18 moves in (almost) 45 yrs.......we are hopeful this house will be our "forever" house (it has beaten the record for "longest time in one house" by nearly double, if counting only the places DH/I have lived as a couple....)(heck, even going through my childhood, the longest I've lived in one spot was the age 2 to age 10/4th grade house.....) If we add in college dorms: freshman dorm, sophomore dorm, junior dorm A, junior dorm B, senior dorm -- 4 more moves/5 more "homes", but as those are temp/not full "moves" really, I didn't count them Edited September 17, 2020 by TheReader Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I just counted 28 times from the time my memory begins which is when I was 4 1/2 and my brother was born. I bet there was another half dozen at least before then. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Once as a child A couple times during college (dorm, apartment) Five times as young newlyweds Then we moved here and have been here for 23 years So 9 times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loowit Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 When I was born my parents lived in two rentals before buying a home right after my 3rd birthday. I lived there until I got married. DH and I have had two apartments and one rental house before buying our first home. We lived there for almost 15 years, and just moved to a new home two years ago. We plan to sell this house eventually for a smaller one, but I hate moving so the next one will hopefully be the final move. So I guess added up it would be 8 times. All of the moves have been pretty much in the same geographical area. I live 20 miles from where I grew up and DH lives about 5 miles from where he grew up. I don't really count living in a college dorm, which I did twice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rebcoola Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I think pretty little while I've had a couple of houses or apartments in each place I've only lived in 4 cities. Plus some temp housing buy work so 10 total moves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Five times Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 We moved about every two years when I was growing up (long story). I went to four elementary schools (plus a couple of moves before I was school age), three junior highs, four high schools, in four states. Three times during my first marriage. Twice as a single. Three times the first three years in my second marriage; then we bought a house, 10 mos there; 8 years in the second house; 17 years in the third house; here since 2004. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Thirteen Four since I was married. Nine in my family of origin. From short local moves to interstate moves, my pastor dad dragged us all over the Southeast. I want to be buried here on the farm. They can carry me out feet first. I was so over moving when I got married. We rented a few places and the first place we bought is where we stayed. Here we are 19 years later. No plans to leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Somewhere between 25 and 40 depending on how long a residence has to be to count as a move. If I live in one place for a month and have no other residence during that time (i.e. in a new state and in a temporary rental while looking for a more permanent home) is that a move? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I do count my college apartments as moves, I had no other home when I was in college--my parents were not even in the same country and didn't keep a room for me or anything at home. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 In my childhood I moved twice--once at 6 months, once at 6 years. Adulthood--oh, my!--I will just count college as one, then I was abroad my junior year. After college-family home, 2 group houses, studio apartment, then overseas fr 3 years. After overseas--one apartment until I got married and moved to Canada with dh for grad school. In Canada--2 basement apartments, one rental house, one bought townhouse. Back in the states--with MIL, then our present house where we have been for 12 years. So, grand total:16 times. I think I was better off not counting. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HS Mom in NC Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I'm 47.Total: 6 In the east Valley of PHX: 5 In childhood home: 20 years In 1st marital home where oldest was born: 3 years In in-laws home while new house was being built: 4 months In home where middle was born: 5 years In home where youngest came to us: 14 years In transition rental home before the big move: 3 years In the greater RDU area: 1 Dream(ish) home where we live now: 2 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheReader Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 3 minutes ago, maize said: Somewhere between 25 and 40 depending on how long a residence has to be to count as a move. If I live in one place for a month and have no other residence during that time (i.e. in a new state and in a temporary rental while looking for a more permanent home) is that a move? See, I would count the hotel/temp rental. I like your definition "if I had no other residence during that time". 1 minute ago, maize said: I do count my college apartments as moves, I had no other home when I was in college--my parents were not even in the same country and didn't keep a room for me or anything at home. ...and so going with the above definition, for you, those count, for me, they wouldn't. That makes sense. (well, my mom didn't keep a room for me, but did erect a temp wall in the dining room and a curtain, as my stepbrother moved into my actual room, but still....I did have a bed there and someplace to stay on college breaks) Based on the same reasoning, I also won't count the apartment/church in NYC where I spent a summer doing church work during college; my "home" was still back with my mom. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I stopped counting. I think the last house was 36, so this must be the 37th address? Military family growing up. Then I moved houses and apartments a lot during college and young adulthood. But only 2 homes in the last 20 years. Addresses span up and down the east coast and the SW. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lecka Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Ten times to a totally different location. Twelve times including moving within the same town. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jentrovert Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Five times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 16. Twelve were in our first 11 years of marriage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Three times? (not counting college dorms) Childhood home Post-college apartment First house Current house Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Quite a few! I attended fifteen schools between kindergarten and twelfth grades so that probably meant an equal number of moves. I'll guess four moves prior to my school years. College was the first time I'd spent four years in one location (but two dorms). In graduate school, I lived first in the graduate center and then in an apartment. First fifteen years of marriage, four addresses in one city. Since then, one location. So, a conservative guess is 28 moves. Regards, Kareni 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted September 17, 2020 Author Share Posted September 17, 2020 I think my lived in apartment when I was born. Then we moved to a town house when I was young. Lived there until I went to college and lived in dorms. Came home after college. Dh and I married moved to a 2 month rental. Then to an apartment for a little over a year. Then to our current home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgo95 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 25 moves: 5 in childhood, 20 in adulthood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) Age 1, my folks moved from a tiny house to a small house. Age 12, my folks moved from small house to bigger house. Age 21, moved to campus for grad school. (Does this count?) Age 23, moved from campus to tiny apartment (near campus / still a student). Age 25, moved from tiny apartment to regular apartment. Age 28, moved from apartment to house. Still here 25+ years later. Edited September 17, 2020 by SKL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweet2ndchance Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 5 moves from birth to 18yo, three of those were moving from one state to another. First marriage: moved to 5 different houses at his first duty station in 4 years (long story) Moved overseas, lived on one house the entire 4 years we were overseas Moved back to the states, lived with FIL temporarily (like 6 mos I think) before getting our own house. Moved to another state and divorced, the children and I stayed in the marital home Second marriage: lived in the same house for another year then moved to a temporary house before moving into this house. Temporarily moved to a city 2 hours away while I was finishing my degree then moved back to this house. I think all total that's 15 moves across 6 states and 2 continents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lawyer&Mom Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 19. I thought it would be higher. I’m sure I’m forgetting somewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 My parents bought my childhood home when I was a year old, and sold it when I was 23. I’m not sure what other people count as “moving”, but I lived in two different dorm rooms and a private apartment as an older teen, then back home for a bit. Had an apartment with ds’s father for about a year and a half, then back home for a bit, again. Dh and I were in one apartment for about two years, another apartment for about two years, and have been in our house for 15 years. I’m not sure how many times that means. 4? 10? Maybe something in between? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Adding, two of my kids have never moved. My daughters don’t remember moving. My oldest has had 5 homes with me but doesn’t remember most of them and at least 7 homes with his father and probably remembers more than half of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katilac Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 6 without counting college dorm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Two as a child, same state. Two for college, same state. 8 states and provinces as an adult (many moves within some of those, like different apartments, houses, etc). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Oh gracious, not even sure I can count. I will measure in different states and countries rather than local moves, even if they are to different areas of the same location. These are the big ones Born in Michigan Moved to Kenya at 9 months old Moved to Indiana at 7 years old Moved back to Kenya at 8 Moved back to Indiana at 12 Moved to Liberia at 13 Moved back to Kenya at 14 Moved to Washington at 18 Moved to California at 22 Moved to North Carolina at 40 Within those areas, I had several smaller moves, and there were some 6 month moves in there as well that I am not even bothering with. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lori D. Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) Not a lot of moves here, either. I have always have lived in the same city, and have lived in a total of 7 different houses -- 3 of which were room renting situations when I was a young adult going to the university (in my home town) and had moved out of my parents' home. Edited September 17, 2020 by Lori D. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 4 childhood homes plus one temporary home while a house was being built, so 5 locations (4 moves) as a minor. Not including college dorms. Off-campus apartment for last 3 years of college. Townhouse and then a carriage house before marriage. Apartment and then two houses while married. So, 10 moves total. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsMommy Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Six, not including college moves. Once as a child (I barely remember it), and five times as an adult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terabith Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Not counting college, 8 times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootAnn Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Not many. Not counting college, 5. I don't remember our first childhood house that we moved from when I was 3. Lived in the same house until college. Post college, I've lived in 3 states, 3 houses. This is the longest I've ever lived anywhere- 17 years. And I'm ready to move but no one else in my family is. So here I stay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kidlit Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Six times, not counting the two times in childhood that we moved back into the home we owned in our home state after my dad was transferred out of state for work. (We always came back home, and I now live with my family in the city I moved to with my family of origin to when I was 3.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I think it's 22 times. Three continents, six countries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2scouts Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I think only 6 for my entire life and only in three different communities within 50 miles of each other. When I was very young, I moved to another house from a rural part of a community to a house in town. When my parents divorced, we moved to a duplex in another city for a couple of years and then to a house in the same area. We stayed there through high school. I got married in college and we lived in a small apartment for the first several months and then moved to a house in the same city. We stayed there 13 years and then moved within that same city to this house where we've lived for 22 years. I have friends who've moved 19 times in the 45 years they've been married. I can't even imagine moving that often. Like Carrie, some of my kids have never moved in their life. One of those kids wants to join the military, so I guess he'll get his share of moving. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 What counts as a move? If I move to another country for two years and then back to the apt that I kept, is that two moves? What if it's one year? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom23Boys Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) 19, not counting the dorm in college I lived in 11 houses before I was 9 I’ve only lived in 3 different cities though: my current one ~ 39 of my 41 years 2 others ~ one year each Edited September 17, 2020 by Mom23Boys Typo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WendyLady Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 Too many! 12 different big moves to different states and 4 smaller college or cross-town moves. I think we will move again next summer. I moved just one time in my childhood but my husband is in the military and our kids have moved too many times... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 1. Sacramento, CA home I lived in from birth to age three 2. Ledyard, CT home from age three until I turned 7. 3. Apartment in Marietta, Ga until I turned 18 4. Lived in the house my parents bought for a year until I got married. 5. First apartment 6. second apartment 7. Rental house 8. First house I bought as married person 9. Rental house in IL when dh took a new job 10. Dh took a different job and we moved to northern IL, where we lived for 25 years. 11. Current house, in Georgia, where we moved after dh retired. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sneezyone Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) I've moved 13 times to eight states and one foreign country. Nine of those were military-related. That doesn't count moves within the same community distance. Edited September 17, 2020 by Sneezyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farrar Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 12 in all, including college as a single move. Including the year I lived abroad and then came back to the same place. Not including the summer I lived in Seattle during college. I've been in the same house for 20 years. Just watching it appreciate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arctic Bunny Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 16, 12 of them with DH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 8 moves: 1st home 2nd home 1st apartment 1st home 2nd apartment 1st home 3rd apartment 1st home 3rd home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 19 moves, all before having the dc. I expect to have a few more moves once we retire. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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