Laurel-in-CA Posted October 21, 2020 Author Share Posted October 21, 2020 DH is still looking....anything local with benefits, anything in his field / skill set / market experience anywhere in the US. I have a contract for 80 hours of writing...starting some market research for a competitive report and red team editing on a proposal, hoping for a LOT more from this company once that is done. Sending out some p/t remote writing job applications. Unemployed dd had a tooth/root canal abcess and is going to need a new crown, but the antibiotic worked so we can put it off for awhile. Little things keep us going, but I have a real estate agent coming Friday to evaluate house for sale, hoping not to do that until March so youngest can finish her senior year @ CC for free. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted October 21, 2020 Share Posted October 21, 2020 Praying for you & your family. Being prepared and/or ready to sell is a wise step but I hope you’re able to avoid selling & moving. We had to move 2000 miles when my dh was laid off. It was tough (and I was expecting child #4)but his job offer came through after we sold our house and we were thankful that we could move quickly to accept the job offer. Ten years later and he’s at that same job and we are doing well. Praying many blessings and a job offer for your dh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted October 21, 2020 Share Posted October 21, 2020 I hope something great comes your husband’s way soon and that your writing contracts will continue to increase. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted October 21, 2020 Share Posted October 21, 2020 Sending good thoughts your way. Nothing but positive thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted October 21, 2020 Share Posted October 21, 2020 Hoping you find something soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted October 21, 2020 Share Posted October 21, 2020 Best wishes to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 9, 2020 Author Share Posted November 9, 2020 I do appreciate the thoughts and good wishes from everyone and the company suggestions, etc. DH has gotten some mentoring in making better use of LinkedIn and this has led to some new possibilities. He should be having a 3rd interview for a job in the Silicon Valley area, was contacted about a possibility in Phoenix, and got in touch with a former manager which has led to a job possibility that would be working from home w/some travel. That's the one we're wishing on....he should be able to talk to the guy in person early next week. I've held up pretty well, I think, and I clocked nearly 30 hours of work last week, but I am anticipating the holidays will mean pretty much zero income. And with that and all the possibilities that have evaporated over the past months, plus the argument I had with my oldest over "who's a racist" and "chant the slogan" (which I do not do), I have had a very rough day. I have to be back in the saddle tomorrow for a proposal review and team meeting, so I've just got to get over this and get on with it. DH and I really seem to be on a seesaw - he's up, I'm down and vice versa. Ahhhhhhh....waiting for breakthrough is hard!! 8 2 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 Just seeing your update and it sounds like such a roller-coaster. Sorry about the bad day and arguement. I wish there was a ((hugs)) button too because that is obviously what you need. I hope things turn around for your family very soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 It sounds like your DH has some promising leads — I hope the WFH option works out for him! I'm sorry things are so hard right now. ☹️ (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 I hope one of the three opportunities comes through soon for your husband and you can both get off the emotional roller coaster and back to more stability. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footballmom Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 You have my sympathy. DH was laid off right as Covid hit and he’s still job hunting. He’s had several second and third round interviews without any offers. A couple of jobs never responded that they went with someone else even after multiple interviews. It is so disheartening to not know why. The seesaw example is the perfect analogy. Praying something comes together soon for you all! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 I hope something comes soon. we did a long stint of unemployment years ago. no fun. My dd was laid off in march when her company all but shut down - so she's also still looking too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 I am happy to hear about your dh's job leads. Sending good luck to him. Sending some hugs to you. I am sorry for the bad day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted November 9, 2020 Share Posted November 9, 2020 (edited) Best wishes to him! I can't imagine the difficulty for you both. When we are going through a rough time I always tell dh we can't both be down at the same time, we have to take turns! Edited November 9, 2020 by Soror Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G5052 Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 I was looking for an update and glad to see that he's at least getting interviews. I aggressively looked for over a year, using mostly LinkedIn and Ziprecruiter. I had some good interviews, but no final offers. In every case where I was in the top 2-3, they hired someone who had previously worked for them. In one case they gave me a verbal offer, and then hired someone who applied the very day I got a verbal offer. It was someone who had interned with them some years before. What can you do? I ended up doing mostly contract work like you are which has it's downsides, but it's income in a field that I enjoy. I have steady work now and am planning my retirement. So it all worked out, but it was sure painful to get turned down so many times. IMHO age discrimination is alive and well, but that's another post... 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 https://www.womenbacktowork.org/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 23, 2020 Author Share Posted November 23, 2020 We are *cautiously* hopeful that there will be an offer letter before Thanksgiving. WHAT a blessing this would be! This is a company where dh applied and then found through linkedin that a former co-worker was a manager there; when he reached out to his friend, it turned out he was the hiring manager for the position! We know they've been calling dh's references, and then the hiring manager called to let us know they'd heard good things and were putting together an offer. We expect it to start in January, but are so hoping for something to bolster our spirits this week!! 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted November 23, 2020 Share Posted November 23, 2020 13 minutes ago, Laurel-in-CA said: We are *cautiously* hopeful that there will be an offer letter before Thanksgiving. WHAT a blessing this would be! This is a company where dh applied and then found through linkedin that a former co-worker was a manager there; when he reached out to his friend, it turned out he was the hiring manager for the position! We know they've been calling dh's references, and then the hiring manager called to let us know they'd heard good things and were putting together an offer. We expect it to start in January, but are so hoping for something to bolster our spirits this week!! This is great news. Will it require a move? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 23, 2020 Author Share Posted November 23, 2020 8 minutes ago, Scarlett said: This is great news. Will it require a move? Nope. This is a work from home job, field applications support engineer. His manager is in Irvine. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted November 23, 2020 Share Posted November 23, 2020 Just now, Laurel-in-CA said: Nope. This is a work from home job, field applications support engineer. His manager is in Irvine. That is even better! So happy for you. 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 YES!!!!!!!!! That is such great news!!! Sending every positive thought your way. I hope the offer comes in this week. Work from home is awesome. Yay. Yay. Yay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 Praying for good news & a generous job offer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 Wonderful news, I hope that offer comes ASAP!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanin Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 Congrats! What a huge relief! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 All the very best wishes for a good offer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 26, 2020 Author Share Posted November 26, 2020 WE HAVE AN OFFER LETTER!!!! On Monday dh will call with a few questions/clarifications, schedule a drug test and (hopefully) sign on the dotted line!! Hurrah, and the best Thanksgiving EVER! Working from home, almost the same salary, a field dh is familiar with, a family-owned and solidly established company. Now we need to set up a home office for dh. LinkedIn is the bomb. Friends who coach you on LinkedIn are super, and we've had an amazing prayer team and generous friends (y'all included) with us through this 10-month (!!) job search. 37 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Congratulations! I’m so happy for you & your dh. Much to be thankful for after a long, difficult 10 months! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Yah! I have said before Dh got every job he has from referrals 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 26, 2020 Author Share Posted November 26, 2020 18 minutes ago, Scarlett said: Yah! I have said before Dh got every job he has from referrals The coaching on how to use LinkedIn really helped -- it's a whole new approach since dh was job hunting the last time. So thankful for friends who helped and encouraged and prayed!! 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 So happy for you! Giving thanks with you! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Yay! So happy for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Congratulations and a very happy Thanksgiving! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Hooray for your wonderful news! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Congratulations! That's wonderful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 11 hours ago, Laurel-in-CA said: WE HAVE AN OFFER LETTER!!!! On Monday dh will call with a few questions/clarifications, schedule a drug test and (hopefully) sign on the dotted line!! Hurrah, and the best Thanksgiving EVER! Working from home, almost the same salary, a field dh is familiar with, a family-owned and solidly established company. Now we need to set up a home office for dh. LinkedIn is the bomb. Friends who coach you on LinkedIn are super, and we've had an amazing prayer team and generous friends (y'all included) with us through this 10-month (!!) job search. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What wonderful timing! Makes this Thanksgiving so thankful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Such wonderful news! I was hoping you'd hear something before Thanksgiving--and something to be truly thankful for! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted November 26, 2020 Share Posted November 26, 2020 Now that I've been officially told I'm not a "good fit" for my job, and I should start looking for a new one (by my current manager), because of the exec I work for who has never been a good fit for anyone he works with--my manager included--I'm going to have to try Linked In. Mine is a sad situation, but you really can't change who people are, so it's just as well if I move on. Sigh, I hate it in life when you put in years of time and effort on something you cared about and then it goes sour, so you memories of it are ruined. That's such a bummer. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel-in-CA Posted November 27, 2020 Author Share Posted November 27, 2020 8 hours ago, Halftime Hope said: Now that I've been officially told I'm not a "good fit" for my job, and I should start looking for a new one (by my current manager), because of the exec I work for who has never been a good fit for anyone he works with--my manager included--I'm going to have to try Linked In. Mine is a sad situation, but you really can't change who people are, so it's just as well if I move on. Sigh, I hate it in life when you put in years of time and effort on something you cared about and then it goes sour, so you memories of it are ruined. That's such a bummer. Sounds like you can find a more pleasant work situation, for sure. DH got the professional membership to LinkedIn and has used it extensively, especially the past 3 months or so, getting up the nerve to contact people he worked with 20-30 years ago and ask if there were opportunities at their present firms, checking companies with job listings to see if he knew anyone there, etc. I hope you do find something better!! My daughter lost her job due to Covid shutdown and moved back in with us last May. She's found a much better job at a much more pleasant place where she is much appreciated...the only interview she had, they hired her and they've already given her one raise. I hope you find something like That!! 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmilyGF Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 So happy for you all! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 So happy for you! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Many congratulations to your dh!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Congratulations!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgo95 Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Yay!! So happy to hear your great news, Laurel!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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